Today, I found out that, although I have the same job title and complete the same work as my male colleagues, I get paid 15% less, purely because I'm a girl. FML
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Seize the means
Today, I found out I make less money than the temps at my job by over 2 dollars an hour. I've been working there the longest and do 75% of the job myself. I was told, "We'll think about it" when talking to upper management about getting equal pay or close to. FML
Today, after 3 years at my job I received a 14% raise. I was informed I will be transitioned from hourly to salary. I will now be making $1500 LESS than I made last year. FML
Today, I was forced into accepting a "promotion" for a position that pays less than what I get right now. FML
Today, I got a new title at work. My boss hyped it up and made it sound amazing, so I accepted. Come to find out it pays 20k less a year and is twice as much work. FML
Today, I found out that the engineers I work with believe that a woman with an engineering degree working in an engineering company is apparently equivalent to a "secretary for engineers." I am that woman. FML
Today, I found out that, because I'm a student, the employees I train make more than me. FML
Today, after working at the same place for 3 years, I found out that they are not only cutting my hours but now I have to take orders from some girl I trained because she was promoted over me. FML
Today, I found out my daughter has a higher paid job in the same company I work in. I also found out she is dating my boss. FML
Exploitation
Today, despite having made it clear that I'm neither interested, nor I am able to take over the jobs of the 3 members of staff who have recently left, my boss made a "Progress Plan" for me and will check on it weekly. I'm getting paid 1.5 times less than average in my role and he's not giving me a raise because the company is stingy. FML
Seize the means
Today, the person recently hired to work in my spot during my days off started at a higher hourly rate than me, after I have been here for nearly three years. I asked for a raise and got a dollar more; meanwhile, my regional counterparts make 4 dollars more per hour. FML
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itskaybytheway 10
I think you should do 15 percent less work from now on
NeatNit 33
And you've talked to your boss about this?
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ladylilly25 20
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Yay, equality!
dingleberrysteve 6
Yeah but you cannot jump to the inequality argument. There are many factors that determine pay, such as school, gpa, negotiating ability, connections, experience. To assume 2 people that do the same job should get paid the same is silly, this isnt china. That being said, there is a glass ceiling so it is a possibilty. Though 95% of HR people are female so i think this is negated in most large corps.
TourettesGuyFTW 26
I'll probably get shot down for this by ignorant sods but..... women in full time employment are entitled (where given) to 6 months maternity leave at full pay, in the UK. Doesn't that balance out the pay gap somewhat?
Xalandra 17
Yes, of COURSE it does! Because the potential to become pregnant should obviously mean you get paid less. Seriously, what's wrong with you? What if OP never gets pregnant. Therefore it would never equal out. What if she physically unable to get pregnant? Your argument make no logical sense. Try growing a brain learning some decency and then come back to the conversation.
TourettesGuyFTW 26
What's wrong with me??? Did I say at any point that this was my opinion? You hear the phrase gender inequality and you get all riled up without thought. Seriously, don't get your ovaries in a twist.
wallandpiece 16
I think you should just stop talking, you're making it more embarrassing for yourself by trying to justify such disgraceful and outdated sexism here. Just accept that men and women should be paid equal amounts for doing the same job.
hatchworth 15
and people say we dont need feminism
TourettesGuyFTW 26
So...you're all for equal rights, yet crazy people, as my profile explains, are not allowed to have a voice and express ideas. Double friggin' standards I tell thee!!!
the_real_dvd 21
I'm going to play devils advocate here despite Tourette's disapproving marks. There's just not enough information here for me to jump on the sexism! sue! bandwagon. Having the same title doesn't mean she has the same experience, seniority, or even produces the same output as her male counterparts. She could be making the same wages she is now if she were male, since I don't know these facts. If her experience is shared by all her female colleagues then I would be more inclined to believe the company policy is egregious.
hatchworth 15
#91 you have a point i am hoping that is the case for op if not then she needs to have a talk with her boss
doubleddun 9
This type of thing is too common. My advice for op is to be assertive and ask for a raise, nothing else you can really do. You're boss should be obligated to give it to you.
