Today, I have come to the conclusion that my fiancé is the most selfish person I know. I can't talk to him about it, because the conversation will just turn on how I'm the worst person he knows. I don't know what to do. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, I tried to talk to my soon-to-be-husband about how he needs to take a more active approach in his own life. It devolved to him screaming at me and putting words in my mouth. This has been going on for six months. FML
Today, my fiancé told me he wished he never met me and that he wished I didn't exist. Our wedding is next week. FML
Today, my fiancé told me that I need to get out of house and be with my friends. I have no friends here, and my own family doesn’t ever want to go do anything either. I guess I’m not a likable person if even my fiancé is trying to get me out of his hair. FML
Today, my fiancé's ex-wife thought it was perfectly acceptable to give herself a part in our upcoming wedding. She wants to "give" him away to me, the same way a father does to a bride. Apparently, I'm being unreasonable and selfish for denying her request. My fiancé told me to at least think about it. FML
Today, I contemplated leaving my husband because his best friend is overbearing and doesn't respect the boundaries of our relationship, all while talking bad about me to him. FML
Today, I found out that my fiancé has been talking to another girl behind my back about how much he hates being with me. Turns out he’s been talking to her everyday for 3 months, and she kept pushing him to leave me, but he was only staying because I cook for him. FML
Today, I found out that my partner of 2 years has been lying to me and cheating on me from the beginning of our relationship. The worst part is I don’t know how to confront him because I found out by going through his phone. FML
Today, I tried to tell my boyfriend how I have been feeling recently in our relationship. He lashed out at me, saying I was just accusing him of being the bad guy. I guess I'll never express my feelings ever again. FML
Today, my husband explained that talking to me makes him miserable. FML
Today, by helping my sweet, caring boyfriend get over his crippling insecurities and develop some confidence, I've turned him into a lying, cheating asshole I can't stand. FML
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Top comments
Bogrbon 27
You know what you need to do. Break up and call off the wedding before it’s too late. A ring on his finger isn’t going to make him less selfish or improve your communication.
cuz803 46
You know exactly what to do. LEAVE HIM!! Love yourself and know your worth and leave!
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Bogrbon 27
You know what you need to do. Break up and call off the wedding before it’s too late. A ring on his finger isn’t going to make him less selfish or improve your communication.
cuz803 46
You know exactly what to do. LEAVE HIM!! Love yourself and know your worth and leave!
Brightside86 31
I dunno dating is pretty rough. Is selfishness really a deal breaker, worth being single again?
annaT00many 5
Yes, yes it’s ******* is! It’s a partnership for life and he clearly isn’t about that…
Ambrily 27
I'm sorry, this answer is really dumb. Is a miserable life really better than being single, to you? If it is, you may want to consider seeing a professional to address this fear of being alone, because it doesn't sound like you're doing well in your life.
sweetpotato 12
run. before it gets worse
RichardPencil 32
You should take one for the team and marry him. The most selfish person and the worst one should get stuck with each other so no one else has to deal with either of you.
Jonkbaby 23
That is narcissism right there
Charlie Given 28
Ya it's definitely time to leave, I've been with someone like that. This is classic narcissistic behavior it is a form of manipulation and will only get much worse. GET OUT NOW!!!
littleredridinghood 4
Sounds like my wife
soundsfakebutok 10
unless you really wanna spend the rest of your life living with the most selfish person you know, it’s time to pack it in and call it quits. you know this as well as we do
Jon Tessler 14
leave him. he is a narcissist, and he obviously has no respect for your disability. why would you want to be with someone like that?