Today, my fiancé and I had a fight over household expenses. He's never had a job in his life, but this didn't stop him demanding that I get another full-time job to pay for video games and beer. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, after spending money on all the furniture and decor in our apartment, paying rent every month from my bank account, paying for all the groceries, and paying for all the dog supplies, my fiance asked why I don't keep saving thousands of dollars every month, while he pays for none of it. FML
Today, my boyfriend got mad at me because I wouldn't use $5,000 to build him a new gaming computer with my surrogate compensation, even though he basically refuses to get a job. FML
Today, I asked my boyfriend to help me with groceries, since the last of my money went to last week's groceries. His response was to start a fight, then tell me it's my fault my daughter acts the way she does, which is when he finally got me to break down and cry. I'm pregnant with his kid, and I also pay 90% of our bills. FML
Today, my fiancé and I had a fight because he wouldn't let me get what I wanted to eat, even though it was my money. He said, "It's way too many calories. I'm supposed to help you lose weight." When I pointed out that I had given up a month ago, he looked at me and said, "Yeah, I can tell." FML
Today, my boyfriend asked me to pick up a few things from the store for him while he was at work. After picking up everything he asked for, I wasn't left with much money so I used $50 from my account. When he got home he then grumbled about me spending all of "his" money. FML
Today, my dad screamed at me because I've been "spending too much money". He's been out of a job for 4 months and I've been giving him 300 dollars a month to help pay for bills... and his beer. FML
Today, my boyfriend keeps mentioning how well his new job pays, while I don’t have any income. He then got upset when I expected him to pay for the groceries I got on my way to his new place. What I bought was stuff I needed so I could cook for him, and for me to eat while I’m there, cleaning and fixing stuff for him. FML
Today, I asked my husband to be a little more responsible, pick up after himself, and spend a little less. I earn more than he does, so it's usually my money that he splurges. He has gone on a non-stop tantrum for the past 5 hours, giving me the cold shoulder, and shouting at me. What have I gotten myself into? FML
Today, my fiancé refused to talk to me because I'm "an alcoholic". I only started drinking like this after we moved in together and he brought me alcohol every day, because he's an alcoholic. FML
Today, my husband and I have been fighting because I gave our son his college fund, even though he got a full-ride scholarship. My husband didn't think it was necessary and wanted to use it for other things. FML
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Top comments
MissHeart 0
you deserve better :/
Sparkiee93 3
Don't put up with that shit OP, dump his lazy ass!
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Comments (433)
Sleepy_Nerd 5
you deserve better op, dump him
lynzwayisbae 4
why is everyone saying that the op deserves it since they are with a man who has never had a job, when if it was a woman who had never had a job, everything would be completely fine?? I am in NO way sticking up for the man, but what happened to equality?
shotgun_girl 17
You assume that in a reversed situation people would not be on the mans side. I saw little evidence in the comments I read that they were advocating for a housewife w/no job situation. I agree she shouldn't marry someone who isn't gonna carry their weight and I would agree if the situation was reversed.
obeykaitlyn 25
you need to kick his ass to the curb and find a real man that is already financially stable. you don't want to be responsible for a man baby
Christopher Jay Fugate 7
What a ******* ****
Boomi 39
YOU for still being with him if he treats you like that, but damn! FYL too
sharond23 10
why are you planning on marrying a man whose never had a job in his life? are you nuts? ydi for being a door mat
lucasj23 11
do you seriously expect anyone to feel sorry for you? you're with a lazy ass who doesn't work and apparently that's ok with you. stop being such a doormat.
404wan 19
this is exactly what you deserve. if you want change, ******* leave his useless ass. clearly he has no intention of ever contributing, and you plan to marry him? YDI YDI YDfuckingI all the way.
Bruce Lofthus 6
and you're marrying him why?
123Puppy 33
I hope you dumped him.