Today, I was proposed to, under the condition that I "get thin" first. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Same thing different taste
Nice guy
Today, I asked my boyfriend of 5 years when he was going to propose to me because I wasn’t getting any younger. He responded with, “Well, ask yourself are you getting any skinnier? I need a trophy wife, you know?” FML
Today, I told my boyfriend that I didn't want to go out with him because I was having a fat day. After ten minutes of fighting, he threw a ring box on the floor and stormed out. I basically refused his proposal because of my body issues. FML
Today, I was proposed to in a McDonald's. FML
Today, my boyfriend of a year and a half informed me that he had "accepted" my stomach, even though it didn't conform to his "preference" for a flat stomach. He then added that his acceptance doesn't extend to my "chunky thighs". FML
Today, my boyfriend proposed to me by tossing the ring at me and saying "Here, wear this." FML
So romantic
Today, my boyfriend proposed to me by handing me a ring and saying, "Let's get this dumb shit over and done with." FML
Mr Romantic
Today, I was doubting my boyfriend's feelings for me, so I asked him if he found me attractive. He replied, "Well, you're thin enough…" That's all. FML
Today, my fitness trainer husband told me that if I could not make the commitment to stay thin, he could not make the commitment to stay with me. FML
Red flag
Today, the man I've liked for so long asked me out on a date. Three years ago I fell for him and he denied me unless I "lost 100lbs” Now I've lost about 85lbs (not because of him, but for myself) and he wants to give me the time of day. I still like him, but I feel like I have to watch my weight to keep him if I say “Yes.” FML
Target goals
Today, I officially completed my weight loss journey, only for my wife, who'd previously threatened to divorce me if I didn't lose weight, to tell me that she realized she liked me better when I was fat and that "you don't know what you have until it's gone." FML
Top comments
chanellgymnast 17
That proposal deserves nothing more than rejection. You deserve nothing less than the best.
thelinlinx3 10
I hope he's kidding.
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Comments (111)
misspennycakes 7
We're you thin when you met him?
mattlw 25
Hope you said no OP. Love is blind!
outoftown 27
He's saying you're good enough to date, but not to marry. Sorry, OP. On the bright side, you'll feel lighter without this controlling asshole in your life.
monkeyy100 15
Your to be husband should be the one making you feel like the prettiest women in the world not pointing out your flaws.
nerdsgetmehot 23
Besides, not being thin isn't a "flaw" anyway unless you view it as such.
trav_o 8
Whats funny to me is that no one commenting on here is taking his side. Maybe he cares about her health and she took it the wrong way. Yes it may have been rude but wont being healthy outweigh geting your feelings hurt. The opposite sex is just as guilty as far as wanting to change people. So what if we leave the toilet seat up, no reason to get crabby about it.
lilshorti53 1
Why would u even want to be with someone like that? Idc how over weight u r if he doesn't love u for u then HE is what u need to lose
jollyton 10
Yeah! Get thin for your health and when that's finished dump the loser for someone better. That jerk
blackvyper 8
Is that included in the prenuptial?
lucilu89 12
Man I'm sorry OP. That was a pretty harsh thing for him to say. Every body type is different, so if he's wanting you to be über thin just because, then that's pretty shallow. But if it is a health risk I can see the concern. Although maybe he should have brought it up in a different conversation rather than during his proposal?
chosha_fml 27
Did you give him the same amount of time to grow a brain?