Today, my boyfriend doesn't know if he should break up with me because he loves me too much, or to stay with me and make me suffer. I have no clue as to what's going on in his head. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I felt a fear that my relationship with my boyfriend isn’t going to last. There’s nothing inherently wrong, yet I find myself thinking of breaking up with him. A lot. I love him and feel like I’m already part of his family, and that's something I don’t want to let go. I don’t know what to do. FML
Today, I realized I'm trapped. I might be heading into an abusive relationship that I won't be able to escape, but I can't leave because then I'd break his heart and I love him too much for that. FML
Today, I have to make a hard decision on whether I should move on and free my boyfriend from me and let him do his own thing while I do my own, or resolve our differences. Advice needed. FML
Today, I woke up to a text from my boyfriend that said, "Dude, I think she knows I'm going to break up with her." FML
Today, I went to see my boyfriend with the intention of breaking up with him. Instead I discovered that he lost his job today and has to move back in with his parents. I can't bring myself to dump someone who's already crying about his horrible day. Now I have to comfort my soon-to-be ex. FML
Today, my boyfriend of two years sent me a text message saying, "Don't worry I'm gonna break up with her soon. Love you." FML
Today, after my long distance "boyfriend" told me he loved me more than the world, he asked for advice on how to talk to girls. He already has a girl from class in mind. What's worse is that I actually haven't broken up with him yet because I know about his home life. I can't help but feel like I wasted my time. FML
Today, I'm in a situation where I'm in a relationship, but he doesn't talk to me at all. He love-bombed me at first, and now I'm not sure how to even talk to him. I hardly know anything about him. I wanna break up but we got together like two months ago. FML
Today, my boyfriend told me he's been having doubts, but he still wants to stay with me. I asked him why he had been so nervous about us and he replied, "I don't know, just thinking about a future with you makes me feel nauseous". We've been together over 2 years now. FML
Today, in the same sentence, my boyfriend told me that he wanted to "spend the rest of his life with me," and "I want to break up with you because I can't face your family." FML
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oh_fml 0
i did this same thing once, i was with the girl for 2yrs and everything i did made me feel guilty.. i still love her but i dont deserve her and she deserves better also it felt like i was holding her back from having a great life.
dizz0rder 0
hit him in the balls, then as he gives you a confused look, WHAM! bitchslap him in the face as hard as you can. That's like RESET for guys, after that he should work fine :D
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Comments (95)
kbond7 0
#1 I was thinking along the same lines. First reaction: he's a serial killer.
Bboy_DiSpirit 24
he probably likes you but thinks he hurts you too much, kinda like twilight
indomitable9 0
HE DOESNT REALLY LIKE YOU! He just wants to break up without hurting you but he's stupid. :)
happygoluckyhh 0
He wants to dump you
shortypie 3
this was my comment. good thing i read everyone else's first! lol. but yeah OP: he really is JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. That same excusewas used in the book as a matter of fact.
MorlekEngel 0
Tell him man the **** up or get out,simple and sorted !
Syrentus 0
A guy I really like doesnt want to date me because he is jealous that, he thinks, I'm stealing his best friend. So he doesnt want ot date me, but does. So he wont unless he figures it out. He is HOT. It sucks. Hope he clears his head.
helpmeiamblind 0
You probably are so insecure that it messes with his head. YDI for being a stupid bitch. I hope he breaks up with you and finds a better woman.
chil1861 0
lol, my bf said the same thing. he likes you but doesn't really know what he wants yet. he prob. doesn't think he deserves you or something along the lines of being very insecure.
Kegokec 0
My hubby did that to me once when we were dating. He came back even after he left me.