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Today, I made out with my friend for the first time. He gave me a hickey that can't be hidden. I'm the president of my church youth group and I have to help give a seminar on keeping your body like a holy temple... Tomorrow. FML

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I agree, your life sucks (4587) - you totally deserved it (29325)

On 02/05/2010 at 5:35am - love - by hickey (woman) - United States (Florida)

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you deserved it for not controlling your friend.

#1 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:02am by hate_my_mom

what?? for not controlling a friend?!
ridiculous.

use a bandage.

#4 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:03am by sizar

or a scarf?
say your cold :P

#28 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:20am by HunYoCrazy

turtlenecks and liquid concealed are a hoochies best friends.

#35 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:25am by kyaquatel

yeah, get a fashionable scarf, wear your hair down. wear some concealer anyway in case the scarf slips down.

#36 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:25am by turdburgers

hypocrite op?

#63 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:55am by responses

Eh, things happen.
If you want to get rid of it, just use chapstick. hurts but works. You press hard and rub the chapstick into the hicky and it will push the blood back down the mark will be gone.

#72 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:01am by NikNakAttack

Haha u feelin stupid...

#2 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:02am by fjoson

YDI.. All I can say

#3 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:03am by weheuw

you could of told him not to give you a hickey or not let him suck on our neck period. YDI!!!

#5 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:03am by xViolet11

This. I will never understand the appeal of sucking on a person's neck until it bruises. It's like making your mark.

Personally, I just don't find it sexy when people try to do that.

#45 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:38am by idkweird

sometimes it just happens in the heat of the moment.

#49 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:42am by Horney4her69

#49: Im 27 and have made out with my fair share of people, and I have never once had someone give me a hickey. Because I don't find it appealing when someone is sucking on one spot for an extended amount of time. Actually, I don't see the point of sucking at all. It's much more sensual with just kisses all over the neck.

Hickey's are a teenager thing to do. It's someone marking their territory. Hickey's take work, they don't just happen by accident.

#58 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:51am by idkweird

Agreed. Unless you're a vampire or something, I don't really see what's so cool about sucking someone's neck.

#126 - On 02/05/2010 at 12:10pm by MXavierT

bandage. FTW. go bandaids

#6 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:04am by Ventru

Practice what you preach.

#7 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:06am by alex_vik

YDI for being a hipocrit

#8 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:06am by toeknee33

True story.

#16 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:14am by Nate_Fisher

cur your hair, use a bandaide, and say you got burnt

#9 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:06am by Giant85

Just say it's a burn from a hair curling iron. They will understand.

#10 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:07am by Cthulu

Your body must be one sucky temple!

I'll bet the second time you make out, he'll find out that it's a holey one as well, ya hypocritical slut.

Quit the sham. Either get prim or go slutty. Don't talk one way and go the other. I'm voting for slutty. It's more fun!

#11 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:07am by perdix

....says the guy who sounds like a slut himself.

#33 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:24am by turdburgers

....except he's a guy.

#41 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:31am by Cthulu

#32- to qualify as a "religious freak" you need to be more preachy and less slutty.

OP- YDI, practice what you preach. you can't just accidentally get a hickey, especially a bad one that can't be covered. what the hell did you think would happen when he sucked on your neck for five minutes?

#87 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:17am by KarasuFyre

So it's alright for a guy to be slutty/a manwhore 0.o? (intended for #41)

#88 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:17am by snoosnoo

Just as alright as it is for a girl to be. It's just a girl is going to take more offense to being called a slut than a guy is.

#94 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:23am by Twinklestar

...so this is where my comment ended up....odd

#97 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:27am by KarasuFyre

YDI for letting religion affect your life. Seriously, what's wrong with making out with people if both sides are agreeable to it?

#12 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:08am by watisit

@watisit

You don't want the creator of the universe getting mad! it takes three people to agree to make out, the boy, the girl and Jesus.

