Women don't just wax to please the man they're going to be intimate with; a lot of us do it because it makes us feel more comfortable, both physically and psychologically, during intimacy. So, we're doing it more for ourselves really.

Im a girl btw but the way i see it if i wouldn want to go down on a jungle niether would my partner.

And it's fine if it's that important to you, 69, but the sensations aren't worth the initial agony for every woman. Plus, a number of women really aren't doing it for themselves--they're worried about men being too disgusted to go down on them if they don't, and I think it's worth reminding those women who don't really want to mutilate their pubes that there are men out there who either don't care or even prefer the look and feel of a bush, and it's a better use of money and effort to find one who does than put oneself through costly pain for something that isn't of personal benefit.

74, I don't enjoy giving or receiving oral, so I can't speak to personal preferences on that, but believe me, none of the guys I've been with (I've never shaved or waxed) minded.

Trimming is the compromise. None of the pain of shaving or waxing, hardly any effort, and all the reasons to complain about going down on someone with a jungle are gone.