Today, I once again confronted my boyfriend about tagging the girl he told me not to worry about in boyfriend/girlfriend memes on Facebook instead of me. He told me I was overreacting and, “it’s just social media!” He told me he’ll dump me if I bring it up again. We’ve been together for a year and a half. FML
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A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, my boyfriend got mad at me and told me to untag him in a picture I posted of us on Facebook. Apparently his girl best friend saw the photo and got upset with him because he never told her about our relationship. She’s no longer speaking to him and he blames me. We’ve been dating for 7 months. FML
Today, my boyfriend of 2 years never posts me on his Facebook, yet his girl “bestie” is always on his tags, comments, etc. He recently went to a party and put a picture of them two as his profile picture. He’s confused as to why I’m upset, and thinks I’m “overreacting.” FML
Today, I saw my boyfriend took me off his relationship status on Facebook. He just left “In a relationship” blank. This came after he added some girl. When I confronted him about it, he screamed at me to the point of tears, and told me to stop worrying about stupid shit. Apparently, I also ruined his day. FML
Today, there was an Instagram post featuring a couple’s vacation spot, saying, “Tag the one you’d love to share this vacation with.” My boyfriend tagged his friend he swears is “one of the guys”. Everytime I confront him over these red flags, he says I’m “overreacting.” FML
Today, I was scrolling through my Facebook newsfeed and I noticed my boyfriend had commented on a post. It said, "Tag the hottest girl you know". Yeah, he tagged his ex. FML
Today, my boyfriend asked me to untag him in our vacation photos together. Last month, he hid his relationship status and hid every trace of me. He says it’s because he doesn’t want any "social media drama" and people knowing about his "personal life." We’ve been together for 3 years. FML
Today, I bitched out my boyfriend for logging into my facebook account and deleting EVERY male (even family) off my friends list. He accused me of wanting to cheat on him and has forced me to say "sorry." FML
Today, my boyfriend of two years logged into my Facebook account and broke up with himself. He is now receiving loads of sympathy, while I'm being accused of lying about it to save my reputation. FML
Today, my boyfriend accused me of cheating on him and talking to other guys in a Facebook group that’s literally called, "A group where we all pretend to be ants in a colony." When I showed him what it really was, he dumped me for participating in something he said was so stupid. FML
Today, I had to confront my boyfriend after finding a girl's phone number next to my bed. He said I was over reacting. When I told him it was over, he asked for the number back so he could call her. FML
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Hangryko 32
Dump him. He obviously wants to be with her, and you deserve someone who fully wants to be with you.
TwoBytesCarley 27
First word that came to mind is ‘gaslighting’, listen to your gut, and leave him. It sounds like he’s already finding excuses to leave you for her “blamelessly”.
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Comments (17)
RichardPencil 32
Are you sure he's not "tagging" her IRL?
Hangryko 32
Dump him. He obviously wants to be with her, and you deserve someone who fully wants to be with you.
TwoBytesCarley 27
First word that came to mind is ‘gaslighting’, listen to your gut, and leave him. It sounds like he’s already finding excuses to leave you for her “blamelessly”.
Anderling 33
You deserve so much better than this. If he won’t commit 100% you need to commit 0% and just leave.
slkeithh 14
girl why would you put up with this 😂 the bar is so low
Thaylok 17
Maybe confront her directly and get her side of the story. Sounds like you may be, "the side chick." It is not what anyone wants to hear. But like others have said, it is best to move on.
Crowned Sataness 12
Girl raise your standards, get rid of his ass. You're miserable, you're obviously the side dish, and he's making you look stupid. never compete for a man, let her have him and find someone that there is no competition
Iifa 7
So he tells you he will dump you if you don't stop bringing this issue up, and you keep bringing this up. I'm going to say, cut your losses and broke up. Both of you have issues, you have trust issues and he is giving out ultimatium. Both are toxic as hell traits, and you will probably to better without each other. Personal point my man of 13yrs has no social media, he has never questioned my tags, messages, and photo exchanges with my friends who mostly are male. I have never felt the need to give explanation, and he never asks. And he knows the tags, messages and other content of my phone. I even go on holidays without him or nights out and mostly with male friends and he never bothers me, only when I'm not home at a time I say he texts me to make sure I'm okay. I don't think either of you are ready to take on relationship if you can't even trust each other on simple stuff, or talk openly, and no trust.
Ginger 2
Dump him!
HayNow 11
So you brought it up again correct? If not, ......... You need to