#91 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:19am by HumanHunt

i have three brothers who use to come home with hickeys all the time...take a frozen spoon and place it on the hickey for about 30 min and then take a concealer about 2 shades lighter then ur skin color and place it on there...let it dry for about 10 min and then take a concealer thats ur skin color and place that on top of it...if that doesn't work wear a turtle neck :-)

#13 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:11am by lifegrdlover

Yeah, hold a frozen spoon on it for 30 minutes. After about 2 minutes the spoon will not be frozen any longer. You will spend the next 28 minutes looking like a fucking moron for holding a spoon to your neck for no reason. What the fuck??

#60 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:52am by girlygirl666

YDI for being hypocritical. You shouldn't work for a cause you obviously can't even do yourself.

#14 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:13am by PhillyFox

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OP, people like you are hypocrites who give Christians like me a bad name. You completely deserved every bit of it, not to mention that you shouldn't even be the president of your youth group if you're going to undermine what we (Christians) should be practicing on a daily basis. This should teach you a lesson in not only walking the walk, but in humility as well, because you're going to be feeling pretty small at the end of that talk tomorrow night. I can assure you of that.

Next time, DON'T BE A HYPOCRITE.

Also, don't listen to these people who are suggesting that you lie, which will just make things worse, especially if said boy that gave the hickey brags that he made out with a Christian girl. Yeah...you've gotten yourself into a really bad situation, and nobody here can even come close to helping. For now...use a Band-Aid, and pray that nobody asks what happened. (sigh)

#15 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:13am by xxreikoxx

People like you give me migraines. I'm a Christian and guess what-- I've had sex before I'm married. Whoopdeefuckingdo. It doesn't make me a bad person because of it.

#30 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:21am by imajinethat

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Then you know what that makes you, which spares me the effort of having to type it. End of story.

#37 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:26am by xxreikoxx

xxreikoxx. I don't think he's a hypocrite. I'm a Christian and I've had sex too. I don't think that makes me a hypocrit. I think what WOULD make me a hypocrite is if i said 'save yourself for marriage' 'sex outside marriage is a sin' THEN you could call us hypocrites.
I respect you and your decisions a lot, but i'm just saying.

#43 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:33am by mfmylifesrsly

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Just calling yourself a Christian and saying that you've had sex in the same sentence is bad enough. I won't repeat myself. If you're going to consider yourself 'religious' in the very least, then practice what you preach, which includes not committing fornication. (If anyone asks or assumes, I am a virgin woman and have never made out with anybody; therefore, I'm going to be saying these things without shame or regret.)

#47 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:41am by xxreikoxx

I never knew that Christians didn't believe in kissing! I was raised Catholic and I never heard that kissing or making out was a sin!

It's not like she had sex with him. They MADE OUT.

#48 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:41am by idkweird

It's not about being a Christian and having sex obviously... It's about making out with a friend you're not even dating and then preaching to others about not practicing this sort of behaviour.

#51 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:43am by Twinklestar

#48, you need to pay more attention to whom the comments are directed to.
#51, I could have told you that without you repeating yourself. :P

#54 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:47am by xxreikoxx

Whats the big deal, its just a hickey. Also can you show me the passage in the bible that says "thou shalt not make out"? She isn't a hypocrite. If she had sex with the guy she would be a hypocrite. As for having to give your seminar just say you are feeling sick(say you have the runs or something like that so no one will ask questions) and can't make it if you are that worried about it.

#56 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:47am by acesarge

I was replying to 43, 54.

56. There's plenty of things the bible says. I doubt there's a passage saying "thou shalt not suck cock" either but I don't think many religious people would consider that as treating your body like a holy temple.

#62 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:55am by Twinklestar

Hey, xxreikoxx, I really am trying to say this in the most non-judgemental, friendly (Christian to other Christian way) Matthew 7:1-5 "Do not judge, so that you may not be judged. 2 For with the judgment you make you will be judged, and the measure you give will be the measure you get. 3 Why do you see the speck in your neighbor's eye, but do not notice the log in your own eye? 4 Or how can you say to your neighbor, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' while the log is in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your neighbor's eye."
Do I believe it was wrong for her to allow somthing like that to continue to a point she regrets? Yes. As a leader of the youth group she should be a leader (Romans 14:13) "Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in your brother's way."
But still, not your place, or mine, to judge her. Thank you, I know I am long winded.

