By jlmed - 02/06/2014 23:10 - Colombia - Cali

Today, my university considered it an "embarrassment" that I was going to be the first and only person to graduate from my engineering course, so they gave free passes to two guys who hadn't finished their thesis yet. They were congratulated in the newspaper; I wasn't. FML
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jlmed tells us more.

OP here, since some are curious for updates here it is (I made an account for this!): Sadly there isn't "more to the story", the University wanted more people to graduate and those two guys were the closest to the finish line (aside from myself). I have tried to raise hell, but since this is a very "macho" country no one is willing to back me up. Everyone knows it happened though. The rich old guys who run the University and took the decision in the first place can't even be reached, the only people higher up are government workers who are, of course, all men who are friendly with the rich old guys. Matters like these aren't exactly "priority" even if I did manage to reach an honest person in the government. I'm afraid I'm forced to "get over it" and just move on. Still pissed though. So, I've decided to save up and move to a country where I have possibility of equal pay (another big issue here), so that's all I can tell you guys for now. Thank you SO MUCH for your good wishes and back-up, it's nice to finally see people express the same anger as me. Oh and I graduated in IT Engineering, focused on multimedia, for those who were wondering.

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And then when the recruiters ask about their theses, they'll struggle where you will not.

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Hey OP, want to name and shame your uni/newspaper for us? So we know where to direct the head shaking.

This is actually a pretty neat idea, they could get complaints and bad word spread from all over the world

ohishkabibble 21

That's kinda scary, depending on what kind of engineering we're talking about. If they design things like bridges or buildings, that could very well KILL people! I'm sorry you have to experience that kind of blatant sexism; unfortunately, that's something many women in STEM fields are subjected to. But you'll still outshine those free pass losers, because you obviously worked your ass off to graduate, and that really does mean something! Good luck in your career endeavors, OP :)

They think it's an embarrassment because she, a woman, is the only person graduating from her entire engineering class. It's sexism.

The university is like "Today, only one person graduated from our engineering program. FML"

What's an embarrassment is the fact that your university can't accept that maybe a woman did better than a man hopefully these knuckle draggers they passed won't cause trouble in their carrear

Just reading this makes me angry at the world

martin8337 35

What? No child left behind in trade school or college? Wow.

Wow. I'm really sorry, OP. Sounds like it's time to take action against this example of sexism.