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(cough cough) replying to first just to be read (cough cough)
op, you must be ugly as hell
(i'd rather say "ugly as fuck", but i don't wanna be rude bwahahaha)

you can't even spell "yay"? wow...

"Yay" is not a word, it's a sound. You can spell it "yey" if you think that's how it sounds.

*back to the FML*
Can you really complain OP? This is classic karma at work here. You think some guy is ugly only to find out that he doesn't think you look like the beauty queen you see yourself as. FYL, but not for the guy thinking you're, FYL for being a shallow bitch. Hell, for all we know, you ASSUMED he was talking about your looks. How do you know he wasn't picking up on the fact that you're shallow?

Looks like you two deserve each other.

Lawl your comments are hilarious, Forget the FML you spelled a sound wrong!

Two wrongs don't make a right!

I doesn't necessarily mean that she's ugly. He might have a warped sense of beauty, being ugly himself.

#68. How is it karma if despite thinking this person was physically unattractive the OP decided to give the date and chance only to have a completely tactless and rude gesture thrown back at her? Do we have to control how people think despite the fact that their actions didn't reflect those thoughts?

Well look on the brightside....
wait there isn't one =\

This is something y'all can talk about to to your kids..

"Lemme tell you how I met your mother kids..
"we met in a mall that my bud set up and I thought she was uglier then homemade soup...and she thought that too!! Haha you know the rest..."

Maybe he thought you were way out of his league?

It's karma because, despite the OP giving the guy a chance, she described him as "the ugliest, most disgusting person you' ever meet." I've met some unattractive people in my time, but NONE of them deserve such a harsh label. So everything's fine and dandy, he's "the ugliest, most disgusting person you'll ever meet" but hey, whatever...untill the favor is returned. It more of an "If you can dish it out..." situation. It's obviousy ok for the OP to describe someone as "the ugliest, most disgusting person you' ever meet" but any hint that she might be the slightest bit unattractive herself? Hey...that's uncalled for.

#60, id just like to say, neither did you on comment #54.

(cough cough)
Shallow and shallow go together!

Yea...but three lefts do!

Onomatopoeia words still have spellings. Sure, sometimes it's just common sense, but if I write yey, then it's underlined in red, whereas 'yay' isn't. Yay is in the dictionary, yey isn't.

neither did 54.....
and 'win +1'?????????how much of a nerd can u get, "snort heh heh win plus one!! uber noob alert!! weeze"

Perfect match!

Totally agreed, I understood it that way...

Oh, Twinklestar, you are very kind and generous. You are a very nice person, but I think you've got this one wrong.

Ugly people are not attracted to other ugly people. We ugly guys want to get the prettiest woman we can. Some of us are able to land someone better-looking than we deserve, but a lot of us cannot.

The reason you see ugly people together is that they have both come to the realization that good-looking, or even ordinary-looking people are unobtainable, so they settle for another ugly. Obviously, both of the ugly people on the blind date are not at that desperate stage and think they can do better.

I believe that is the correct interpretation of the story. BTW, I have a great personality!

If by great, you mean horrible, then I agree...

Oh Perdix, I love you.

I agree with #30. The most realistic case is that they are both uglies, but she is slightly more to the stage where she's going to accept and settle for another ugly.

If you're one of those rare breed of people that actually cared about personality, you wouldn't have made those comments in your FML OP.

You're just as shallow as most other people out there. You never really were going to give the guy a chance because he was too ugly for you, you just wanted to appease your mutual friend.

I don't think that's true. Sure, most people care about looks to some extent but that doesn't mean they don't care about other things enough to cancel that out.

Personally I find I view someone different depending on how I feel about them. I have a friend I've had since childhood who I am very loyal to given how long we've known each other but who has a lot of personality problems and is pretty much a downright bitch. People always say she is very beautiful, but being completely honest, I simply can't see it and think she's rather unattractive and she can't keep her boyfriends. My best friend however, who I think is a wonderful person, people never comment on her looks when meeting her, but I think she is quite gorgeous personally and her boyfriends are always crazy about her.

I'm sure the OPs opinion of the guys looks would have a lot to do with his comment. No doubt he was ugly, but perhaps not the most disgusting person she had ever seen. On the other hand, if she'd had a great date with him, found he had a great personality and made her laugh a lot she'd probably describe him as average or not great looking, but not really ugly either by the end of the night. If she said she was giving him a chance, I don't think anyone should disbelieve her.


And I'm guessing she doesn't look like a model or he wouldn't have said anything (unless it was so he could feel he was saving face because she would undoubtedly reject him) but that doesn't mean she was ugly. Have you seen how many guys on internet forums will say any average looking girl is hideous if she doesn't look like a model? Perhaps he was some fat nerd who had developed this way of thinking spending all his time online.

Ouch, Twinklestar! I tried to say how nice you were and this is how you characterize me?

"Perhaps he was some fat nerd who had developed this way of thinking spending all his time online."

Yikes! FYI, I've been losing weight, but I have a ways to go before I'm one of those "After" photos that sometimes show up in the right-hand column. The nerdiness, sadly, is incurable.

I have yet to meet someone in person whom I first met online, but I'd venture to say that if I like them from our online encounter, I'd probably accept someone whose looks might not be as good as what appeals to me in person. I might be the opposite of the guys you encounter on the internet forums, but I think a girl who takes a pleasant, cute picture is probably quite attractive in real life.