#66 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:57am by sarahberah

I lol'd at "People like you give me migraines".

#68 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:58am by girlygirl666

#54: I was commenting on what you were saying. You're calling the OP a hypocrite when there is nothing in the Bible about not kissing or making out.

I get the feeling that you aren't that old and therefore don't have a whole lot of real life experience. It's easy to say, "I am a virgin woman and have never made out with anybody; therefore, I'm going to be saying these things without shame or regret" when you havent actually been in the situation.

If you have, that's your choice and it doesn't mean that you are the only right one. I hadn't "made out" with anyone till I was 17. Doesn't mean I thought I was better than anyone else.

The leader of my church (my monsignor) is the ultimate in practicing what he preaches, and also understanding that humans will make mistakes. It's human nature. He preaches loving others as you love yourself and compassion. He has shown all of that time and again. If I ever need to look to someone who isn't a hypocrite, I have him, not some chick who thinks she's better than everyone else because she's a virgin and has never made out with anyone.

#69 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:58am by idkweird

47: Why don't you stfu?! There's nothing wrong with sex before marriage as long as you love eachother.

#71 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:59am by darkmis1

@xxreikoxx. You call yourself a Christian? Your holier-than-thou attitude makes you a hypocrite. Who do you think you are, all but straight up calling idkweird and others who disagree with you sluts?


I think you are a judgemental, sactimonious little bitch who needs to get laid. I suggest some anal. Maybe that will dislodge that stick that's up your ass.

No disrespect intended, of course.

#111 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:52am by girlygirl666

thank you #66! and ya reiko, I wanna know were it says kissing or making out is a sin?
and just cause you say you're a Christian doesn't mean you're preaching.

#114 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:56am by mfmylifesrsly

You're all twisting my words...nowhere did I say or imply 'holier-than-thou.' If you can't handle the truth, then avoiding the subject would be in your best interest.

#124 - On 02/05/2010 at 12:09pm by xxreikoxx

And before you keep talking about how sex before marriage is a horrible sin, think about the fact that so many people in the bible were never married and they had sex. And even then, are you honestly going to do EVERYTHING the bible says to do? If so, then you'll have to beat your wife then sit on the roof to reflect upon it. Don't try to trick me-I know the bible-I USED to roman catholic until I realised how much bull it all is. Now I'm agnostic and things are fine. Don't call somebody a hypocrite if you're going to be hypocritical yourself!

#127 - On 02/05/2010 at 12:12pm by darkmis1

You religious freaks are all hypocrites. But some of you give the best blowjobs. YDI.

#17 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:14am by youthink

#17, don't be so quick to judge us all simply because of one person's stupidity. Not all of us are hypocrites. I'm not defending the OP, I'm defending myself and my beliefs, since OP and I could easily be from two totally different denominations.

#23 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:18am by xxreikoxx

@17 I'm one of those religious freaks that gives the best blowjobs :)

#32 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:23am by mfmylifesrsly

The best blowjobs that you'll never get.

#70 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:58am by PhillyFox

Obvioulsy I have or I wouldn't know.

#81 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:12am by youthink

#70: I went to an all girls Catholic high school....I have no doubt he actually knows.

#95 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:25am by idkweird

Rofl@^^

#112 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:53am by rochound

How does it make sense to say that being chaste is like treating your body as a holy temple, this makes no figurative sense whatsoever. The fact that we defecate, urinate, flatulate, sternutate, etc, etc should be enough to defile our bodies well beyond being a pristine temple.

#18 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:15am by uxoriouswidow

Well said. It baffles me when my friends talk about purity as if it's synonymous with lack of experience.

#84 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:14am by BeeSkwaird

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*facepalm* They're talking in the moral sense, according to their beliefs...and as far as everything you mentioned our body does, it does that to get rid of waste/ protect itself.

#89 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:18am by Whydoyouask

Well you shouldn't preach when you don't follow it yourself so ydi

#19 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:17am by uhohuscrewedup

You deserved it.