doubleddun 9
Also for the maternity leave thing, I don't know Australia's (as in where I live) policy atm but I know what our sexist prime minister wants it to be (I'm not going to explain it) but I was just wondering if fathers get paid paternity leave? I mean shouldn't they?
wallandpiece 16
So if she has less experience / seniority (or education) than her male colleagues then why is she allowed to have the same job title and complete the same work? Sounds like a classic case of gender discrimination. Something needs to be done.
gracehi 33
133, Gee maybe because she's also qualified. I started my old job as a cashier at $8/ hour. By the time I left that job two years later I was earning $9.50/ hour. There were other people with the same job and title but lower pay because they had less experience. And if OP got promoted, she'd likely be earning less than those in her same position because it would be a new job to her and those other people have more experience. More experience = more valuable skills = more money. It's called "capitalism," my friend. I'm not saying she's definitely NOT bring discriminated against as a woman, but just because she has the same job and title as her coworkers doesn't necessarily mean she's entitled to the same pay.
BubbleGrunge 18
But what if I choose not to have a child? I don't get that maternity leave AND I don't get paid equally?
\ 28
No matter how well-developed or modest your opinion is, TourettesGuyFTW, you will still be subject to distaste if the FML community doesn't agree with you. Not all buried comments suck, so don't always take them personally...
CaitiieBuggs 23
This very thing has been studied a lot, and all the variables gracehi brings up are counted for, and matched (and often with the women having higher/better experience than men) women still get paid less simply for having a ******. Another thing looked into was female to male transsexuals and the men said after they had the hormones and the surgeries, they were treated with more respect and their paychecks were bigger within the same exact job.
Setareh23 34
Not to mention, for the maternity leave thing I don't know about you guys, but here the father and mother each get 1 year paid paternity/maternity leave. Sometimes the father transfers it to the mother so she has two years, but that's up to him. Seems pretty fair to me, I don't see why the woman should get paid less just because she had a baby.
bobo_the_bear 5
126, I am in the USA. I am a new dad and I got 3 paid days off from my company. Legally, they did not have to grant me any paid time off.
gracehi 33
160, While I won't argue that gender discrimination in pay does happen, just because a female gets paid less than her male coworker of the same position doesn't automatically mean that it can only be because of gender discrimination. OP should definitely look into this and speak with her boss if she's unsatisfied with her pay, but she shouldn't jump to that conclusion if that's what she's doing.
TourettesGuyFTW 26
No worries Booda. I wont stop trying to help educate the masses who need educating on life.....or corporate "ethics" as is the case here. It comes with being a teacher. The ironic thing is, I work in a majority female environment. Also, I used to work at a large multinational where I actually questioned the gender pay gap. I was told by both male and female bosses that corporations pay less to women as it's more of a financial risk, that they may fall pregnant and leave temporarily or permanently. And so, they don't invest as much in the salary.
KawaiiCupcake 14
That's sexism in America people! Even thought there are more females on the world and most of us are smarter, and do better in school (fact). We go to school and get an education and in the end get treated unfairly. Thank you society!
TexasBitch 13
Um, holy shit that's a lot of time. Usually it's like three months paid(None for the father). The rest is just PTO.
dingleberrysteve 6
1 yr of maternity leave is absurd
67FML 5
168, if you're in the US and your employer has 50 or more employees, they ARE legally required to give you up to 12 weeks of unpaid time off to care for a newborn--whether you're male or female. Some states offer even greater protection-- but I'm not aware of any that requires them to pay you during the leave.
ElizabethNL93 20
TourettesGuy, just stop talking. Although it may be true that some buried comments are actually insightful or correct, the rest have been buried for a reason. And that, my friend, is because the commentor sounds like a moron.
bethrocksya 9
Here in the United States men get maternity leave as well. At least in PA. . .
tjv3 10
Could there be a difference in years of experience?
