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By Clementine - / Tuesday 27 November 2012 11:36 / Australia - Saint Kilda
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  kdog333  |  1

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  superguppy19  |  3

I think it's not good that guys do that they need to be more open to things especially if they have a nice girlfriend that would go out of their way for them like that

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  Driveshaft  |  5

1is right, he is an ass. If anyone is offended, or takes it as a hit to their pride if some one pays, then that is someone you don't need in your life. So op, fuck his life, not yours. You should find someone who deserves you...not that asshat.

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  sens3sfailing  |  24

I would very much prefer to pay for a girls meal and would insist upon it strongly, but I wouldn't get upset of they paid. I would be disappointed for not getting the opportunity to pay, but I would appreciate the gesture and get the fuck over it and be happy I am with such a considerate woman.

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  sp00ky_fml  |  5

Hold on. WTF? Why should SHE have to apologize to him? What she did was a kind and generous gesture. He let his pride and ego ruin what could have been a wonderful date night. He's the one who needs to apologize.

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  jackal181  |  7

Total ass. Usually I pay because I work more often than my girlfriend but during the summer, she worked more and would generally pay. That just makes sense.

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  radiocaf  |  29

I honestly don't think he is worth an apology. If he can't see a nice gesture for what it is rather than getting offended at the one he should love, then he isn't worth the apology. He should be the one apologizing.

By  NissanDriftKing  |  4

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  Miltonius  |  15

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  Angelastic_fml  |  18

I agree that you shouldn't make such judgments from a single episode, but it's the guy who decided the OP was not fit to be his girlfriend after one episode; she's not really obliged to fix that for him. Though I disagree that it's common courtesy for the guy to pay. It's common courtesy for both to pay. It's kind of creepy if a guy (or girl, I presume) always insists on paying for everything, as if they don't think you can afford it or they expect something in return. Once is nice though, and not worth breaking up over.

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  sdh715  |  6

It's not like he just yelled at her and its something to work out. He dumped her. If he's going to break up with her over that, then yeah he is an ass.

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  WhisperSoflty  |  20

36 - I have to disagree with your notion that its somehow "creepy" for one person to pay for dates. My hubby has paid for every date, meal, and activity we've done together all throughout our courtship and marriage. He's not looking for "something in return" and he didn't do it while we were dating because he thought I couldn't afford it. He did it because he considers it the courteous thing to do, as do most guys. There's nothing wrong with the guy wanting to pay, just as there's nothing wrong with the girl paying or the couple going dutch on payment. It sounds like you've had some bad experiences to have that kind of jaded view, as if people don't do nice things just to be nice. I would suggest relaxing a but and not assuming that every kind gesture has an ulterior motive.

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  KMtheDrummer  |  6

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  Pleonasm  |  31

44- That's the literal interpretation, not the metaphorical one, which is a lot more powerful as a word, and is a valid meaning of the word, too. Or would you have the whole human race stop talking in images, metaphors and analogies? "My plan just went down the crapper" "Aw, that's shit" "I'll say, I dropped it in while reading it on the toilet!"

By  kyleekay  |  24

I'm starting to see why marriages don't work out well anymore. If people somehow make it past these TINY issues and get married, I sense that they still have the same stupid arguments, and then just file for divorce. Relationships aren't a walk in the park, people! If you aren't willing to work through your problems, don't date in the first place.

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  Pleonasm  |  31

A very good tip, kyleekay, people should really cheque themselves before getting into these kinds of situations, I mean it would do them a good service. Bistro-ng, OP, and be thankful that you didn't have to wait on hand and foot for this "masculine" moron.

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