#20 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:17am by jeaniechic

Practice what you preach, hypocrite, YDI

#21 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:17am by 050294

@#9

#22 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:18am by Ventru

im with # 1

#24 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:18am by ThE_C_Lo

put green eyeshadow over it, then concealer. works for me everytime.(;

#25 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:18am by catastrophicc_

Know what to emphasize. "YOUR body is a holy temple. MY body is more like a playground."

#26 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:19am by aback

haha

#50 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:43am by guifienta

@aback- The best comment!

#80 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:10am by girlygirl666

@aback- Best comment!!

#93 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:22am by girlygirl666

How come the sewer is so close to the playground?

#123 - On 02/05/2010 at 12:08pm by CallMeHush

curling iron sounds like som1 elses fml don't double post ruins effect

#27 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:19am by Ventru

The other kids will be able to relate to you more (since it's actually something you struggle and have experience with) than they would some prissy stuck-up girl who refuses to even kiss her boyfriend until they're married.

Plus a hickey isn't a big deal anyway. If it really embarrasses you, get some heavy-duty concealer, and layer it on along with powder.

#29 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:21am by turdburgers

Never heard about scarfs?

#31 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:22am by Dazzlinger

why dont you practice what you preach?

#34 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:24am by cadillackitty

There's no proof she had sex. Nothing in the Bible forbids getting hickeys. Therefore, she DOES practice what she preaches (for now).

#39 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:27am by turdburgers

If she was practising what she preaches, she wouldn't need to hide it and it wouldn't be problem.

#73 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:01am by kakek

Christianity breeds hypocrits. Was he your boyfriend or was it just a friend? There is nothing wrong w/ making out or hickies. The bible is not against either. So relax and enjoy the pleasure "God" designed for you to enjoy.

#38 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:26am by kcdarkwolf

Christianity does NOT breed hypocrites. Maybe you've seen poor examples of so-called "Christians" in your life, but I can assure you that not all of us are hypocrites. There are people like us who actually talk and walk.

#52 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:44am by xxreikoxx

#52: The problem with that statement is that Christianity does, in fact, breed hypocrites. As a Christian, you are taught not to judge your neighbors, but to love them as you love yourself. When someone sees themself as making no mistakes, they look down on others. They see other's mistakes as making them hypocrites, or unworthy.

Jesus took a prostitute as one of his closest friends. He healed people that others saw as unclean or unworthy. He also forgave. It amazes me when people who claim to be Christian look down upon others.

#100 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:30am by idkweird

There are a lot of Christians like that, but also a lot who aren't. You just hear more about the judging ones because they're the outspoken obnoxious ones.

#105 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:42am by imajinethat

Ive seen it. I know there are a lot who don't feel that way, but there are a ton who tell other people that they are going to hell because they don't believe in a Christian god.

I actually watched a DEEPLY religious family drop one of the members of their family because she came out of the closet. Her friends and family just dropped her. I was just kind of like, "DUH?" My monsignor never treated her any differently, though. Just because she's gay doesn't mean she's any less religious or active in the church.

Ive seen so many that I thought were good just turn on others because they weren't good enough. I almost left the church at that point. If it hadn't been for my monsignor's actions, I don't think I could have stayed. Especially in a church that taught so much love and compassion for others.

#109 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:49am by idkweird

When atheists focus our critiques on conservative or extremist religions, we get accused of ignoring the tolerant progressive ones and lumping all religions together. But when we do criticize progressive or moderate religions, we're accused of mean-spirited overkill, of alienating people who could be our allies.

#113 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:55am by gte2845

I agree with idkweird all the way. there are tons of Christians (or very religious people in general) who act high and mighty, which in turn means they think everyone else is below them. even as a kid (12? maybe) people told me they would "pray for my soul" and told me i was evil because of my beliefs. i have rarely met a relgious person who practices everything they preach.

#118 - On 02/05/2010 at 12:02pm by KarasuFyre

I basically see it like this: If you get enough people together in one "group" you're going to have some bad apples. In religion, those bad apples get to use "religion" or "God" to hide their disgusting hypocrisies or judgements.

There is always good and bad when you get enough people together.

