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Hopefully this was not a large sporting event or one of those big public proposals where it ends up allover the Internet the next day and you drink yourself into a coma.

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Hopefully this was not a large sporting event or one of those big public proposals where it ends up allover the Internet the next day and you drink yourself into a coma.

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What makes her a liar 39? Maybe the topic has never come up before. Maybe she doesn't like the idea of marriage and it freaks her the fuck out. Sure, it's all speculation, but no more than your assumption that the only answer possibly able to be provided was "Yes"

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39- theres a lot of women out there that don't want to get married for all you know they may have not been dating long or even she hates the idea of getting married. My husband had to wait almost years to get a yes from me. Everyone is different.

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It's funny how it's assumed that it's either she's leading him on or poor communication. Or maybe she's tried to tell him her views on the idea and OP just don't listen very well. The topic has been well discussed with my GF but I know that if I asked right now the answer would be a flat no. And it might makes things awkward for a bit but I'm pretty sure we'd drive forward and discuss it later.

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he probably bought a wedding ring and nobody commits that much to a joke so she would see through that

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It isn't very clear. She may have wanted to, but just spouted NO out of reflex due to her condition. Or she didn't want to. It's give or take, here.

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So I guess we're just factoring out possible bad timing, nervousness on her part, etc? And I'm sorry, but that's beyond ignorant. It's not just you either want to get married or you're a gold digger. I never want to get married and I'm certainly not using my boyfriend. Love how we all assume they're in a completely happy relationship and at a good stable age for marriage.

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Here's an idea, Op, learn to communicate. Clearly you must be missing something that your GF thought was an obvious reason NOT to get married. Then try again.

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52, you act as if you know for a fact that OP just sprung it on her. Is it not possible that she may have been hinting towards marriage, but when it came around she was too nervous to say yes? Or maybe she was exaggerating her feelings a bit, and OP was led to believe that she would say yes? I highly doubt that he would just randomly propose without a thought as to what the answer might be.

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Maybe he asked too soon and she freaked out? A lot of 'maybe's here so lets not jump to conclusions.

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Yes. Because if OP wants to get married one day, and maybe have kids, he needs to find a girl who will.

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Because that's all it takes to be charged with rape these days, right? "OH SHIT SHE SCREAMED NO, THE MAN IS CLEARLY RAPING HER BRUTALLY, THAT'S THE ONLY EXPLANATION."

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While I am highly confused as to why you would believe him to be at risk for facing rape charges, I am distracted by the deliciousness of your pic.

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3 was obviously making a joke about how easy it is to get charged with rape in America. They didn't literally mean he'd get charged with rape. Get the stick out of your ass, then you'll see it was a joke

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Epic waffles your an idiot! NO!!!! I just yelled no at you.. Now go to jail for rapping me!

I reckon always talk about proposing before actually doing it. Then you know you're on the same page and there's no nasty surprises for either of you.

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5 - I agree. It sounds like OP's girl was anxious and didn't expect it. I'd have a panic attack too if someone proposed to me out of nowhere, even if it was a man I loved.

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Yeah. Thats a shitty suggestion. Clearly if OP proposed, then he's not going to "just move on. :)" Why don't they, I don't know, TALK ABOUT IT?

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The suggestion of marriage gave her a panic attack. I don't think OP and his girlfriend can talk this out.

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I don't see why they can't. When you propose, you're asking someone to walk on the unpredictable road of the future with you. That doesn't at least make you a little uneasy? Plus, there are so many different factors that can contribute to this reaction. Stress, financial problems, etc. etc. Bottom line, talking it out is still perfectly reasonable.

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#28 - I'd say OP and his GF NEED to talk this out. At the very least he needs to understand how he got the signals crossed so he won't make that mistake again.

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7 just because she said no doesn't mean she doesn't like OP. Maybe she doesn't feel like she is ready , because marriage is a big responsibility. OP just give it more time and before you propose next time talk to her give her some hints.

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28 you might get thumbed down less if you grew up a little more before posting your opinion on adult matters several times saying the same damn thing. We get it. You still have your princess wedding hormones and real life hasn't clubbed you upside the head yet. It's okay. We'll be here to read your FML when it does.

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Please explain where in the dictionary I can find the word "souo". And tell me when Apple comes up with an iMature. I'd love one.

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iMature - Apple's new product specifically designed to help people like the gentleman with the booger wall

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*ahem* "She sounds immature for marriage, or even a relationship. It really sucks though. :( Fuck your life."

Perhaps she has some commitment issues. Try talking to her without laying down any pressure and try finding out why she reacted that way.

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