By Anonymous - / Sunday 24 March 2013 21:33 / United States - Lutz
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  jessi_sunshine  |  26

Definitely agreed. But OP, don't walk into the friendship with the sole intent of making a move. Even if you end up in the dreaded Friendzone, she'll appreciate you a lot more for respecting her as a person and being her friend just for the sake of friendship, rather than having selfish motives under the guise of friendship.

  Dr0reos  |  8

Good man. Although personally I like to start greasing the wheals right at the funeral, but hey everyone's got there own style.

  tjv3  |  10

I'm conflicted I feel like you should have known but then again I feel bad for you since now you feel like dirt. Try being her friend and in time see where that goes

  shellz102  |  12

Even if it was just a break up, OP deserved it because she would need time to recover anyway

  bamagrl410  |  31

An engagement indicates a serious & committed relationship. People get ready to spend their entire life with the other person. That's not something that's easy to let go of quickly. No matter the reason she isn't in the relationship anymore, I think OP acted a little too soon.


I know that most likely wasn't meant as a pun, 13, but yikes. So bad... I feel like I might end up in hell just for reading it like that.

  ScotsLassie  |  6

49 - what a horrible thing to say. If my fiancée died I would obviously tell the people in my life, including coworkers. How can this be construed as blabbing to get attention?

13 - putting a brave face on in doesn't mean not telling others about the death, it relates to how the person is managing their emotions, for example showing on the outside that they are coping when they are struggling inside.

I just can't believe that he didn't hear anybody in the office talking about it as this would only be natural.

By  Enslaved  |  36

Hey, you didn't know.
Why would she remove her ring? She could have still worn it in his memory. I would think-- no ring could be seen as an invitation to be flirted with.

  jem970  |  19

I dont wear anything a guy got me while we dated after we break up. I dont like to look at them and remember them. They are my ex's for a reason. I cant even imagine how she feels. She probably cant look at the ring without crying. I understand her perfectly.

By  martinez121797  |  15

Hey how could u have known its cool now just comfort her then u are in

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