unwed
United States
Today, I found out that my fiancé is going to be deployed on our wedding day. FML
Collection
Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Same thing different taste
Guntherdog
United States
Today, my fiancée decided to go on a "vacation." Our wedding is tomorrow. FML
Anonymous
United States
Today, I found my fiancé is cheating on me. Our wedding is in 26 days and everything is already paid for. FML
Anonymous
United States
Today, my fiancée got married. I did not. FML
Anonymous
Gatineau, Canada
Boots on the ground
Today, I learned that my husband is getting deployed for we don’t know how long, and I’ll be left all alone, in a different country far away from home. FML
Anonymous
Reliable
Today, aside from clearing out my bank accounts and having an affair, the kicker was finding out my fiancé planned on taking himself and his mistress to Cancun for his birthday, while I would be attending the Marine Corps boot camp. FML
no luck
United States
Today, I found out less than three weeks before my wedding that my fiancé will lose his new, great paying job, unless we cancel our nonrefundable honeymoon. FML
Anonymous
United States
Today, I found out that I have to reschedule my upcoming honeymoon because my office will be understaffed that week, due to the boss going on vacation right after my wedding. Oh, yeah, and he's in my bridal party. FML
Distraught
Reserved
Today, the day before I was going to move in with my army fiancé, he was told he would be deployed very soon. I can't pay for the apartment without him, and now have to move back in with my parents until he returns from active duty. FML
IDon't
Berkeley Vale, Australia
Today, my fiancée told me she can't marry me. Our wedding day is tomorrow and around 20 of our 180 guests attending have travelled half way around the world just for the occasion. FML
anon17
United States
Shelve your plans
Today, I discovered that my fiancé had responded to an online missed connection posting. He has been emailing, exchanging pictures and making plans to go out with this girl. We are supposed to be married in the fall and just put down the non-refundable deposit on our reception site. FML
Top comments
bogwandis 0
The most she could do is see if her fiance could deploy at a later time. While not likely, the military isn't completely heartless when it comes to these things. Besides, there is no way either of them could've known during the wedding planning that he would be deployed that day. Don't you guys think they would've changed the date if they knew this earlier? If her fiance can't work something out, then she is out of luck. Depending on how close it is to the wedding, it's really difficult to find a day where everyone and everything would work out like you wanted. OP, I"m sorry that this is happening to you. I'm a military wife as well, and I couldn't imagine how frustrating and heartbreaking this is. Let the disrespectful comments begin :)
micheed1 0
aw I'm so soryy
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Comments (199)
baddawg365 0
More like FHL. He's the one being deployed. but thanks to him and the others serving in the Military.
FukYurLife_89 0
welll no honeymoon for you... dam fyl
irunthis25 0
wow ppl on here are just stupid how is this her fault or his ! ? ! dumbass ! !
iwadasn 33
She married a military man. She knew what she was getting into.
quacky123 0
surprisingly most don't and if often the service member's fault.
stevenmx86 8
That sucks op but don't make him feel bad for it..
devil_doc1988 0
best thing to do would be to say your I do's in a courthouse and have the ceremony when he returns.. he'll be making more money deployed AND married and you two will be in a better position to have an even better wedding then in. the first place. good luck with the push. kill
lynniebennie 0
welcome to the life as a military wife. Sucks dont it. I would do it at the courthouse and have a ceremony when he gets back, I had to move mine up half a year because my husband got his orders. Good luck
rien151 19
Good luck with getting his orders changed. The army didn't let my husband stay home even though he had medical orders that he was to. He got deployed three weeks after I had heart surgery. All I can say is do a Justice of the Peace wedding and reschedule the Ceremony in a year or so. BTW good luck getting any military spousal pay for anywhere from 3-6 months. Then a nice chunk of back pay to pay for all the deposits you just lost. I am sorry he is getting deployed but its slim to no chance of his orders changing.
quacky123 0
Meh, it happens. It's not fun, but it's life. I planned my wedding in 2 weeks. Go get eloped and do the big wedding later. No need to stress. If you can't get refunds have the party anyways!
lostonelove 0
get wedding insurance!
mrmikenator 0
Oh man I am so sorry.