Today, I have come to the conclusion that my fiancé is the most selfish person I know. I can't talk to him about it, because the conversation will just turn on how I'm the worst person he knows. I don't know what to do. FML
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A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I tried to talk to my soon-to-be-husband about how he needs to take a more active approach in his own life. It devolved to him screaming at me and putting words in my mouth. This has been going on for six months. FML
Today, my fiancé told me he wished he never met me and that he wished I didn't exist. Our wedding is next week. FML
Today, my fiancé told me that I need to get out of house and be with my friends. I have no friends here, and my own family doesn’t ever want to go do anything either. I guess I’m not a likable person if even my fiancé is trying to get me out of his hair. FML
Today, my fiancé's ex-wife thought it was perfectly acceptable to give herself a part in our upcoming wedding. She wants to "give" him away to me, the same way a father does to a bride. Apparently, I'm being unreasonable and selfish for denying her request. My fiancé told me to at least think about it. FML
Today, I contemplated leaving my husband because his best friend is overbearing and doesn't respect the boundaries of our relationship, all while talking bad about me to him. FML
Today, I found out that my fiancé has been talking to another girl behind my back about how much he hates being with me. Turns out he’s been talking to her everyday for 3 months, and she kept pushing him to leave me, but he was only staying because I cook for him. FML
Today, I found out that my partner of 2 years has been lying to me and cheating on me from the beginning of our relationship. The worst part is I don’t know how to confront him because I found out by going through his phone. FML
Today, I tried to tell my boyfriend how I have been feeling recently in our relationship. He lashed out at me, saying I was just accusing him of being the bad guy. I guess I'll never express my feelings ever again. FML
Today, my husband explained that talking to me makes him miserable. FML
Today, by helping my sweet, caring boyfriend get over his crippling insecurities and develop some confidence, I've turned him into a lying, cheating asshole I can't stand. FML
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Top comments
Bogrbon 27
You know what you need to do. Break up and call off the wedding before it’s too late. A ring on his finger isn’t going to make him less selfish or improve your communication.
cuz803 46
You know exactly what to do. LEAVE HIM!! Love yourself and know your worth and leave!
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Comments (20)
taylor_b22 7
You leave.
KingCassie 11
Girl, even if he controls the money, you can still leave! Seek help in the form of a place to live through your family or even shelter services. You got this! Please update us when you've gone,you deserve happiness in life, never misery.
yoitsky9 2
dump him
spinspinsugar 12
run. far, far away.
jordan_ice1234 17
leave him. duh
angi71 4
Run. my fiancé was, too. After 13 years together, 11 married, I realized that I couldn't take the complete neglect for my feelings anymore. I'm leaving.
Taurus_ChicKa 37
You don't know what to do? Dump his ass. That's the blueprint for a very long, unhappy, unhealthy relationship. Get out now while you still can before all the lawyers and arguments over who owns what.
fluffnugget 4
you need to find a better partner. you deserve better.....
randybryant799 21
Don't marry him????