FYL! That sucks, i don't think you should of checked JUST to prove your friend wrong though, because if he hadn't of been cheating on you then that would of been really unfair on him just because you wanted to be right. However in this case he was an idiot, not your fault. 'Don't get mad, Get everything!'

owch trhat really sucks !!! But just think, now you can kick him out and then get a house all to yourself !! :D Not sure if that makes you feel any better but oh well !! :)

your sooo right except about 99.9% of men can NOT be trusted at least thats wat i figured out after about the 4th heartbreak. Anyhoo to the OP dnt worry there is still the .1% percent to look foward to!

that is sad..i dont know how girls trust me lol

Are you sure he's not cheating on you w/ your "friend"?

If you say that 99.9% of men cannot be trusted, you should be also applying that to women. If that doesn't sit with you, and it shouldn't, maybe you should consider that it is not the gender that determines the amount of trust someone should put into them but it's the ACTUAL person and their actions. I mean, if you're going to say that 99.9% of men aren't trustworthy, than can you really expect that whoever you are with is in that .1%? Idk, I just doubt that many people wake up and think about intentionally burning the trust between them and someone they care about.. People cheat, but it's their own decision, and is not determined by whether they are a male or female..

Wow, you must have been the top student in math calls.....99.9% - 4% = .1% The people who use this kind of ideology are either 1) terrible at picking out guys because they keep getting cheated on, or 2) such a bad partner they keep driving their significant other away.

Hello, I am the one who submitted this. Basically we have been married for over a year, we've known each other for 3. A long, long time ago, he asked for my myspace and email password, but I refused and told him I didn't want to be one of those couples that has to keep tabs on each other. I wanted us to trust each other. Some time later, he was out and called me to ask me to check his e-mail because he really needed something imporant and he needed it then and there, and he had no way to access his e-mail. I checked and never, ever logged back on from then on, because I seriously (thought) had no reason to. The other night my friend told me that men can't be trusted, and I told her I knew his password but never checked it cause I trusted him. She then started nagging me, saying to just check, cause "If he's not doing anything wrong then obviously we won't find anything!". So, I checked... and I was very upset to find out he has been sleeping with a co worker for 8 months. My friend felt horrible, she didn't really think I'd find anything, but I did. I guess he forgot that he gave me his password, otherwise I'm sure he would have used adifferent account. I haven't even confronted him about it yet, he's over seas right now (his military). For those saying maybe he cheated cause of our sex life; I'll say that when he's actually home, we had sex a lot. I never heard any complaints. It really hurts that I'm home alone with our son, lonely and missing him, and I find out he's out romping around the town. All those times he didn't call me or my son wasn't really because he couldn't get to a phone... cause I found his phone bill on his e-mail account and he's been making calls to this girl. LOTS OF CALLS. I don't know if I will ever trust a person again. I thought he would have been the last person on earth to do this to me. :'(

Hahahahahah! Kill him. Like while he's sleeping tie him to the top of you car, and crash into a tree no joke. (:

#45 Uh, "emotional cheating", have you heard of it? Most men cheat sexually while most women cheat emotionally. They both sort of lead down the same road. It's not the same as "just being friends", there's a fine line. As in, if a woman has a husband, and she's going on dates with another fellow, but they never kiss, hold hands, or have sex, but still have emotions for each other - that's cheating. That's not friendship, and it's most definitely not OK.