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By Anonymous - 04/02/2021 21:30

Today, after almost a year of no steady work, I struggled to get anything done once my 7-months pregnant girlfriend woke up at noon. She wanted to talk the whole time, and eventually broke down crying because of her relationship with her mother. I spent the the day consoling her. No wonder I can't get any work. FML
I agree, your life sucks 620
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Are you blaming your year of unemployment on your pregnant girlfriend needing the occasional emotional support? That’s ridiculous. You don’t get work done bc you’re not doing your work, not because of her.

flagbitch 8

I can't make a judgement on this without knowing all the issues going on. Damage has probably been spread out over time/space to reduce impact, but stress adds up. Don't place the blame on a single person, work through the issues. There's probably a lot of misunderstandings going on. I know I'm confused reading this. All we can do is try our best.

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Are you blaming your year of unemployment on your pregnant girlfriend needing the occasional emotional support? That’s ridiculous. You don’t get work done bc you’re not doing your work, not because of her.

tounces7 27

Spoken like someone who has never experienced a toxic relationship.

tounces7 27

Oh god I've been there. Being with someone who is so toxic that THEY are more important than actually getting your lives in order. Because you always have to drop everything for them immediately and can never consistently keep a job or get anything done around the house because you're always catering to their issues.

flagbitch 8

I can't make a judgement on this without knowing all the issues going on. Damage has probably been spread out over time/space to reduce impact, but stress adds up. Don't place the blame on a single person, work through the issues. There's probably a lot of misunderstandings going on. I know I'm confused reading this. All we can do is try our best.

wrenavery90 12

I'm not quite getting this. It's your girlfriend's fault you haven't worked in a year???