Today, I found out that my husband keeps in contact with the woman he was infatuated with in high school. He texts her more than he texts me. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, I found out my husband is still friends with someone who talks a lot of crap about me. FML
Today, I found out that my wife had been debating leaving me for an old boyfriend from high school. They rekindled their relationship on Facebook, and talking on the cell phone. Both things I insisted she have. FML
Today, I found out that my wife has been having an affair with the guy who's been trying to get our relationship back on track. FML
Today, I found out my husband has been talking to another woman on Facebook. His only defense was, "I thought I deleted the messages." FML
Today, I found out that my husband wants to leave me. I got the message loud and clear when his girlfriend forwarded me screenshots of all their texts. FML
Today, I was sick and tired of my husband talking to his female friend from high school all the time. They reconnected after 7 years and have been talking non-stop day and night, to the point of neglecting the marriage. I told him it was either me or her. He took off his ring and kicked me out of our house. FML
Today, I found out my husband has been messaging younger girls on Tinder and trying to meet up. I asked him why he would do such a thing when we have a healthy sex life. His response was ,“They’re just hotter, just like that senior football player you cheated on me with in sophomore year high school.” We’re 40 now. FML
Today, my wife’s ex-boyfriend sent me a message with a screenshot of her trying to get in touch with him. FML
Today, I realized why my husband had been seemingly wanting to improve our relationship by sending little texts throughout the day for the last couple of months, asking what I was doing. It was so he could find out when would be the best time to have his girlfriend over and cheat on me. FML
Today, I learned that when communication is getting shorter with you, it’s getting longer with someone else. My husband never tells me about his day anymore, but he constantly texts his coworker outside work. He vehemently insists she’s only a coworker and nothing else, and he’s “allowed to have friends”. FML
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Y_U_19029 0
To be fair he probably sees you everyday, where he does see her alot
underyourbreath 8
I would say trust him, but that's just too suspicious. I say get his texts from your phone company, if it's nothing than it's nothing & you can be happy knowing he loves you. If there are some hints then you can think about how you feel with a man who only commits part of his heart to you.
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Comments (153)
IXIDragon 0
Do something about it?
beautiful_disast_fml 2
I agree haha complaining on here won't change your situation. leave him. problem solved ;)
ManaUser 0
Why would he need to text you that much, don't you you live live together?
PugnaciousSaint 0
he is married to you! dah! why would he text his wife more than anyone? he lives with you. crybaby!
gman79 0
ydi, you're probably boring and a nag
TheIrishJaneDoe 9
Eh, classic case of the NEI FML— not enough info. Is he talking about inappropriate things? Telling her stuff before he tells you? Unless there's something obviously inappropriate going on, (and no, hiding it or neglecting to tell you isn't necessarily inappropriate, as he could've considered it trivial or you could have a track record of jealous overreaction), give him the benefit of the doubt. Marriage is about trust, after all. Ask her to have dinner with you two and see if you can be friends with her, too.
spartan_girl 0
I agree, NEI... I think my husband probably texts one of his female friends from high school more than he texts me...but she lives in a different state, and he sees me every day. I don't think he was ever infatuated with her, though, and I'm also friends with her, he's just been friends with her for longer. If these are just innocent "how was your day" texts, it's probably nothing. But, it could also be bad if he still has feelings for her...
Autoshot 9
Sensibility FTW.
sourgirl101 29
TIJD your comments are always like a hidden puzzle. So NEI doesn't stand for the National Eye Institute? (which I've always known it as) so it must be- not enough information. Makes sense. Examples "you" have used in the past SO- significant other IMO- in my opinion ITRW- in the real world I know I'm missing a bunch. Those are the only ones I can think of off the top if my head.(:
sourgirl101 29
Oh and back to the topic. It may be harmless, however it's important to make sure no boundries "EVER" get crossed. He needs to take her feelings into consideration. She knows he's texting her (no secret). Now where do they go from here?
TheIrishJaneDoe 9
:D @ sourgirl. I explained myself this time! I also use FTR - for the record, AFAIK - as far as I know, and my own modifications of common ones like IME - in my experience quite a bit. RedPill takes the cake with YMMV, though. I had to UD - Urban Dictionary that one.
TheIrishJaneDoe 9
I agree with your back-to-topic post, sour. I'd say if it's just an oversight that she's only finding out about it now, they need to sit down and have a frank talk about why, of all the girls in his past, he's talking to this one, and how she feels about that. If he says it's just a friendly thing, then at the very least, she should have the right to access his emails, texts, etc. to put her own mind at ease. In these cases, I think the spouse should be the one to set the boundaries and decide what is and isn't crossing the line. Her comfort should be more important to him than the friendship. That's of course provided that they trust each other, each attempt to see the others' side, and consider how each other would like this to be resolved before making any decisions.
sourgirl101 29
Iaians- (I agree in a nut shell). Did you understand my code?(:
5up3rTAN 0
women like you annoy me !!!! keep him happy an you'll have nothing to worry about
TheIrishJaneDoe 9
Aw, don't pop her bubble, pen. It's cute when they try so hard to seem adult.
SaintE_fml 0
how so??
TheIrishJaneDoe 9
87: How so what? How is that naïve?
mandycandy1288 0
wow what an ass. but then again it could be nothing. I say u talk to him about it. he should be textin u more than anyone else with the exception of his family if he does text them.
Randaahh 0
what's infatuated mean?
lostfaithinpppl 19
There's google, you know ...
TheLetterZero 7
There's google, you know ...
transcedental 18
TheLetterZero - xaxaxxa best comment ;D
purplemonster89 0
who said it was a friend? ur the dumb type of bitch that would let themselves get cheated on. grow up
tigrouficele2012 44
...If he lives with you, and he doesn't see this woman every day, why would he text you more than her?