Today, I found out that my husband keeps in contact with the woman he was infatuated with in high school. He texts her more than he texts me. FML
Collection
Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, I found out my husband is still friends with someone who talks a lot of crap about me. FML
Today, I found out that my wife had been debating leaving me for an old boyfriend from high school. They rekindled their relationship on Facebook, and talking on the cell phone. Both things I insisted she have. FML
Today, I found out that my wife has been having an affair with the guy who's been trying to get our relationship back on track. FML
Today, I found out my husband has been talking to another woman on Facebook. His only defense was, "I thought I deleted the messages." FML
Today, I found out that my husband wants to leave me. I got the message loud and clear when his girlfriend forwarded me screenshots of all their texts. FML
Today, I was sick and tired of my husband talking to his female friend from high school all the time. They reconnected after 7 years and have been talking non-stop day and night, to the point of neglecting the marriage. I told him it was either me or her. He took off his ring and kicked me out of our house. FML
Today, I found out my husband has been messaging younger girls on Tinder and trying to meet up. I asked him why he would do such a thing when we have a healthy sex life. His response was ,“They’re just hotter, just like that senior football player you cheated on me with in sophomore year high school.” We’re 40 now. FML
Today, my wife’s ex-boyfriend sent me a message with a screenshot of her trying to get in touch with him. FML
Today, I realized why my husband had been seemingly wanting to improve our relationship by sending little texts throughout the day for the last couple of months, asking what I was doing. It was so he could find out when would be the best time to have his girlfriend over and cheat on me. FML
Today, I learned that when communication is getting shorter with you, it’s getting longer with someone else. My husband never tells me about his day anymore, but he constantly texts his coworker outside work. He vehemently insists she’s only a coworker and nothing else, and he’s “allowed to have friends”. FML
Feel like sharing it with the other FML users?
Thanks, your FML was submitted, and will appear in the moderation queue soon!
Top comments
Y_U_19029 0
To be fair he probably sees you everyday, where he does see her alot
underyourbreath 8
I would say trust him, but that's just too suspicious. I say get his texts from your phone company, if it's nothing than it's nothing & you can be happy knowing he loves you. If there are some hints then you can think about how you feel with a man who only commits part of his heart to you.
Add a comment · Reply to
You must be logged in to be able to post comments!
Comments (153)
BoxxedSanity 2
I suggest keeping an eye of him, or ask him to hand his phone to you. If he acts defensive, then he is cheating, if he does not then he is not cheating. But, still talk about it with him. Just be a bit easy about it instead of yelling it out at him. marriage should be about trust, not accusations But the former flame is still quite dangerous. you could just text her on his phone to stop the texts and to tell her if she dares to continue she will get her ass kicked and then some. -shrug- just talk to him about it op.
Chocolate_Chunk 2
no matter what you think he did/does, you have no rith to invade his piracy. None. But it's funny that you follow that up with "marriage is about trust". You're probably the type of woman who will open his mails.
auto_da_fe 2
I think every woman has the right to invade her husband's piracy. Arrrh! ?-_* (pirate face)
Chocolate_Chunk 2
****, I must have been really tired when I wrote that. Arrrrrh.
BambooSwitches 0
counciling. lots of it
iceygirl29 0
Thats sooo sad :(
iceygirl29 0
guys are always like that and they never seem to understand that whatever they say means the most (if you like them) and just sometimes go too far and hurt your feelings
hplover32 19
watch out. my husband did the same thing. he has now moved in with his mom because he couldn't 'depend' on me. this is right after she left her husband.
hplover32 19
I had the same thing happen and now I'm going through a divorce. Put your foot down!! stop it while you can.
xxhailstorm18759 7
Stop whining
MissLynn34 11
If its been years since high school, maybe they're just catching up. If he won't let you read the texts, then that's a problem. If he does, then there's no problem
paintedg0dde55 7
Welcome to the club :(
movaa 11
You people are stupid! Don't be so naive. There's no reason your husband should be texting a woman he was "obsessed" with. That's how affairs start and you'd be dumb to think its just innocent "catching up" .