#119 - On 02/05/2010 at 12:05pm by idkweird

idkwierd gets my vote for best comentator(sp?) of the day!

#121 - On 02/05/2010 at 12:07pm by teacher411

Big fat PHOOOOONNNNNNEEEEEYYYYYYY.

#40 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:28am by tipoo

I don't know why everyone assumes said hickey was on the neck. I've seen ones on faces before.

#42 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:33am by ardnaid

maybe you shouldn't be president of the youth group!

#44 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:34am by juju2

Oil-based concealer and having your hair down SHOULD do the trick. But DEFINITELY use the concealer if you can't work with your hair.

#46 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:38am by kyutiepii

religious hypocrisy ftw!!

#53 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:45am by bugmenotmofo

If you belive in something.. don't go against it. You're a hyposrite. You totally deserve this.

#55 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:47am by Lisa89

A seminar?!?! What a poor word choice! Seminar has the same Latin root as semen. It's kinda ironic to have a seminar about not releasing semen.

#59 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:51am by perdix

Haha, I LOL'd at this.

#75 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:02am by idkweird

make curling iron burns all over your neck and face, claim they are chickenpox and ask the group to pray for you.

#61 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:53am by eggman37

you deserve it cuz you don't even practice what you belies and then u wanna go teach it

#64 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:55am by xxjona777xx

You deserve it for being a youth group leader. XD What sort of messed up institution would declare a basic part of human nature as sinful? Oh yeah...the Church. If you can't follow all their weird little restrictions yourself, you really shouldn't be telling other people what they can and can't do.

#65 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:57am by superheathen

Man, we always had REAL people as leaders in my youth group. People who made mistakes and were willing to talk about them as a way to teach others. I will never understand this crap where people pretend to be better than they are.

#78 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:04am by idkweird

Search your heart and be honest.

#67 - On 02/05/2010 at 10:57am by ColdGold

Use a quarter and rub it back and forth over the hickey. It will break up the blood vessels and go away. It really works!! Is next week gonna be over hypocrites??? That would be great.

#74 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:01am by pjfromok

I hope you're not looking for sympathy.

#76 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:04am by Whydoyouask

You're not a hipocrit - Christians make mistakes, a hickey isn't the end of the world - maybe just a little embarrassing when talking to your youth group. I tend to think the people you learn the most from are the one's who have been through what they're talking about in the first place. Hope it goes well x

#77 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:04am by that20sgirl

Bummer. d;

#79 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:07am by SadFailures

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#82 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:12am by enlitenbank

What I am saying is there's nothing religious about being DECENT.
The only things I agree with the new testament on; be nice to others and be decent, is the only thing some of you LEAVE OUT.

Can't, fucking, grasp, that.

#86 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:15am by enlitenbank

That's what I was taught as a child. I often go out of my way to treat people how I'd like to be treated. It's why I'm so open about my life and my flaws. I try not to be deceitful because I wouldn't want that.

Those parts of the Bible are the things I really took to heart, and luckily I didn't grow up in a church/school that taught fire and brimstone. A lot of what I was taught boils down to "live your life as a good person."

#92 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:20am by idkweird

You deserve it for being a hypocrite. Hypocrites should just commit suicide and stop complaining how they hate themselves.

#83 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:13am by AlterEggo

concealer

#85 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:15am by amrit459

you obviously deserve it, practice what you preach next time

#90 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:18am by blu27

use the tip of a chapstick and twist it on the hickey it Will only look like a rash and not a hickey

#96 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:27am by g5unit0

Put toothpaste on, goes away :)

#98 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:27am by sarotare

Here's a bit of advice — don't preach what you are unwilling to practice.

#101 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:31am by blastvortex

First of all, this is just your "friend"? Why are you making out? Second of all just because you make out doesn't mean you got a hickey... And if you did get one how are you not smart enough to hide it? Lol. I am lost.

#102 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:31am by Vehicle

hypocrits go to hell, that's what I learned in church. if you don't shape up you might as well quit attending.


I hate religion and how they tell people what is right, what's wrong, but then don't even practice themselves.

I expect people to practice what they preach.

