Today, a girl I rejected is making passive-aggressive posts, and posting stories with anti-dating quotes, and “Fuck love” and “All men are dogs”, making me look like an asshole. Am I an asshole just for having free will about who I date? FML
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Last call, bad decisions and 3 a.m. texts you'll regret until noon. Cheers.
Today, a girl I rejected, who is also a good friend, wrote on Facebook, “I’m never letting a guy get close to me again!” when I finally posted my new girlfriend. I avoided posting her before to avoid hurting her feelings because I knew she was still pining for me. Now I feel like an asshole and I lost a good friend. FML
Today, I’ve been systematically sharing stories and posts about how love sucks and man-bashing memes so that my crush would regret his decision about rejecting me and choosing another girl over me. He DM’ed me : “Getting tired of your shit Melissa, I’m blocking you.” FML
Today, I told my guy friend to not put pictures of me on his story when we hang out, to which he replied, “You rejected me, but you continue to ask about my friends. For some reason you refuse to help me out with yours. At least some other girl I know will think I’m a catch for hanging with you.” FML
Today, I ran into my ex-girlfriend from 4 years ago. Turns out she hasn’t found love again since I broke it off with her for her best friend. She’s not the bubbly, cheery girl I met before. I can’t help but feel like an asshole. FML
Today, my whole office is treating me like a pariah because I rejected the new guy who has autism. I have a history of being domestically abused so why should I date a guy who, by his own admission, loses his temper easily and attacks people? That’s right, I shouldn’t. FML
Today, I saw the girl I like had posted a status on Facebook, saying, “I’m sick of being lonely, why don’t any guys wanna date me?! I think I’m gonna spend my life alone.” I asked her out once and she turned me down. When I commented this fact on her post proving her statement untrue, she blocked me. FML
Today, I got dumped by my girlfriend. Apparently, it's my fault because I act like I don't care… and guess what? She's posting little embarrassing details about me on her Facebook wall. FML
Today, ex-fiancee attempted to off herself because I dumped her for someone else. I’m getting blamed for it. They don’t understand that it wasn’t fair to her for me to string her along when I had feelings for someone else. She did this out her own free will. Yet, I’m the “bad guy.” FML
Today, my ex, whom I dumped in 2024 because she stopped caring about me or what I did, is stalking online someone I have just started dating. She went to her workplace, then called me to tell me I'm hers and she will never let "the other woman" take me from her. Not sure if I like the indifferent one or the jealous psycho less. FML
Today, a girl I've been casually seeing just gave me the, "You're a great guy, but I'm not ready for a relationship" speech. A few hours later, I see a video in a group chat of her making out and laughing with another guy, while my other friends just watched and laughed. I'm just done trying, why am I always getting shit on? FML
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Charlie Given 28
No you're not wrong you're allowed to date who you want to date, sounds like you dodged a massively immature or unstable bullet with that one.
Pink_Turnips 14
uhhhhhh no, you're free to reject whomever you want.... just because im crushing on someone and i may want a relationship with them doesn't mean they're required to oblige. they can absolutely reject me. you sound entitled
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dongdong xiang 10
From the sounds of it yes, yes you are. Try giving your all to someone only for them to break your heart into a million pieces. Because of you her faith in men and love will never be restored. Try getting your heart broken sometime and see how that works out for you. YDI
Pink_Turnips 14
uhhhhhh no, you're free to reject whomever you want.... just because im crushing on someone and i may want a relationship with them doesn't mean they're required to oblige. they can absolutely reject me. you sound entitled
dongdong xiang 10
Then that means you didnt want them in the first place if youre okay with them rejecting you. Learn some empathy for christ sakes. Maybe youd feel differently
cuz803 46
I hope you're being sarcastic...
Nikki 17
‘Heart broken’ all she did was ask him out, you need to cool it with defending toxic people
D J's MOM 17
sounds like you've been reading too much Richard pencil and taking him seriously. or are you just trying to pathetically outdo him. you're an ass.
HouseOfM 8
Judging by dong's recent posts they either are a "gimmick" or actually serious. Leaning towards serious seems like a lot of effort for no reason.
Charlie Given 28
No you're not wrong you're allowed to date who you want to date, sounds like you dodged a massively immature or unstable bullet with that one.
RichardPencil 32
Pretty much. When a girl picks you, you give it a go. Unless you're a dog.
Chazzster 32
It’s a lot easier to turn someone down than to be turned down by someone else. But, dating and romance is supposed to be a matter of mutual interest. Relationships are complicated and not everyone is a good match. No one has a right to expect that another individual is going to be interested in them just because they are interested in the other person… Karma often has a tendency of coming back around - turn down the people you aren’t interested in tactfully and gently because you’d want that to come back to you when the situation arises…
Thaylok 17
Not enough I formation to make a call. Why did you decide to call it off? How did you call it off? How long was the relationship? Also, Did you make it a public display when Rejecting her? What kind of a person is she? Drama Queen? Used to always getting her way?
Nikki 17
This is FML not Reddit, just make a decision
D J's MOM 17
you don't really read things through do you? they never dated, he simply said no when she made an advance on her.
poopface82 25
Yes. You’re an asshole. Not because of this or because you’re a man, but because you’re a human being. As a species, human beings pretty much suck.
FluffythePink 24
No. Choosing who you do and do not want to have an intimate relationship with does not make you an arsehole. From what you wrote, she asked you, you said no. That, right there should be the end of it but she is making a 'scene' and is attempting to guilt and pressure you into changing your mind. If you were the girl and she were the boy... Everyone would be jumping up and down screaming about stalking and the rest of it. You are not wrong and she is being a melodramatic idiot about someone saying No to her advances. This is a bullet well dodged. You simply point out that this is exactly the sort of behaviour that you didn't find attractive about her and move on.