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Yes, you can cuddle without expecting anything sexual. But I think the point was that normally people cuddle to get a relaxed + good feeling . sexual or not.

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Well yeah, I mean it is usually a good feeling when you're next to someone who turns you on. Maybe she's not ready for sex, though.

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Also possible she is trying to wait until she is married, which isn't too uncommon, and she just doesn't want the temptation.

I don't see the problem here. She likes you but not in a sexual way. Sucks for you but so what? Be happy about her honesty.

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She was turned on, though...so some part of her was sexually attracted. Maybe she's young and not really at that stage yet.

My only guess is that she doesn't want cuddling to lead to something else. She's probably saving herself for marriage or trying to not have sex until she's in a serious relationship. Maybe I'm reading too much into it; but, why else would she want to stop? Another boyfriend?

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Doesn't seem like a very good English teacher if she is telling you to use double negatives...

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Umm... I don't think that's how this kinda situation works... You know, because normally it's consensual and all, yeah...

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How do you suppose it's possible to cuddle someone and them not know your body is invading their personal space?

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