Today, my boyfriend doesn't know if he should break up with me because he loves me too much, or to stay with me and make me suffer. I have no clue as to what's going on in his head. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, I felt a fear that my relationship with my boyfriend isn’t going to last. There’s nothing inherently wrong, yet I find myself thinking of breaking up with him. A lot. I love him and feel like I’m already part of his family, and that's something I don’t want to let go. I don’t know what to do. FML
Today, I realized I'm trapped. I might be heading into an abusive relationship that I won't be able to escape, but I can't leave because then I'd break his heart and I love him too much for that. FML
Today, I have to make a hard decision on whether I should move on and free my boyfriend from me and let him do his own thing while I do my own, or resolve our differences. Advice needed. FML
Today, I woke up to a text from my boyfriend that said, "Dude, I think she knows I'm going to break up with her." FML
Today, I went to see my boyfriend with the intention of breaking up with him. Instead I discovered that he lost his job today and has to move back in with his parents. I can't bring myself to dump someone who's already crying about his horrible day. Now I have to comfort my soon-to-be ex. FML
Today, my boyfriend of two years sent me a text message saying, "Don't worry I'm gonna break up with her soon. Love you." FML
Today, after my long distance "boyfriend" told me he loved me more than the world, he asked for advice on how to talk to girls. He already has a girl from class in mind. What's worse is that I actually haven't broken up with him yet because I know about his home life. I can't help but feel like I wasted my time. FML
Today, I'm in a situation where I'm in a relationship, but he doesn't talk to me at all. He love-bombed me at first, and now I'm not sure how to even talk to him. I hardly know anything about him. I wanna break up but we got together like two months ago. FML
Today, my boyfriend told me he's been having doubts, but he still wants to stay with me. I asked him why he had been so nervous about us and he replied, "I don't know, just thinking about a future with you makes me feel nauseous". We've been together over 2 years now. FML
Today, in the same sentence, my boyfriend told me that he wanted to "spend the rest of his life with me," and "I want to break up with you because I can't face your family." FML
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oh_fml 0
i did this same thing once, i was with the girl for 2yrs and everything i did made me feel guilty.. i still love her but i dont deserve her and she deserves better also it felt like i was holding her back from having a great life.
dizz0rder 0
hit him in the balls, then as he gives you a confused look, WHAM! bitchslap him in the face as hard as you can. That's like RESET for guys, after that he should work fine :D
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Comments (95)
IMthephoenix 12
Mental Illness. Sounds like he might be suffering from Bi-Polar. Kurt Cobain use to have the same kind of episodes before he killed himself. He was sure he was ruining his daughter's life. You need to encourage him to get help.
cwl727 33
Why would you suffer? If you don't like him then dump him.
AwesomeSauce91 2
Just speaking from experience, I dated a guy a long while back who constantly told me that I deserved better and if I broke up with him, he'd understand. When I did come to my senses and ended it (he was possessive, verbally abusive and all-around unpleasant), he went psycho. So in my case, he just said it to get me to reassure him that I would stay. Your guys may have legit self-esteem issues but tread carefully with this one. Especially if he's ever shown abusive tendencies towards you.
AwesomeSauce91 2
*guy
reburkah 17
If you're suffering you need to break up with him, especially if it's going to cause him so much grief. It's better to agree to get over it rather than drag it out.
zefronke8 25
Wat
Boomi 39
Pffft! Probably not far off!
bowiebeauti_fml 7
He's messed up...
lakuwafire 4
Run, he sounds like a nutter