By badplannning - 04/10/2015 17:51 - United States - Naperville

Today, thanks to the terrible carpool planning of one of my friends, I had the pleasure of driving both of my ex-boyfriends to homecoming. Neither one of them knew that I had dated the other, but they sure do now. FML
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badplannning 8

OP here. My friend only knew I had dated one of the guys, but admittedly made me drive with him on purpose just to screw with me (I also think she wants us to get back to together). Driving with both of them just happened to be some bad luck, and I didn't have a chance to tell my friend about the awkward situation until afterwards. As far as the guys go, I didn't cheat on either one; I just never discussed my relationship with the first guy when I dated the second guy. It overall wasn't THAT bad of a ride, just incredibly uncomfortable with lots of questions and some sarcastic comments from both of them. It was like something out of a sitcom honestly

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And that's how they became best friends

exoticDeath 20

What kind of "friend" sets that up?? Obviously not a true friend if they willing put you through that. In case she didn't know,what type of friends misses out on two of your relationships? Even if she only knew about one,why would she put him in the car with you?

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That's just bad luck. Sorry to hear about that awkwardness op.

Well maybe yes. It kinda depends on how long the person has been the ops friend and if they were told or not.

I think you need to reevaluate that friendship. Clearly this whole ordeal was premeditated and executed accordingly.

Maybe you shouldn't be playing tonsil hockey in the league if you don't enjoy the competition

Being in two relationships means you sleep around? Is that really the standard now?

missyfiona89 28

It shouldn't be that bad unless you cheat on one with the other.

jairienfaite 20

Yep. That is the first thing that came to mind. Not enough info.

I got the impression that this was a "my NOW ex's" sort of FML.

Sorry your friend did that to you Op.

YDI for keeping your relationships secret from your (ex-)boyfriends. What do you have to hide, unless you started dating the second before you broke up with the first? Sounds like you are more upset that your dishonesty was exposed than the simple fact it might be awkward carpooling with an ex or two.

Okay, but why would you have to talk about your previous relationships? I don't like talking about my previous boyfriends to my now boyfriend. I don't like when he talks about his. If I see one, maybe I'll point him out, but it's in the past. Don't you know, that exes are a no-no topic?

Who cares what they think? They're your exes.

really terrible but i'l call it once in a life time show

For some reason I think this was staged from the start

Sounds mote like your friend did carfool you.