Today, I'm in a situation where I'm in a relationship, but he doesn't talk to me at all. He love-bombed me at first, and now I'm not sure how to even talk to him. I hardly know anything about him. I wanna break up but we got together like two months ago. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, after my long distance "boyfriend" told me he loved me more than the world, he asked for advice on how to talk to girls. He already has a girl from class in mind. What's worse is that I actually haven't broken up with him yet because I know about his home life. I can't help but feel like I wasted my time. FML
Today, my boyfriend doesn't know if he should break up with me because he loves me too much, or to stay with me and make me suffer. I have no clue as to what's going on in his head. FML
Today, my boyfriend of 2 years responded to my opening up about how I felt like I was always put on the back burner, was to ghost me for a week, and break up via text. Don't worry though, we can still be friends and maybe later, when he's ready, start the relationship again. FML
Today, I realized I'm trapped. I might be heading into an abusive relationship that I won't be able to escape, but I can't leave because then I'd break his heart and I love him too much for that. FML
Today, I felt a fear that my relationship with my boyfriend isn’t going to last. There’s nothing inherently wrong, yet I find myself thinking of breaking up with him. A lot. I love him and feel like I’m already part of his family, and that's something I don’t want to let go. I don’t know what to do. FML
Today, a friend and I tell each other everything about our relationships, and we’ve been flirting for two years, but we’re not together. I started to have feelings for him, but I didn’t say anything, then the guy started to disappear and I don't know if he has an avoidant attachment, or he's just ignoring me. FML
Today, I ran into a guy who I was completely in love with for months. After a couple of minutes, I realised he totally bores me senseless. What a waste of four months obsessing over that shithead. FML
Today, I’m in love with a man, but he has a girlfriend. We have literally talked everyday for almost a year. He tells me he loves me and wants to marry me, but when I asked him if he wanted to marry his girlfriend, he responded, “I’m not sure…” I just want to be with him, and I feel stupid for it. FML
Today, I was talking to a guy I've recently started developing feelings for. We've been talking for a while, but he revealed that he wasn't being serious with anything we've been talking about, and didn't have any feelings for me. FML
Today, I tried to talk to my soon-to-be-husband about how he needs to take a more active approach in his own life. It devolved to him screaming at me and putting words in my mouth. This has been going on for six months. FML
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Top comments
Justkidding100 41
1. that's exactly a reason to break up with someone! 2. this sounds like people with the dating experience of middle schoolers. just break up. it's not that serious.
Iamthebanzai22 21
If he is that disinterested in your happiness that he doesn't put effort into keeping channels of communication open, you have every right, and every obligation to yourself, to break up with him. It's not going to get any easier, you have already wasted 2 months of your life. Don't waste any more.
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Justkidding100 41
1. that's exactly a reason to break up with someone! 2. this sounds like people with the dating experience of middle schoolers. just break up. it's not that serious.
Iamthebanzai22 21
If he is that disinterested in your happiness that he doesn't put effort into keeping channels of communication open, you have every right, and every obligation to yourself, to break up with him. It's not going to get any easier, you have already wasted 2 months of your life. Don't waste any more.
Crowned Sataness 12
yes. it's only been 2 months. why waste any more time? you gotta be in middle school. go do your homework
Hangryko 32
Just block his number and socials, and move on.
Iamthebanzai22 21
No, ghosting is not OK. AT least break up, but do break up.
rpy13 13
Um… you’re not in a relationship, fyi. How can anyone be this delusional 😂
Underscore_foo 5
What age are you for real? it’s been 2 months. Break up with him and move on, you won’t feel sad about it.
FluffythePink 23
"He love bombed me to get his leg over and now he's had his fun he's not even slightly interested in me and I'm not sure if I should dump him". Seriously, just dump him and don't go out with anyone else until you've had a long, hard look at your self esteem issues. You sound fairly young so a period of genuine self reflection and a little mental renovation will make future relationships better for you.