Today, we had my grandmother with dementia round for tea. She looked me up and down and said, very matter-of-factly, "Well, with a figure like that, no one will rape you." FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, we spent the day with my grandmother. During a family conversation, my sweet little grandmother looked me up and down, and without any hesitation said, "I remember you being so beautiful," before looking at my mother, mouthing, "What happened?" and laughing. She's 87. FML
Today, I visited my grandmother who has dementia. She thought I was my father, and told me that I should never have married my mother, let alone have had children with her. FML
Today, my grandmother saw me for the first time in years. "Not all your clothes have to be as tight as condoms, you tramp," is probably the nicest greeting she's ever given me. FML
Today, I was at a restaurant with my grandma. A young, ripped gentleman suddenly walked through the door and my grandma looked at him and shouted, "Look! Eye candy!" as loud as she could. He heard it and was extremely embarrassed. To make it worse, my grandma is a widow, so she might have actually meant it. FML
Today, I was eating lunch when my grandmother came over and started watching me. Suddenly she said, "I see you're getting breasts". I'm a guy. FML
Today, I went to see my grandmother. She has Alzheimer's and doesn't remember me sometimes, and today she thought I was her sister and that I was trying to steal my grandfather from her. She hit me with a cane and called me a slut. FML
Today, my grandmother said to me, "You look just like your mother did at your age. Except you're fatter of course." FML
Today, I asked my grandmother what she looked like when she was young. She casually replied, "I was ugly, sweetie. Just like you." FML
Today, we had a group of friends over, as well as my grandma. She started talking about me when I was a kid, when I suddenly heard her saying, "Well, yeah, she wasn’t a beautiful child, not at all, she looked.… OK." FML
Today, I went to the gym with my grandma. In the span of an hour, she was hit on more than I ever have been in my life. FML
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Top comments
haileyrows 26
Unfortunately, that's not necessarily true because most rapists are after a feeling of power, not a gratifying sexual experience. But I suppose if Grandma is going to insult you at least she tried to put a positive spin on it!
WCARlover 35
Grandmas say the darnedest things
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Comments (65)
Ahill84 6
So by the look of you grandma I just have to say I'm very sorry, because obviously you did get raped before huh
katertott 44
Oh granny! lol I bet that was the dementia talking.
vintageart1994 16
Granny has no chill
MasonSoccer23 15
On the bright side, you're gonna save money on pepper spray
cheshireau 26
Dementia effects people differently. My nan was a bit harsh but when she got worse, she got really nice. I'm sorry you and your family are having to go through this, OP.
Sgt_Jackrum 19
OP here. Just to clarify, I have put on some extra weight over Christmas but I'm working on it! I was more amused than upset by the comment as I'm hardly huge, and I know that she would never have said anything like that when she was well. I think sometimes she just remembers me more as a skinny little girl as opposed to the full bodied woman that I am today!
yankesik 16
Sergeant Jack Jackrum, huh? :D
idk_rose 25
Dementia is an asshole. Sorry, OP.
pacman490 21
That's hilarious.
kittykatjaure 8
why does this sound like my grandparents lol