Today, I got into a minor argument with my fiancé. Deciding it wasn't worth fighting over, I shrugged and said, "Really, what are we even doing this for?" To which he replied, "Honestly, I don't know. I haven't loved you in years… Oh, you meant about the fight." And just like that, I'm now single. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, after months of arguing and conflict, I broke up wIth my fiancé. Or at least, I tried to. The wedding's off, but only until he can convince me to want to marry him again. FML
Today, my fiancée called off our wedding out of the blue. After a long discussion about it, it turns out that last week I voiced an opinion about the wedding she didn’t agree with, and doesn’t want to spend her life married to someone who’s going to argue with her every five minutes. FML
Today, my girlfriend and I had an argument. She admitted she didn't know why she was pissed at me, but still is, and now she won't talk to me. FML
Today, my fiancé of two years told me he was bored of me and he'd just prolonged the engagement to see if anyone more interesting would come along in the mean time. He was upset because no one did. FML
Today, the guy that I'm in love with and plan to marry some day told me he would choose a million dollars over me. I got upset and told him I no longer want to be with him. In an excited voice he said, "Really? So are you serious I don't have to worry about this love stuff anymore?" FML
Today, I got in a fight with my boyfriend. I sent him a long message pouring my heart out about how hurt I am that he constantly ignores me or responds to almost everything I say in monosyllables. He texted back "ok". FML
Today, my girlfriend started a conversation with "I don't want to break up" and ended the conversation with "I think I'd be better off alone." So I guess I'm now single. I think. FML
Today, my wife told me how she really felt about me, and said she didn't love me anymore. We got married last month. FML
Today, I responded to an argument with my girlfriend by only using comebacks she'd used in previous arguments. I'm single now. FML
Today, I was out of town on a work trip. I'd fought with my wife before leaving, and I felt bad, so I called her and poured my heart out, telling her how much I loved her. She sighed and said, "Okay, anyway…" and complained about bills and chores for ten minutes, then wouldn't say she loved me. FML
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Top comments
whatarethisss 23
It's better you found out he didn't love you now than after you guys were married.
Emmaray 16
OP, I'm so genuinely sorry. This is awful. I will say though that it's a good thing you found out what kind of person your fiancé really is before you married him. You will find someone eventually who is really the right one for you!
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Comments (106)
mds9986 24
It doesn't always work out in the end. Sorry OP, you will find the right person one day.
ColdRoxas 18
Even though your being nice and supportive which is awesome. Thier is a chance she won't find the right person at all owo gotta be truthful
mds9986 24
Yeah apparently telling OP the right person is out there warrants down votes.
False_Stupidity 42
I believe the right person is out there for everyone but that doesn't mean that everyone will find their Mr or Mrs right.
lilybadilly25 15
@16.. *You're and *there. Grammar.. It's important.
Psychotique_fml 13
Well obviously that marriage wasn't meant to happen. They aren't worth your time.
Laeffy 19
Do you know op? He/She could be a total ass for all we know
NeatNit 33
One of three things has happened: A. The guy proposed when he doesn't actually love OP - wtf?! B. They have been engaged for years, during which he fell out of love. Did they even plan the wedding? C. OP proposed to him. Unconventional, but not out of the question. Why did he say yes if he's not in love? :/
tomvertigo 17
Well #96 - some people are more scared of hurting others then themselves.
kibster9 20
Keep your head up, you will find some one who cares for you!
cole66 14
I love how this stuff gets downvoted, just shows how retarded people on this app are.
Emmaray 16
OP, I'm so genuinely sorry. This is awful. I will say though that it's a good thing you found out what kind of person your fiancé really is before you married him. You will find someone eventually who is really the right one for you!
elusiveshame 22
Why does everyone default to the OP's side? How do you know she didn't treat him like crap over the last few years? Quit perpetuating sexist stereotypes
Emmaray 16
Whether that's the case or not, it still doesn't excuse him from deceiving OP for years.
khorstmye 15
It doesn't mean he was deceiving her. Him staying with her hurt him as well. Maybe he wanted to love her, but just didn't anymore. Those things do happen. You can genuinely care about someone and want to be there for them but not be in love with them anymore
kozzard 17
sometimes there's just no good way to end it. my last relationship I was stuck in it because she had nowhere to go. she had no job, closest family was 2000 miles away, if I broke up with her, she would have ended up homeless and starving on the streets
skylanderninja 14
Most likely, the fiancée did not mean that he that he did not love OP, and was just angry that OP did not care about the argument. Of course, I can not side with the fiancée on this one, because breaking up with someone over that is kind of immature, depend on what the fight was about and if it really was a "minor fight".
Setareh23 34
#68 that's kinda the whole point of the FML: that the fiance was NOT talking about the minor argument, but talking about his opinion on their entire relationship. So yes, if he told her he hasn't loved her in years and expresses surprise that OP was even talking about the argument, it's pretty safe to say his words have little to do with the argument and more with the fact that he hasn't loved her in years.
greeneyedx 23
#28 how in the world was that a "sexist stereotype"?
harleyangel0373 7
#45...unless you're in that position you shouldn't be so quick to judge. People stay in long term relationships for all kinds of reasons. It's not always about "leading the other person on."
marcranger 29
45, to add another perspective to 52's, I was slightly afraid to dump my first assbag ex because he was a passive-aggressive but vindictive ***** with rich parents whose pweshus widdle angel could do no wrong. I dreaded the kind of retaliation the family might be able to dredge up if I made his jobless ass their responsibility again. Luckily, nothing too horrid happened to me after I finally dumped him, but given the past history, I had good reason to wait until I had a solid way out.
tomvertigo 17
Oh stuff it #28. It's a one sided conversation. We aren't here to speculate. Take the post at face value and offer some support.
Enslaved 38
Better to be single then stuck with someone that doesn't love you.
hersheykisses511 18
I'm sorry op but your obviously better off anyway. I'm sure you will find a man that will love you no matter what.
Redoxx_fml 22
Sometimes honesty is the best policy
172pilot 20
As terrible as that is at least it happened before the wedding and not after leaving you to go through a divorce. I wish you the best
whatarethisss 23
It's better you found out he didn't love you now than after you guys were married.
fightyourtitle 17
OP doesn't specify if they're a man or woman.
whatarethisss 23
Yes, when OP said, "To which HE replied"
MegasaurusRex89 28
That is awful, but it would have been so much worse finding out after getting married, or worse, having kids. You'll find someone better.