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Today, my boyfriend decided he's asexual and dumped me on the spot. FML

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garage_fml 18

I mean, yeah, it does suck to be dumped, but if he's really asexual there's not much you can do. Sorry, OP.

stargirl_95 24

Being asexual doesn't necessarily mean that you don't want to be in a romantic relationship. It just means that you have no desire to ever have sex. Plenty of asexuals go on to have healthy sexless romantic relationships. Unless he is aromantic as well (he has no desire to have romantic relationships) or he felt that a sexless relationship would be unfair to you it kinda sounds like he was just looking for an excuse

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songofroyalty 6

he seems like a real jerk off!

DogeMan 14

I think someone needs to read more. Hint: it's me.

Queen_of_Night 20

You really think that all of the fighting in relationships is about sex? My first actual fight with my boyfriend as so far away from sex it was ridiculous. Or maybe you think Asexuals don't have a need for intimacy? We do, we just don't think sex is the answer.

wang33334 12

Face it. Op's just not attractive enough. And he's a jerk.

mchmelev1993 10

You know what i think life would be great if we were all asexual. No drama no hard feelings;)

Ichiya 29

And no human race either. yay! heterosexuals are the only way to continue the existence of humans. Sure the other sexualities are perfectly fine but don't try to force everyone to become the same.

_awwhellnaw_ 45

That is not correct. Don't forget about the trans community who can date people with opposite genitals to them. Don't forget about all the frozen sperm and eggs around the world. Don't forget about the fact science has found a way to make babies using only women. So don't be a bigot.

ryegye95 2

You don't just decide your sexuality

Saraphinia 9

I don't think asexual means what you think it means OP, he might've just been trying to dump you without having you take it personally. Sorry!

BrotherPhil 35

Sing if you're glad to be A Sing if you're happy that way...

percyj 12

At least he didn't dump you off the spot! That would be awkward

Queen_of_Night 20

OP, very sorry to hear of your breakup. As an asexual in a relationship with a sexual, kind of sounds like a cop out to me but I don't know the ins and outs of you guy's relationship. As for the rest of you FML forum folk. Hearing so many of you stand up for the Asexual Community really makes me happy! I've been called some really nasty things since I came out! Cheers to all of you!

acciofrenchhorn 16

Or maybe he dumped you because he didn't want to date someone who thinks you can wake up one day and decide your sexuality?