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Today, my boyfriend decided he's asexual and dumped me on the spot. FML

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garage_fml 18

I mean, yeah, it does suck to be dumped, but if he's really asexual there's not much you can do. Sorry, OP.

stargirl_95 24

Being asexual doesn't necessarily mean that you don't want to be in a romantic relationship. It just means that you have no desire to ever have sex. Plenty of asexuals go on to have healthy sexless romantic relationships. Unless he is aromantic as well (he has no desire to have romantic relationships) or he felt that a sexless relationship would be unfair to you it kinda sounds like he was just looking for an excuse

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thatoneshadykid 2

One of the biggest problems with modern society. Relationships anymore are about sex, not love.

MiKEMav 2

I'm guessing his next move is a transformation to a hydra? budding with himself lol

Apache117 3

I know how you feel OP

fantasyworld 39

Asexuals can still have and enjoy relationships, they lack sexual attraction.

flossingpancake 18

You don't decide to be asexual, just like you don't decide to be gay. It sucks you got dumped but it obviously wasn't gonna work out

Unlucky1232 20

either he's telling the truth and he didn't know how to say it or he's looking for an excuse.

TheSacredRatty 18

He could not be asexual. Humans do not asexually reproduce.

Geovanny Luna 8

well, if he doesn't have feelings for you or isn't attracted to you, it's better that he leaves now instead of pretending and trying to make things work. don't live a lie. either you love someone or you don't. so many people end up in fake relationships because all they want is not to be alone. but they don't truly love each other. so see this as a good thing. he didn't love you. now it's time to move on and find someone that appreciates you and loves you for who you are. don't settle for anyone just because they are there.