\ 28
Sometimes the commentator is a moron, sometimes the voter is a moron, sometimes it's both. In this case, it's the voters.
TourettesGuyFTW 26
One word: bandwagon. Another word: ignorant. Now bury me in negativity. I'm like the electron in a Hydrogen atom - alone. So, so lonely :(
autotuneyoureyes 2
did you actually find that out or copy the statistic off the internet?
NeatNit 33
And you've talked to your boss about this?
saraitkddh 47
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her boss is a sexist he won't change anything about it, it's better that she finds a better job with a better boss
GwylaFelidae 7
Who said her boss is male?
ElizabethNL93 20
87, who's to say that her boss wouldn't do anything about it if it was brought to his/her attention.
itskaybytheway 10
I think you should do 15 percent less work from now on
cgart96 15
And probably get fired? What a great way to go about things!
Ambrily 27
You seem to know what sarcasm is, #85. ;-)
FreakoHolm 6
He just used sarcasm. Obvious as hell, but still sarcasm.
therouni 23
I know how you feel. Apparently male nurses are worth more than female bc this fucktard moron straight out of school makes the same as me. May not seem like much, but Ive been there 5 years. Hes been there 2 months and is an idiot. I end up doing half his charting for him most of the time. Grrrrr!!!
Palirose 22
Stop doing his job? Medical field is something you definitely don't want an idiot doing. If he/she has no idea what they're doing. You aren't helping them or the patients and doctors by doing their job.
therouni 23
See, Ive tried reporting him before. Nothing comes of it! And I cant leave my already 12 1/2 hours long shift until he is done with his work also. Im stuck between a rock and a hard place.
monnanon 14
oh how i understand that though in a much less important job. i did the work of a manager for a year and a half but still languished on minimum wage. they then decider to give someone who helped every so often doing a tiny part of my job a wage supplement.
SweetasCandy0609 28
#6 I understand that you can't leave until his work is done however if you're doing his work all they see is that's it's getting done maybe by stopping they will understand that he has no idea what he's actually doing and finally fire him you aren't doing him or your self any favors by doing his work, and speaking from someone with a lot of health issues thank you for being such a caring nurse we need more like you.
suri23 11
I say don't do his charting. Let him fail.
thrlyrist 6
Nurses here in Canada all belong to union. If you are both at the same pay grade at the same stepping (seniority) then you would be paid the same. If you have been there for a few years chances are you are at a higher stepping unless your position doesn't have a range. New employees will certainly requires training and supervision. I won't be surprised if your colleagues had to help you out a bit when you first started.
ottokat 15
It's the medical field. Chances are that his work being unfinished would hurt patients more than him.
therouni 23
Well, today I told my boss that my charity for this guy is over. As long as those patients are not in harms way, I will not help him even staple a paper ever again. I also told her I think I deserve a raise... She agreed!!! It might have helped the I showed her a letter I received from another hospital offering me a job, running my own unit, for quite a bit more than I make now. :-) If I didnt love where I am now so much, Id have taken it in a heartbeat.
mullet3388 16
ha make me a sandwich
scooterdude720 19
What are you doing? Take action!
ninjuh_wingman 29
Welcome to equality.
TourettesGuyFTW 26
Death to the west!
the_real_dvd 21
Right 73! There would be no wage gap if women were in burqas and back in the kitchen. The western world is so backwards. *sarcasm
TourettesGuyFTW 26
mine was also sarcasm.... *sigh*
GenH2105 14
TourettesGuyFTW, you are really bad at this.
TourettesGuyFTW 26
Thanks. Any helpful tips?
bayliebug 14
That's crazy :s I didn't really know stuff like that was still going on... Get some people together and get that fixed OP. D:
graceinsheepwear 34
A flash mob. That'll work.
dingleberrysteve 6
must be nice to be an oblivious youngster, the real world is going to eat you.
TexasBitch 13
No need to be a dick. She'll learn when she's older.
lexisJO 11
Time to hire a lawyer!