Today, my boyfriend doesn't know if he should break up with me because he loves me too much, or to stay with me and make me suffer. I have no clue as to what's going on in his head. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I felt a fear that my relationship with my boyfriend isn’t going to last. There’s nothing inherently wrong, yet I find myself thinking of breaking up with him. A lot. I love him and feel like I’m already part of his family, and that's something I don’t want to let go. I don’t know what to do. FML
Today, I realized I'm trapped. I might be heading into an abusive relationship that I won't be able to escape, but I can't leave because then I'd break his heart and I love him too much for that. FML
Today, I have to make a hard decision on whether I should move on and free my boyfriend from me and let him do his own thing while I do my own, or resolve our differences. Advice needed. FML
Today, I woke up to a text from my boyfriend that said, "Dude, I think she knows I'm going to break up with her." FML
Today, I went to see my boyfriend with the intention of breaking up with him. Instead I discovered that he lost his job today and has to move back in with his parents. I can't bring myself to dump someone who's already crying about his horrible day. Now I have to comfort my soon-to-be ex. FML
Today, my boyfriend of two years sent me a text message saying, "Don't worry I'm gonna break up with her soon. Love you." FML
Today, after my long distance "boyfriend" told me he loved me more than the world, he asked for advice on how to talk to girls. He already has a girl from class in mind. What's worse is that I actually haven't broken up with him yet because I know about his home life. I can't help but feel like I wasted my time. FML
Today, I'm in a situation where I'm in a relationship, but he doesn't talk to me at all. He love-bombed me at first, and now I'm not sure how to even talk to him. I hardly know anything about him. I wanna break up but we got together like two months ago. FML
Today, my boyfriend told me he's been having doubts, but he still wants to stay with me. I asked him why he had been so nervous about us and he replied, "I don't know, just thinking about a future with you makes me feel nauseous". We've been together over 2 years now. FML
Today, in the same sentence, my boyfriend told me that he wanted to "spend the rest of his life with me," and "I want to break up with you because I can't face your family." FML
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oh_fml 0
i did this same thing once, i was with the girl for 2yrs and everything i did made me feel guilty.. i still love her but i dont deserve her and she deserves better also it felt like i was holding her back from having a great life.
dizz0rder 0
hit him in the balls, then as he gives you a confused look, WHAM! bitchslap him in the face as hard as you can. That's like RESET for guys, after that he should work fine :D
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oh_fml 0
i did this same thing once, i was with the girl for 2yrs and everything i did made me feel guilty.. i still love her but i dont deserve her and she deserves better also it felt like i was holding her back from having a great life.
wontforgetthis1 0
girl ive been there. "life sucks then you die...yea we should be so lucky"
fidrat04 0
whatever man when we say that to a girl its cause we want to do other girls come on wake up
jimmatallman 0
I respect u
bizarre_ftw 22
This makes more sense than what I was thinking. I thought it might be that he has stalkerish overattachment issues that have caused problems in the past, and that he's aware of them but hasn't yet overcome them. Yet as I say, this seems to fit better.
Laylette 21
I feel that. Having attachment issues is hard and you don't know if you want to break it off and let the other person be free or continue clinging onto them because you love them so much.
Sheepiebeepie 26
This was really sad. Don't be so hard on yourself and things would probably work out better.
icanhazfmlz 0
#10, get out, right now.
VanadiumV 9
It's like you knew...
Acesarcasm 0
seems to me like "he's just not that into you" or doesn't "love" you that way.
arsenicalhumor 30
#10, how does that make sense? He said he loves her too much, so that means he is into her. But the way he said it was extremely jumbled and sounding a bit out of line.
frozen_heart 0
he's trying to get you to do the dirty work for him by breaking up with him
domino333 0
i dont know if you've read twilight....but thats exactly Edward's problem. maybe he's trying to be like Edward...
craaaackaddict 0
I really don't understand why people click "You deserved that one" on posts like these. Honestly, that sucks major balls and she doesn't seem to deserve it based on this post. :S
Shabba_13 13
We call them "Trollers"
ihpb09 2
ROFL @ #6 way to tell the guy 4 posts AFTER u to get out. hahahaa
katzepferd 0
yeah thats kinda wierd
Vegansdoitbetter 0
That makes me sad, you do not deserve that and sounds like your guy just wants you to break up with him and trying to guilt you into it. I am sorry that really does suck.
dizz0rder 0
hit him in the balls, then as he gives you a confused look, WHAM! bitchslap him in the face as hard as you can. That's like RESET for guys, after that he should work fine :D
Deadshot108 0
How did you figure that out!?
llamingo 8
That's really messed up
Didifail 0
Well dont know how to explain it, but it is actually possible to love someone to much, becuase f hes strong feelings isnt answered with the same strong fealings from you he feels that he cant be enough for you.. as if theres something more you want that he cant give you, tell him that he has everything you want and try your best to show him that and it should be just fine :) Take care and goos luck =)