Today, after I found out my husband cheated on me and then yesterday had to stop him from trying to kill himself, he's now moved out and has decided that this is all my fault. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, my husband got home from hospital following a suicide attempt that was a hair's breadth from being successful, and told me he did it because he can’t handle being married, being a father, having responsibilities, then he moved out and refuses to come home. FML
Today, my husband left me for the whore he cheated on me with four years ago. I forgave him and took him back then. I guess I deserved this for being stupid and trusting him once again. FML
Today, my boyfriend dumped me after his wife found out about us. FML
Today, my boyfriend broke up with me because his wife found out about me. And by extension, I found out about his wife. FML
Today, I found out that my husband wants to leave me. I got the message loud and clear when his girlfriend forwarded me screenshots of all their texts. FML
Today, I found out that my wife has been having an affair with the guy who's been trying to get our relationship back on track. FML
Today, I found out my husband is still friends with someone who talks a lot of crap about me. FML
Today, my husband scraped his shin while trying to pull down our window blinds. He screamed and shouted at me, because it was "all my fault." How? I opened the blinds the day before, and rolled them up "too high." I'm staying married despite all this toxicity. FML
Today, I realized that if I run out of cigarettes my husband wants nothing to do with me, and when he hits me during a mental breakdown it's all my fault cause I had it coming. He's 40 and acts like this. FML
Today, I found out the love of my life, my husband, is cheating on me. When I confronted him about it, his response was, "Don't blame me, you're the gullible bitch." FML
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xxlk4xx 6
better off without him but good for you for still saving his life!
Bogrbon 27
Like hell it’s your fault. Threatening suicide to manipulate another is abusive and toxic. Only he is responsible for his behavior. He’s the one who cheated, and he’s the one trying to manipulate you to escape the consequences. Usually I’d say to really consider if you can forgive him and if you want to stay in the relationship before starting a divorce, but in this case, I’d say this is a million red flags. Get out. It’ll only get worse. You are not responsible for what he’s done or what he does in the future. Only he is!
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Comments (8)
lev 11
you still did the right thing.
xxlk4xx 6
better off without him but good for you for still saving his life!
Bogrbon 27
Like hell it’s your fault. Threatening suicide to manipulate another is abusive and toxic. Only he is responsible for his behavior. He’s the one who cheated, and he’s the one trying to manipulate you to escape the consequences. Usually I’d say to really consider if you can forgive him and if you want to stay in the relationship before starting a divorce, but in this case, I’d say this is a million red flags. Get out. It’ll only get worse. You are not responsible for what he’s done or what he does in the future. Only he is!
RichardPencil 32
This current mess is not your fault at all. Your mistake was marrying this asshole in the first place.
tounces7 28
Hope to god ya'll don't have kids together.
genuinegoodguy 9
What does it matter what he thinks? He sounds very unwell
kfchicken 31
seems like he has a lot of issues to sort out, and because of his cheating he'll be sorting them out alone. it sucks now but you came out on top when looking at the long term
Win 9
Wow that’s manipulation, gaslighting, self-victimizing and a whole bunch of controlling behaviours in attempts to gain your sympathy. I’m sorry this happened to you OP. This is not easy.