By gutted - / Monday 7 May 2012 02:13 / United Kingdom
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  _ebbonyy  |  11

That really sucks for you, OP but she must have been leading you on! If you thought you two were ready to be engaged and she wasn't ready for it, she obviously lied a bit about her feelings. So unless it was just a shock thing and she came around and said yes, I say forget about her!

  Drigr  |  8

What makes her a liar 39? Maybe the topic has never come up before. Maybe she doesn't like the idea of marriage and it freaks her the fuck out. Sure, it's all speculation, but no more than your assumption that the only answer possibly able to be provided was "Yes"

  FlutterShyy  |  0

39- theres a lot of women out there that don't want to get married for all you know they may have not been dating long or even she hates the idea of getting married. My husband had to wait almost years to get a yes from me. Everyone is different.

  fromthesuck  |  8

It's funny how it's assumed that it's either she's leading him on or poor communication. Or maybe she's tried to tell him her views on the idea and OP just don't listen very well. The topic has been well discussed with my GF but I know that if I asked right now the answer would be a flat no. And it might makes things awkward for a bit but I'm pretty sure we'd drive forward and discuss it later.

By  DaDezza244  |  31

Aww I'm sorry to hear about it. Find another girlfriend or try again when she's ready

  Yaen  |  18

Because she very clearly doesn't want to marry him. If she doesn't expect the relationship to be a lifelong one, then she's clearly using him for either sex or money. Is it bad for OP to want more than that?

  plaguer  |  26

So I guess we're just factoring out possible bad timing, nervousness on her part, etc?
And I'm sorry, but that's beyond ignorant. It's not just you either want to get married or you're a gold digger. I never want to get married and I'm certainly not using my boyfriend.

Love how we all assume they're in a completely happy relationship and at a good stable age for marriage.

  22cute  |  17

Here's an idea, Op, learn to communicate. Clearly you must be missing something that your GF thought was an obvious reason NOT to get married.
Then try again.


52, you act as if you know for a fact that OP just sprung it on her. Is it not possible that she may have been hinting towards marriage, but when it came around she was too nervous to say yes? Or maybe she was exaggerating her feelings a bit, and OP was led to believe that she would say yes? I highly doubt that he would just randomly propose without a thought as to what the answer might be.

By  epicwaffles  |  7

You're actually lucky, you could have been living here in America. Then you would have been charged with rape when she yelled no.

  FMLshark  |  12

Because that's all it takes to be charged with rape these days, right?


3 was obviously making a joke about how easy it is to get charged with rape in America. They didn't literally mean he'd get charged with rape. Get the stick out of your ass, then you'll see it was a joke

By  Zya_fml  |  8

Clearly you are not the one for her. Just move on. :)

  upyourzlolz  |  11

I don't see why they can't. When you propose, you're asking someone to walk on the unpredictable road of the future with you. That doesn't at least make you a little uneasy?

Plus, there are so many different factors that can contribute to this reaction. Stress, financial problems, etc. etc.

Bottom line, talking it out is still perfectly reasonable.

  22cute  |  17

#28 - I'd say OP and his GF NEED to talk this out. At the very least he needs to understand how he got the signals crossed so he won't make that mistake again.

  LolFMLnot  |  10

7 just because she said no doesn't mean she doesn't like OP. Maybe she doesn't feel like she is ready , because marriage is a big responsibility. OP just give it more time and before you propose next time talk to her give her some hints.

  fromthesuck  |  8

28 you might get thumbed down less if you grew up a little more before posting your opinion on adult matters several times saying the same damn thing. We get it. You still have your princess wedding hormones and real life hasn't clubbed you upside the head yet. It's okay. We'll be here to read your FML when it does.

By  SoultheWolf  |  19

She souo imature for marraige, or even a relationship. It really sucks though. :( FYL

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