Throw your mom away

Get the doctor to tell her off. That's messed up.

I am sorry to hear how cruel your mother was to you.

If your throat has been closing up for months and you're alive to tell about it, that looks pretty suspicious. Getting attention was the main reason for this ruse -- making your family's life harder was just a bonus.

Well thankfully a doctor can give you an allergy test as well as tell from visual signs (like seeing your throat and eyes) and easily see that you are not making it up. Take solace in that your mother probably looked ridiculous ranting to the doctor like a mad person about their clearly ill child.

My mother used to do this to me also, my doctor told her off and asked me if I needed help.

OP, I'd recommend checking out r/raisedbynarcissists.

Sounds like my mother

OP I'm not sure how old you are but I would be looking into getting help. Like call CPS if you mom/ parents aren't willing to get you the medical help you need.