Today, I overheard my parents talking about my husband. Apparently, they think he's a nice guy and all, but they don't really see him as "husband material." They think I would have been better off with my ex, who doesn't have a job and hurt me both physically and mentally. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Same thing different taste
Today, I overheard my in-laws talking about me. It started off with light insults and ended with, "People like her are the reason murder ain't always wrong". FML
To be fair and balanced…
Today, I found out my husband is still friends with someone who talks a lot of crap about me. FML
What did she do now?
Today, I found out that my husband, who I've just separated from, and my mother, who I don't speak to because she's crazy, have been bitching about me behind my back. FML
Today, I overheard my boyfriend talking to his mom about me. It sounded like they were planning something for me, like a marriage. They were planning how to break up with me. FML
Keeping up with the Joneses
Today, I met my ex from the college, and he invited me to dinner. Back then, he was rude and a bit abusive, but I agreed anyway. The man I saw today is loving, caring and fun, with a good job, and I really liked his wife. On the other hand, I'm between jobs, and my relationship's turned into the utter bore. FML
Today, after getting into an argument with my dad, he told me that I would make a great ex wife one day. FML
How's he doing?
Today, and at every family event, my parents and grandparents go on and on about my ex and how much they miss him and wish I would get back with him. This would be fine, rude, but fine, except that they tell this to my husband. It's been years and we're expecting our first child. FML
But she's so wonderful…
Today, my parents are so in love with my ex, they still think it’s my fault she felt unloved enough to cheat with another man. They constantly try to convince me to take her back and become stepdad to the child she conceived with the guy she cheated on me with. FML
Badmouthing
Today, I contemplated leaving my husband because his best friend is overbearing and doesn't respect the boundaries of our relationship, all while talking bad about me to him. FML
Welcome to the family!
Today, I met my new boyfriend’s parents, hoping that they would like me. They made subtle, mean comments during dinner and made me feel like total crap, all because my boyfriend left his ex-wife for me. They don’t get that we’re both good and compatible for each other, and that’s what matters. FML
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mermaidkeels 26
Good thing that it's your decision and not theirs. As long as you're happy, I'm sure they'll come around.
snoopy325 23
Unfortunately, people who abuse their SO's are typically very charming and manipulative to everyone around them. If your husband makes you happy, they will be fine. But your husband does not have to prove himself to them, as marriage was a decision between you and him :)
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Comments (53)
Richard6036 13
And your parents know how your ex-boyfriend treated you if they do and they still think that was a better choice then I don't know how the relationship lasted so long
chickypie1987 23
It's your life, Marry who you want. Your parents clearly don't see what you do in your husband
Saraishi 25
Was your ex manipulative? If he was, he might've manipulated your parents to think he was a decent guy that could never do you any harm.
mrBearBear 11
Your life doesn't suck but your parents sure do.
Death69 24
Do your parents know of your ex-husband's abuse? Otherwise, they are pretty ******* stupid to say that. If they do know...Remind them. And tell them to STFU! If they don't. Inform them.
Drac0nian 6
Your parents should really keep their noses in their own relationship. I hope your husband handles this well.
jitterbug1503 12
Maybe you should leave your boyfriend with them for a week and make them pay therapy bills if you got therapy
ericp96 10
Sometimes parents don't always know best or have your best interest
XxMLGGODxX 10
well...**** em.
derpina72 23
When you're reading FML for the funny FMLs, and suddenly you come across one that is serious...Sorry OP, I have this same issue with my mom to this day, and I've been married a year.