Today, after being totally in love with a guy since middle school, I finally had enough self confidence to go and talk to him. Turns out he's boring as fuck. I obsessed over this guy for nearly 4 years. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Same thing different taste
Today, I ran into a guy who I was completely in love with for months. After a couple of minutes, I realised he totally bores me senseless. What a waste of four months obsessing over that shithead. FML
Today, after months of all my friends telling me that the guy whom I was in love with most definitely held feelings for me, I was finally convinced by their words, and with confidence I went and confessed my feelings to him. I was rejected. FML
Today, at lunch, I told a bunch of people how I had been in love with this guy since freshman year. I made a bunch of jokes about how I was going to marry him and our kids would be so attractive. He was at the table next to mine and looked back at me as soon as I finished. FML
Friend in need
Today, I'm literally obsessed with one boy. I've been crushing on him for more than a year now and yet he still decided to reject me. I have been rejected like four times by now, so I don't think this is love anymore, it's definitely more like a obsession or something. I've lost so many people just because of him. FML
Communication Breakdown
Today, I found out a guy I had a thing with a while back thinks I am obsessed with him. This is because when he said that we should be friends, I stupidly thought he was being sincere and bothered to call him all of three times in the last five months. Clearly a sign of obsession. FML
You tried… Yay!
Today, I decided to give things a go with the guy that has fancied me for three years, based purely on my looks. After getting to know my personality, he has decided he no longer fancies me at all. FML
Today, after many weeks of talking to this guy over the phone for hours on end and establishing that we both had feelings for the other, we met in person. He saw me, got an "emergency text," and hasn't talked to me since. FML
Missed connections
Today, I found out the guy I had a huge crush on back in college, and still think of every day, actually did like me back. Except I’ve been married for nearly 8 years to someone else. FML
The truth
Today, I was talking to a guy I met online and have known for four years. I've fallen in love with him twice, one of those times being currently. He was supposed to visit this summer. I got an email from him saying he's really a 17 year-old girl from Chesterfield, MO. FML
Today, my friends and I were talking about the creepy stranger that used to stalk me back in high school. I guess his looks changed a lot through the years because I found out that he's my current boyfriend of four months. FML
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dadaiz 2
That's what you get for putting some guy you barely know on a pedestal.
BulldogHoops 14
It's pretty pointless to be "in love" with somebody you don't know.
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Comments (179)
afkwarrior 25
Why the **** do you think you love someone without having ever spoken with them first?
fantasyworld 39
How are you in love if you've never talked to him?
magnetic_aura 26
Better to know now! Move on to people you actually have things in common with!
bombielol 20
ehhh I feel you, happened to me too
NostalgiaFreak9 43
You definitely deserved that, you're not "in love" with him if you didn't know him personally, you just had a crush. Big difference.
Autistic_Slut 9
you're be delusional, hes probably either really nervous and doesn't know what to talk about or just doesn't have a interest in you
tikatica 17
"Totally in love"
maroongrad 13
Never make that sort of decision after one or two conversations. Some guys take several weeks before they're comfortable enough to relax and be themselves around you. If you have gone on several dates and nothing has changed and no real personality has peeked out, or if he's done something to offend you and make you actively dislike him, then break up. But...it's not unusual for a guy to be nervous about a girl he likes and, in trying not to embarrass himself, comes off as boring, too quiet, etc. Sometimes they are just a lump of boring nothing. Sometimes they're a good guy who is just a little overwhelmed by dating you and needs a few smiles to come out of their shell and wow you. YDI if you are jumping to this conclusion after talking to a guy ONCE, especially after being so interested for so long.