Today, the girl my ex-boyfriend cheated on me with had a job interview at my place of work. If she gets the job, she'll be my manager. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Same thing different taste
Today, I found out my ex is applying for a job at my current company. She may become my boss. FML
Fate
Today, I found out that my ex-girlfriend got engaged to a coworker. I got her the job. FML
Today, I was working my shift and my ex girlfriend came in to apply for a job. She broke up with me for another guy so i can't stand being in the same room as her. The manager talked to her and decided to hire her on the spot. I need to train her. FML
Get out
Today, I went for a job interview. I'd resigned at my current job and applied for somewhere closer to home. They hired me on the spot, and as I was leaving, I saw my abusive ex-boyfriend working in the store. So… now I'm working alongside my ex who abused me for two years. Time to apply elsewhere. FML
Trading places
Today, my girlfriend who trained me at the job we both work at received a promotion, which left a spot for advancement. I was chosen for the position, and now the guy she's been cheating on me with is training me. Congrats. FML
Today, I found out my boss hired literally the only person in this town who is an ex-boyfriend. I also work with my current boyfriend. FML
Today, my former high school bully became my manager. FML
I can't catch a break
Today, I found out my ex-boyfriend, who I thought was finally out of my life for good, is now dating my new manager. FML
Today, my obsessive ex, who recently cut my phone line to stop me from talking to my boyfriend of three years, got a job at the same restaurant where both my boyfriend and I work. FML
Fancy seeing you here
Today, my manager mentioned that she'd hired a "cute boy" to help me out at work with paperwork. The "cute boy" was my ex-fiancé and now I have to be with him in an office for 30 some hours a week while his current fiancée brings him lunch everyday. FML
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allupinyourmama 0
I'm sorry. that's really gotta suck. I worked with a guy my wife cheated on me with. very ackward.
allupinyourmama 0
Ex-wife.
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Comments (106)
kyarush 10
I agree with Utah. POINT BREAK MAN!! my nickname is Utah cuz of that movie! lol
Xavi89 0
if he Is your ex, why are you bitching?
saywhaaat_01 0
quit your job!
Juneyah1017 9
35, she might lose her job over some weak sex that her ex and the girl had in the past.
Jewelofagal 2
It matters because it speaks to this woman's character. It's highly probable that her lack of integrity will figure in to how she manages a department; the OP is right to be concerned about this woman having any kind of authority over her professional life. This is the exact kind of situation where the OP needs to visit HR to share her concerns about the security of her job (including a request for transfer to another department or under another manager if the cheater is hired). It's best to get the situation documented up front, before the cheater has a chance to undermine the OP professionally.
TheIrishJaneDoe 9
I get that this is a potential integrity issue, provided that the girl in question knew the ex-bf wasn't single when he cheated, or continued to cheat with him after discovering the truth. In that case, a cool-headed, tactful consultation with the appropriate people is merited. I can also understand why OP may want to inform them about the past relationship, in case OP can't tolerate working with the other woman and needs to quit. What I don't understand is what would motivate the manager to undermine OP professionally. People can, and often do, separate private and professional lives. Unless we're missing a key point to the story, I'd think OP would have a harder time separating the two, and that she'd be the one more likely to engage in sabotage-as-revenge. In that case, as I said in an earlier comment, an earlier consultation might backfire, by the bosses giving the manager the BOTD in any conflicts. Maybe I just don't get it because I've (thankfully) never been in a cheater/cheated on situation, though.
Jewelofagal 2
The woman isn't necessarily going to have motivation to undermine the OP professionally. If she has an integrity issue, it's not going to be compartmentalized and restricted to just her personal life. It's going to show up in how she deals with people and situations in her professional life also. If she does have motivation to harm the OP's professional life, her lack of integrity will make the work situation intolerable in a short period of time. For that reason, I strongly suggest the OP take a pro-active approach and create documentation with HR before the interview/hiring is completed. The possibility of this move backfiring on the OP greatly depends on her current reputation with the bosses. If she's known to be a hard working, intelligent, thoughtful, team-player employee, her word on this matter is going to carry a lot of weight and will go a long way to protect her. In any event, it seems to me that the lesser of two evils would be to proactively create documentation versus coming to HR after the **** has already hit the fan. She doesn't (and shouldn't) be malicious about it, but just alert HR to the facts of the matter.
Jewelofagal 2
#85 -- People's personality and characteristics aren't restricted to just one part of their life. If the woman lacks integrity in her personal life, it would be the height of foolishness to believe this trait isn't going to show up in how she conducts herself professionally.
MetalFish 0
I'll be the first to say it; TL;DR
NightSkyx 0
Lol #19 win!
W4X 0
Seriously, FML is supposed to be funny. This is like all emotinal and non-rambo status. Srsly Guyzzz!!1Eleven!111!!1
SaintE_fml 0
don't let her push you out if your job! smile everytime you see her and she'll think WTF! own the situation!
dougierocks 13
ummm... why isn't The OP going for the manager job herself? lack of self confidence? never underestimate your abilities... that's how morons get to be bosses.
krystalluvsu 0
suckz for you! haha