I gave up on god a long timeago. but that's many many years after he gave up on us

#103 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:33am by Jrook

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1. YDI for kissing bums
2. YDI for being a who-re
3. YDI for not asking him if he had herpes.

#104 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:34am by pepolshet

Your logic astounds me, pepolshet. Why do you say she was kissing a bum? Why is she a whore, she was only making out? What has herpes got to do with anything?

#116 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:58am by pendatic

we all know that god stuff is bullshit anyway. you should quit the church and contibute to planned parenthood or something. do actual good for society.

#106 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:49am by jerrybast

I agree. you are a moron, an you could have stopped the person from sucking on you. I hate hickeys. they are nasty and completely ugly. ydi ya hipocrite

#107 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:49am by xxmarlboroxx

Just because you are christian doesn't mean you can't make mistakes, mistakes are human. An saying that christianity breeds hipocrits is really inaccurate, that comment obviously comes from people who are not christian and are judging the institution from the outside. Actually most christian churches teach that we are not perfect and there for should not judge, we are taught that our mistakes should be forgiven and that we love the sinner and hate the sin. The whole thing about Jesus taking a prostitute as a friend was to show that Christians should not judge and they should forgive others for their mistakes.

And anyone calling a girl a hipocrit because she got a hickey should make sure that they have never had a one night stand that they've regreted and then called another girl a slut.

#108 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:49am by frenchiek8

I was raised Catholic. I see it from the inside. I was using the Jesus taking a prostitute as a friend to prove that exact point. That our religions were based on a man who forgave and didn't judge.

I grew up in a church that taught us not to judge. One that had real people willing to share their mistakes with others. Even in a church like that, I still saw people judge.

It took me a while to come to terms with my religion/spirituality. Though I align myself with Catholocism, I feel I am a much more spiritual person than a religious one. I feel like when the rules start getting added, that's where religions go wrong. People use those rules to condemn others. I, personally, have no right to condemn others. Even though Im completely happy with my life and have little to no regrets about anything Ive done, that doesn't make me any better than anyone else.

My bf was raised in a church where you definitely did not have premarital sex. From his perspective, all it did was lead to younger marriages that, a lot of times, were unhappy and awful. He also grew up in a church where divorce was unacceptable. He still got one, and in turn, showed others that in some situations, it's ok. He said that with his ex-wife, they had spent so much of their time making sure there was no passion in their relationship (because even kissing can lead to other things), that once they got married, they were basically trying to force the passion. He said it was like trying to sleep with a sister.

I choose to never have to go through that, and Im ok with that. I have my own personal relationship with God, and he/she does not judge me for enjoying myself.

#117 - On 02/05/2010 at 12:00pm by idkweird

shit happens, and you can easily bite and suck on a persons neck for less than a minute to give them a decent hickey.. true story.

#110 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:50am by sighfaise

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way to be a hypocrit like the rest of the religous world

#115 - On 02/05/2010 at 11:57am by james224222

Making out with someone when you're a religious person isn't being a hypocrite. Letting someone give you a hickey isn't smart, but it's not a sin.

My friend sticks a spoon in the freezer for a couple hours then holds the back of the spoon against her hickey when she gets them. She claims it works, and I would assume it does since I've come home to see a spoon in our freezer at least 2 times in the last few months.

Next time, OP, tell the person you're with to NOT give you any hickeys or to just stay away from your neck in general if they can't control themselves. Set the boundary ahead of time so there are no surprises.

#120 - On 02/05/2010 at 12:07pm by angel1495

the writer lives in Florida your excuse ideas suck why would they be cold?

#122 - On 02/05/2010 at 12:07pm by mrteacup

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#125 - On 02/05/2010 at 12:10pm by timo1338

Oh another religous hypocrit.....

This is why I stopped going to church

#128 - On 02/05/2010 at 12:13pm by teacher411

practice what u preach!

#129 - On 02/05/2010 at 12:13pm by ambrz

It's really easy to lie to people in church. Just do that.

Or, I don't know, stop living a lie.

#130 - On 02/05/2010 at 12:18pm by fukcre

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