Still holding a candle

By Anonymous - 21/08/2021 22:00

Today, it's been two years since a club trip where I met someone who, for the first and last time in my life of crippling self hatred and depression, I actually believed might like me back. It's also been two years since I heard anything from him, despite him promising to keep in touch. FML
I agree, your life sucks 743
You deserved it 195

Same thing different taste

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TruthSoothsayer 3

I have depression as well, I take Zoloft and have moved on. I've been happily married for 15 years. Get help and move forward. Pretend your rearview mirror doesn't exist.

diraven 15

It's not the 1950's anymore, you don't need to wait for the guy to call you

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How many times have you tried reaching out to them? Have you tried hunting him down?

TruthSoothsayer 3

I have depression as well, I take Zoloft and have moved on. I've been happily married for 15 years. Get help and move forward. Pretend your rearview mirror doesn't exist.

diraven 15

It's not the 1950's anymore, you don't need to wait for the guy to call you

A lot of these issues can be solved with self medicating with alcohol and getting out.

Maybe he lost your info. Maybe he has his own problems that keep him from contacting you. Have you ever tried contacting him yourself?