By NordicNathan - 14/03/2016 04:49 - Canada - Burlington

Today, my girlfriend of two months and I are in completely different points in our lives. She ambushed me with ideas of having kids, getting married and being together forever. Currently, my biggest concern is passing the tenth grade. FML
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NordicNathan tells us more.

Hey, I'm the author of the FML. So to clarify I just turned 16, she just turned 17 and is in the 12th grade. I've had my doubts about our relationship for a while because of how incompatible we are as people, but her talking about what she wants to name our kids and how cute they will be was kind of the last straw for me. She said "I love you" after our second time seeing each other and after she had already cheated on me, so I definitely hear all the comments about telling her my concerns and/or breaking up with her. But she cries at the drop of a hat and is what I would consider emotionally unstable, this is also the reason I didn't break up with her after she cheated on me. I wasn't raised to make people cry so I tried to be understanding in the situation. She is so bad that she is still crying about her previous boyfriend while telling me that I'm the best boyfriend ever. So I don't know how to break it to her without crushing her. Any ideas?

Top comments

Not a bad boyfriend. Just a boyfriend that has his priorities straight.

I'm glad for once someone has their priorities straight

Comments

If she's your age, she needs to get a grip. Even if she wants all that one day, it should be years away. Right now the most she should be planning with you is maybe some cool thing to do in the next school break.

Don't feel bad. She will attach to someone else to have babies with.

If your knockin the top of it id be double tarpin the little bloke for safety and do what everyone else said RUN

Haha wow I need an Aussie/US English translator.

No, you're sane and 15, possibly 16. Enjoy being young, there's no rush to have kids and get married when you're still in high school

This is literally me I got pregnant what my daughter and my boyfriend Now fiancé and I was exactly like this

That screams trap. Either don't have sex, or make sure you're the one handling the birth control.

As someone also in tenth grade I'll tell you she's ****** crazy.

Either your girlfriend is really mature or your dating a teacher. Either way explain that you have to be able to take care of yourself before you can even think about bringing a child into the world.

elizacandle 29

OMG no... run away. you're Way too young for that type if thing. you're not in the wrong she is.