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By anonymousyo / Friday 24 April 2015 22:04 / United States - Vacaville
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By  aliezzo  |  19

There is nothing wrong with watching porn, and everyone has their preferences. It's natural and part of every teenager's life.

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  Jak0p  |  25

as long as the porn was in a legal way I agree with #1. I couldn't watch my parents straight in the eyes again if they ever talked to me about my porn. it's a private thing and I have reasons not to share it with my family.

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  TheBelt  |  19

Agree, just let him watch he's a teenager he'll grow out of it.

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  TheCookieComet  |  23

I once had a mom but i raped her because i saw a porno on it. I highly doubt this will happen. Let the horny teenager enjoy himself.

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  WhoCouldIBe  |  11

He's a child so what do you expect 78

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  ChibiChick25  |  8

Though, it might be natural to explore one's sexual desires if he is watching something that is disturbing like OP says (for example, hardcore rape porn or not child porn but porn where it depicts young children, I.e. really young looking 18 year olds) then that might be something to address before he develops unrealistic and skewed views of sex.

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  sturschaedel  |  27

"really young looking 18 year olds", while the production might be questionable in the first place, would be right in a teenagers age group, so not disturbing at all. Children on the other hand would be very disturbing indeed, and illegal.

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  1dvs_bstd  |  41

japanese girls puking in each other's mouth, brazilian fart porn, beastiality.. standard stuff, really.

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  Wakachulak  |  22

#50, put me down for rape. I don't see anything else that would make his mom scared. OP is female, because I doubt his dad was going through his son's stuff.

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  whitnayfortooh  |  29

necrophilia, murder..the best Shit in town;)

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  ZombieSazza  |  34

Could be almost anything from incest, rape fantasy, bondage, ball kicking, BDSM, Hentai, midgets, beastiality, extreme stuff like pain Olympics/1 guy 1 jar/2 girls 1 cup, scat, pee, amputees... There's an endless list.

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  sturschaedel  |  27

I'll go with cannibalism. Just because nobody has come up with it yet and it's pretty disturbing. (I don't even know for sure if there is porn about it, but I'm going with rule #34 here.)

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  theTravinator  |  21

I'd say having your mother talk to you about it will scare him straight, or at least make him better at hiding it. My brother once got caught torrenting porn by my mom and it was like a Soap Opera, she was screaming "IT'S NOT REAL!" And my brother responded "It was a moment of weakness!" Classic.

By  Jthewat  |  22

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  Jak0p  |  25

so where is the point of talking to him? just let him do his thing for himself. as long as no one gets harassed by his behavior there is no reason to talk to him.

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  EbyKat  |  16

Avoiding an awkward conversation with your kid is bad parenting when it is a conversation that needs to happen.

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  russfml  |  31

You don't need a to sit down with your kid to talk about porn. Its a natural thing for a teen to do. He isn't getting anyone pregnant it's not quite the same as the sex talk

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  whitnayfortooh  |  29

what if it's incest mom fucking porn? what if he wants to fuck his whole family in one big fucking orgy....

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  oreoeater  |  21

I've been in this situation before and I can say that I did NOT need to have that talk. if he gets stupid ideas about sex he'll learn it along the way. If his morals start getting fucked up then yeah, talk to him

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  piinksock  |  16

Unless it's illegal or he has a whole folder devoted to little sister rape or something similarly disturbing I wouldn't say anything. I think it honestly better people are home safely beating it than getting out there actually doing some of these things.

By  JKPwnage  |  25

Maybe you should talk to him. Not about the porn itself, because every teenage boy watches porn, but about the disturbing topics. Those could possibly influence his actual opinions about sex.

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  WOTAN1488  |  24

I don't watch porn and I'm a teen. ;)

By  bekkylove22  |  23

He's probably on Fetlife if the genres were that "out there" in your opinion. You should totally go browsing and learn about them. You never know, you might be into it.

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  Mauskau  |  34

Yeah, but letting someone find certain genres could spell a disaster. If it's anything to do with children, dead people, gore, that kind of stuff definitely needs talking about before it gets out of hand.

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  ZombieSazza  |  34

Fetlife is a fetish social networking site basically, where people meet up, they often have event nights (like a dungeon, been to a couple and they're very interesting), and folk discuss BDSM and the likes without any worrying.

By  EbyKat  |  16

It is really common for men to have their links pretty much from the get go. It is important you talk to him about how porn and sex aren't the same thing and if you aren't brave enough to say more then Dan Savage's podcast and blog are invaluable resources. He talks to people about how to explore their kinks safely and consensual you and which ones to avoid because the risks really aren't worth it. He also covers general relationship advice but he is a very positive influence for those outside the norm.

By  tnlander  |  20

The best conversation you can have is, is about why he gravitates towards that type of fetish. It may be awkward but also very eye opening to the man your son is becoming.

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  Conradhause  |  6

To all of you moms, stay the fuck out of your son's browser history unless they are under 12, dads already know whats up. If anything porn teaches youth that sex can be recreational and use of contraceptives is effective.

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  Mauskau  |  34

Depending on the type of porn, anyway. Some can be interpreted as "people like being hit during sex, I can force this on people, if I do this I will be guaranteed sex" that kind of stuff. If you don't check it's okay first, it's definitely gonna end up badly. Porn also teaches people that as soon as you touch someone's hair they will start moaning, and they will orgasm in 20 seconds.

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  littlekellilee  |  41

28 his form of porn could be snuff films. That deserves a talking to. Brains develop until a person is 20, so it's important OPs parent is teaching the right things during this time.

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