Today, I found out that my daughter not only has a boyfriend, but that they're trying for a baby. She's barely 15. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Same thing different taste
Today, my daughter and her boyfriend excitedly told me that after months of trying they are finally pregnant and that I'm going to be a grandmother. This would be great news if they weren't 15. FML
Three is a magic number
Today, my 15-year-old daughter told me that she's pregnant. To make matters worse, she doesn't know who the father is. She told me not to worry though, because she has it narrowed down to "like, only 3 guys." FML
Today, my 15-year-old son told me that he and his new girlfriend are deeply in love and are meant for each other. The "girlfriend" in question? My fiancé's 12-year old daughter. FML
And yet they say romance is dead…
Today, my daughter and her boyfriend deliberately got pregnant, because they found out if she claimed to be a single mom, she could get a council house and free benefits, and then just move him in with her. They're both 15. FML
Today, my 14-year-old step-daughter announced that she is 4 months pregnant. The father is my 15-year-old son. FML
Are you my new mommy?
Today, I found out that my boyfriend of six years has a five year-old daughter. FML
Today, not only did I find out that my 13 year-old daughter is pregnant, I found out that she did it on purpose "to prove that she’s responsible." FML
Today, I was a bit upset to learn that my 13 year-old daughter had a boyfriend. When she noticed, she assured me that I shouldn't worry, because "it's just for sex anyway". FML
Today, my 14-year-old daughter told me she's pregnant and plans on dropping out of school to live a life on the road with her boyfriend. FML
Today, my 15-year-old birth daughter asked if I've ever had sex. FML
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DeadxManxWalking 27
teach her how it is having a baby, wake her up every two hours at night.
IridianShadow 20
Even better, show her videos of women giving birth. Should make her realize she isn't ready.
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ELoni_fml 25
Maybe slip a birthcontrol pill into her food from now on
damnbrittany 1
When I was 14 my best friend at the time moved in with my parents and I because she was kicked out for having a baby. She stayed in my room and I raised the child for almost two years. Best. Birth. Control. Ever. I never wanted to go through that again. Finding a doll or a baby she is forced to care for would probably be best. Good luck!
adiesso 5
Ahahahahah this made my day sorry op that is ridiculous lol
killer1525 20
Go have her watch the Japanese drama "14 year old mother". Watching that drama could change her mind.
SamiFaye92 15
bet you live in Camborne! if so, surprised she is waiting this long! half the girls I knew had their first at 14!
funkykong_fml 3
spike her food with birth control pills
GhostFox 34
As I understand UK health laws, in regards to minors, you can have her put on a form of birth control regardless of her desires until she turns 18. So, first thing I would do in her shoes is drag her to somewhere and make them put her on a form of birth control that she can't undo or sabotage. Second would be to sit her down and ask why she thinks she wants a baby. Generally speaking, when young people want offspring of their own, it is because they want someone who will love them unconditionally, want to bind the father of the child to them, or otherwise have some sort of emotional issue, with the pregnancy seeking being a coping mechanism. Depending on her answer, you may need to get her counseling. Or you can take her to a counselor about the issue, if you don't want to bother trying to interact with her yourself. Third, get her the experience of raising a baby. Preferably a newborn. Maybe even one with health issues, since people never take the idea of the child being ill into account with pregnancies. If there is a foster system or similar nearby, ask if they would let her work there. If not, ask around for relatives and friends who have children to see if they will let her watch their kids, under supervision. Make her handle things as much as possible- make it clear that while you will keep her from hurting the child, you aren't going to help her anymore than you would if she follows up on her plan somehow. Fourth, sit her down and have her draw out what her budget and schedule would be like with a baby. Then thrown in random issues with costs and time consumption. Neither she or her boyfriend has money? Make it clear that you won't find her journey into madness. Fifth, show her the ramifications of what she is trying to do. Both what it will do to her body physically, and the effects it will have on her socially. Show her the risks she would be taking during the pregnancy just by being pregnant at that age. Show her premature babies, babies with health issues, even stillborn. Show her infants who died due to poor care. I might sound like an ass, but this isn't something people should be gentle about. What OP's daughter is trying to do could have very real, very serious and very dangerous ramifications for both herself and another human being. Once she gets pregnant and past the line where the fetus legally becomes a human being, she isn't just messing with her life, but that of a child's. If she gets tired of taking care of them, it isn't like with a doll- she can't just throw the child away. She has to give the child up to join the tens of thousands of at-risk children in the foster system....or take more drastic measures that would tip her from 'irresponsible' to 'inhumane.' So, again, before anything else, get her a long term difficult to sabotage form of birth control, even if you have to drag her.
speakthylove 11
The human brain isn't fully developed until someone reaches their twenties. For this reason alone, teenagers shouldn't be procreating. They have no earthly idea how hard it would be to raise a child. Taking care of a baby isn't something a child should ever have to do. Please speak to your daughter's boyfriend's parents. They need to be informed. Your daughter immediately needs to be placed on birth control. And definitely not the pill form. I sincerely hope you succeed in parenting her properly before your child, ends up having a child of her own. Good luck!
TheAspieDork 27
Did she get abstinence-only sex ed?
OnlySkyrimStays 11
She's in the UK so she might not have even got ANY sex-ed. It's not required by law so some schools refuse to put it on the curriculum. Mainly as PSHE (Personal, Social, Health Education - drugs, alcohol, and sex-ed) teachers are expensive to train in PSHE, it's expensive to get things for PSHE classes (those drug+effects displays, samples and examples of different kinds of birth control, condoms and fake penises, etc.). At least that was the excuse my school gave. But I do know that sex-ed in the UK doesn't even recognise abstinence as a form of birth control. My little sister goes to a school where in sex-ed they told her "Abstinence does not work. When drunk, you have lowered inhibitions, and there are things out there called rapists."
ChrisMora 16
Bruh...