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By wrecked - / Monday 9 June 2014 21:03 / United States
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  martin8337  |  35

Or let him find out for himself.

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  VeganVampyre  |  26

But why would he believe some random guy over his wife? All she has to say is "of course I don't know this guy, he's just some lunatic causing trouble" and OP will just end up looking like a jackass.

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  poncho55  |  40

If OP and the woman had dated for two years, I'm sure he had at least one photo of her in his phone. Perhaps even one of them together. He could even show text messages between them as proof. Phones make life simple. All he has to do is find one thing on his phone as proof if the woman's husband doesn't believe him. Or he could state the last date he saw her and ask the husband where he thought his wife was at the time. Idk, there are many possibilities to bring up evidence.

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  VeganVampyre  |  26

These are good points. You're right, I'm sure he could convince the husband one way or another. And now that I think of it, it's also entirely possible the husband already has some suspicions. It's hard to keep something like that a secret for so long. He must wonder where she always disappears to...

By  Whatapuffchild  |  23

oh shoot looks like you were her 2nd choice sorry OP

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We don't know if OP was 2nd, 4th, or a higher/later choice...

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  Whatapuffchild  |  23

how am i bitching. just stating an obvious fact: he wasnt the first choice of his gold digger gf

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We don't even know if she was necessarily a gold digger. We just knew she is trash that no one should want and making OP feel low to somone like that would make him feel much worse than he already feels. No need to point it out if it is already obvious.

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wow maybe you should leave

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  EphMi  |  5

i am confused, is OP implying his girlfriend has always been married for the past 2 yrs and he had no idea about it, or she just got married over the weekend without him knowing?

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Wow #3 you sound worse than OP'S Ex no need to be so mean about it.

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  zBLAKEz  |  23

I don't understood how monogamy takes even an ounce of self-control. When I date a girl I stop finding other girls that attractive anymore, and I know a lot of people who have the same thing happen to them. And even if that doesn't happen, I just don't understand how people can do something that they know will greatly hurt the person they love. Do people who cheat just not feel guilt or what?

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  jenn1808  |  16

Some people are just not wired to be monogamous. But those people should be honest about it and date other poly people, rather than being lying assholes and going behind their partner's backs.

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  GamerG0DDESS  |  29

I'm polyamorous, all those I date are aware of it as well. I've tried to be...monoamorous? I'm not sure how one would spell it, so I'll just say monogamous instead. It wasn't for me.

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  ladyLALAA  |  28

I personally don't believe in monogamy but to each their own. That's what open relationships are for. I tend to be attracted to people for different reasons.

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  feelingold  |  18

32 - wait until you've been married to someone for ten years. Then let's chat.

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  santosb1  |  11

We as humans are not born to be Monogamous.

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I've been with my husband for close to 10 years and I don't feel like cheating yet. I wonder why. Maybe it didn't kick in yet. Maybe I should wait until the day of our 10th anniversary. I'm sure I'll be eating my words then. Right? ಠ__ಠ

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  egrudy  |  9

I've heard a girl say that if she was attracted to someone else then her current lover was obviously at fault and not doing his/her job. Some people are just soulless and entitled, and think the world owes them

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  Coeliacchic93  |  21

#32 apparently that's not the 'norm' I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and since we started dating I am not attracted to anyone else. it doesn't even cross my mind. I personally don't understand people who aren't monogamous, I have nothing against them but I have never understood it. I think it's because I am demi sexual, it's a very interesting thing to research. what I thought was normal and common, isn't as common as I thought.

By  flexbuffxhest  |  5

Punch her in the throat

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  flexbuffxhest  |  5

It's a joke relax

By  Starcatch77  |  20

No matter what happened in her own marriage neither of the men deserve that. If you don't want to stay with someone break up with them, if you do then stay monogamous. Why cheat?

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  zandalee  |  19

But how long ago was it that you last saw your girlfriend? Suddenly she's married?! Wow that escalated quickly!

By  abattior  |  18

if i were you i would waste her 2 years by telling the one she's marrying!

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  Mortoli  |  29

I would still tell the guy. He doesn't deserve a cheating wife unless he's a bad man but from how op called him a gentle man I would ruin there relationship right there by telling him about her.

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