I was talking about the guy in the OPs post, not you, and I wasn't saying that was all guys on the internet. Just that it is a lot of guys on the internet, and seems like a very warped way of thinking some guys have developed online ( perhaps offline too, and are not so vocal about it) where girls are either super model beautiful, or dog ugly, with very little middle ground and very little consideration given to their own looks.

Oh, Twinklestar, I am so relieved. I'm glad you were not talking about me. Whew!

For the record, your picture looks quite nice and appears to be in that middle ground between "super model beautiful" and "dog ugly," but leaning more to the "super model beautiful" side. ;)

"...was the ugliest, most disgusting person you will ever meet"
maybe her opinion of him went down the drain after she received that comment, before that he could have just been plain ugly to her.

I WISH PPEOPLE WEREN'T SO RUDE ALL THE TIME

UGH PEOPLE ARE SO RUDE AT TIMES

sorry for reposting that twice my cp is messed up and it posted to the wrong person

p.s. i had a online boyfriend who i would normally consider ugly but because of what twinkle star said i thought he was kind of in the middle and i really liked him however we live in two different states and never got to meet and how old are you any ways perdix just curious but um . . . uh oh yeah why don't people put their pictures on here? i would like to see peoples actuall faces some times, my cp not working thats why no pic SORRY TOOK SO LONG ADHD

it makes you desperate! you must be super ugly too for giving the "ugliest most disgusting guy you'll ever meet" a chance

I disagree that the OP is desperate. She was already on a date with the guy so she might as well give him the benefit of the doubt and have dinner with him or whatever. "Giving him a chance" makes it sound like the OP was just trying to be nice and not judge him. Good for you OP! But seriously, what is your friend doing setting you up with an ugly disgusting guy? You'd think that as your friend she would know the kind of guy that you are attracted to.

yep thats what i thought

After you've looked in the mirror, thank your friend for setting you up with someone you obviously deserve; ugly and most disgusting person ever.

perhaps OP is one of those girls who are pretty on the outside, ugly on the inside, and this guy happened to see that in her.

shallow hal wants a gal

Agree completely

Okay, first of all, the girl still gave him a chance. And she didn't call him ugly to his face. The OP definitely has the moral high ground here.

It was rude of him to say that, I'll agree, but I think it was stupid of her to post this FML, as if she's the biggest catch in the world, and this disgusting, lame guy DARED to act as if she was beneath him.

You shouldn't assume that OP has the "moral high ground" as these FMLs only tell one side of the tale. as far as anybody knows, the guy could've figured out OP's shallowness by her body language.

Shallow? Having an opinion of someone's appearance isn't shallow, it's letting it influence your decision.

She was giving him a chance despite his face, whereas he was plainly offended because of hers. Why is she the shallow one?

She's just as shallow as he is. I'll bet she only "gave him a chance" because she got a free meal out of it.

The OP's initial reaction was shallow. But, she didn't say anything to him and was willing to try to get past that reaction. Truth is, upon meeting someone for the first time and not knowing anything about them, you have only their appearance to garner most of your initial impression. Appearance including stance, demeanor, facial expression etc.

Why do you assume that he will someday be happy, whilst the OP will not? You know nothing about him except for the fact that the OP found him physically unattractive, and that he made a rude comment as his first words to her. He may be a completely horrible person for all you know. Meanwhile, she did nothing except acknowledge her gut reaction, but overlooked it in an attempt to get to know him. She might not have even felt so harshly if he was not so rude to her.

There seems to be some notion floating about that women need only look towards men with unfortunate countenances to find caring souls and true love. I don't find any particular truth in this. Some of the most physically unattractive men I've met have also had the nastiest personalities. Granted, I tend to find myself more or less attracted to someone based on personality, but they're still objectively unattractive.

Not that all are like this, I'm simply saying that I don't know if I believe that there is a higher ratio of good-hearted people amongst the homely than the beautiful. I've also known my share of really nice, genuine people who happen to be easy on the eyes. It's judgmental to assume much of anything about someone's personality based on their attractiveness.

I agree with you 100%, Sappheyes.

I agree with you Sappheyes, and the fact that he said that in front of her knowing that she would be able to hear him just proves to me that he isn't a very nice person. Everyone seems to be forgetting that she tried to throw away her first impression and see if he was a nice person.

Wow, you are SOOO misinformed.

Totally wrong, greenfairy!

We ugly guys are not assholes. We give foot rubs and let you use our credit cards.

All we want is a little attention from a pretty girl and maybe some help with the back waxes.

Anyone else think that greenfairy is probably ugly as hell?

This is why you can't let women have independence. All women are useless morons, so just keep them in the kitchen.

see i cant tell if your being sarcastic or not but that is the kind of guy i want and i might get in a few days but where are you from

This comment is scorning the comment which has since been moderated.

lol

Exactly what I was thinking. One of those girls who tries way to hard, puts on too much make up and still think she looks like hot shit while in reality, she's ugly. That's you, OP.

double date silly.

People say dumb things, yes. The boy in your story, however, did not. You were "trying to decide what was wrong" with his "messed up face." If he'd been burned or something, he probably gets treated like a circus freak. I'm sure you'd get pissy too if you had to constantly deal with stares of disgust, nosy questions, and the like. His "messed up face" may not be his fault. Your judgemental attitude, however, is ENTIRELY your fault.

Uhh, sorry to break it to you, dude, but if you followed her around for a year bugging her to go out with you, I'm assuming her thought process went something like "Oh god, maybe if I agree to go out with the creepy stalker, he'll finally leave me alone!" I doubt she seriously wanted to date you. She was most likely just trying to get you to go away. And I don't blame her... overly persistent guys are incredibly annoying.