Today, my boyfriend and I were arguing about how he was too busy for me. During that conversation, he was texting his best friend and then called by his brother to drive him home. Instead of returning to finish our conversation, he left to prepare for his fishing trip with his mates tomorrow. FML
Collection
Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, my boyfriend convinced me to take him 30 minutes away to meet his friends so he could go fishing, adding that they wouldn't be gone all night. I dropped him off 13 hours ago, and he doesn't have a phone. FML
Today, I got a phone call from my boyfriend, who screamed at me for being a f-ing liar and never taking time for him. He'd called my work and knew I wasn't there as I said I'd be. He was right - I was lying. I'd been driving for the past 10 hours to his family's beach house to surprise him. FML
Today, my boyfriend refuses to talk to me because of a misread text. FML
Today, my boyfriend came over and dropped off my phone, which I'd left at his place the night before. He immediately left in a sulk. As I looked through my texts, I discovered he was only so moody because I hadn't answered any of his calls or messages. I'm dating an idiot. FML
Today, my boyfriend stood me up. At dinner with his parents. FML
Today, my boyfriend begged me to spend an extra night at his house. I agreed, cancelled my Uber, and arranged for my pets to be cared for, since I wasn't coming home. Five minutes later, he decided that he had to work tonight instead. Then he got angry at me for leaving. FML
Today, my boyfriend made me feel like shit because I didn’t feel like going fishing, and compared me to his "fake" friends, even though every day for the past two months, I’ve gone every time he’s asked. But anytime I suggest we do something different, he shuts it down. FML
Today, a couple of days after my boyfriend came on a night out with my friends but made us leave early as he had an early work shift, he's now spent the last two nights out with his friends, late, and all my friends are busy and a bit peeved at us taking off early the other night. FML
Today, my boyfriend called me as I was getting ready for bed and asked me to pick him up from the bar. Being a loving girlfriend I drive the 45 minutes; when I get there his friend informs me he left about 45 minutes ago. FML
Today, my boyfriend didn't come home from a night of drinking with the boys again, so I told him that I was packing my things and I wouldn't be here when he came home. After all my things were packed, I realized he drove my car to the bar. FML
Feel like sharing it with the other FML users?
Thanks, your FML was submitted, and will appear in the moderation queue soon!
Top comments
xlossofmex 0
You need to make him choose. A relationship takes two. If he isn't willing to put in time for you then you need to find someone else.
canadian_ftw 8
I would break up with him. if he can't focus when you're talking to him about something that's important to you he doesn't seem worth it.
Add a comment · Reply to
You must be logged in to be able to post comments!
Comments (99)
mpclaw 3
good for him.
markdeshin 3
I'll spend time with you.
phatdaddy62 23
wow, dude, desperate much?
sandabelle25 0
Dont waste the time that he IS spending with u arguing with him and maybe he will WANT to spend more time with you and meanwhile stop whining and get a hobby
Michigan_Girl 0
This is a dumb FML...How did this even get in here?
LEDmonkey 0
op you're just there for convience. from a guy's POV he can be with or without you a this point. drop him!
TheIrishJaneDoe 9
You can change him. He's just never had a girl who can make him realize how all-encompassing true love really is. Encourage him to tell you how he feels several times a day. And BTW, he totally wants you to come on the trip, so you should probably show up as a surprise. He'll love it.
zolziski 11
"You can change him." ^This is probably the most disturbing comment I have read in all the time I've been reading FML. Wow. You remind me of the married sister in the movie Knocked Up when she talks about Oprah saying that people can be trained - you have to constantly put them down til they feel so low that they have to make a change. Loving someone is loving them warts and all, not choosing to keep certain qualities and "working" on the rest. He's not her child. She's not responsible for shaping his character/behaviour. If things go well in the relationship, there will be a natural "change" as he chooses to make her more central in his life and take her into consideration on a more regular basis with the decisions he makes. His ultimate core person, however, will not change. Because people do not change. Not really. If she has a serious issue with something that is fundametally him, then that issue will always be there. She should move on if that's the case.
Cinn_fml 23
Actually, I thought Irish was being sarcastic.
levin1983 0
dump the ************
ryanriola 0
50 Help stop rape say yes.
luvzit 0
lol that's men for you
disconect7 0
smart guy!