Not feeling it
Today, it’s been over 15 months since I’ve had sex with my fiancé. We’re getting married next month. Now I'm wondering if we’ll have sex at all on our honeymoon. FML
Today, it’s been over 15 months since I’ve had sex with my fiancé. We’re getting married next month. Now I'm wondering if we’ll have sex at all on our honeymoon. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, my fiancé decided that we shouldn't have sex before we get married. Even though we've been doing it for years. We can't get married right now due to Covid. FML
Today, it's been 10 months of a sexless marriage. Also my 10-month wedding anniversary. We waited until marriage, and she hasn't wanted me since. FML
Today, my wife and I used to have sex at least 5 times a week, but since we said "I DO" at our wedding I’m lucky to get a shag once a month, and you can forget about blowjobs, I’ve not had one since before the wedding. Nothing about our life has changed to cause this, except we’re married now. FML
Today, it’s my honeymoon. I waited patiently for a year and a half to have sex since I respected her “No sex before marriage” rule. However, my new wife has a new rule: “Sex is for procreation and I’m not ready to have children yet.” How much longer should I wait to make love to the one I love now? FML
Today, it’s officially been 37 days since my fiance has seen me naked and longer than that since he’s tried to give me an orgasm. I’ve lost track of how long it’s been. I don’t want to end up like the people on here talking about sexless marriages for years and decades before we’re even married. No offense. FML
Today, I'm on my honeymoon. My husband and I cannot consummate our marriage, because his penis has an open wound due to… vigorous masturbation. FML
Today, it has officially been two and half months since I've had sex. I've done everything imaginable to entice him, but my boyfriend doesn't seem bothered at all. FML
Today, after a year and a half of sticking to my new wife’s “no-sex-before marriage” rule while we dated, she brushed me off while I tried to consummate the marriage. Apparently, she’s not ready to have kids yet and “semen will get the sheets dirty.” Guess I’ll be jerking it on my honeymoon. FML
Today, my boyfriend of over a year decided he wants us to wait to get married before having sex again, after we've had sex almost every night of being together. FML
Today, my husband and I have such busy careers, we have to schedule sex for when we’re both at home and hopefully not too tired, otherwise we’d never have sex at all. The last time we had sex was on my birthday, in April, and our next appointment is mid September. I really miss sex. FML
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Top comments
FrankHotpants 31
I’m going to assume you’ve already asked them about it or expressed your concerns. If not, going through with that is a mistake. If you’re not happy now what makes you think it’ll get better. Resolve it now or hold off.
core01 30
What you have now is what you'll have after the ceremony. Take a good long think about whether you want this for life.
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Comments (14)
Brightside86 31
This seems really strange, unless it's a religious, or recovery from surgery thing.
core01 30
What you have now is what you'll have after the ceremony. Take a good long think about whether you want this for life.
FrankHotpants 31
I’m going to assume you’ve already asked them about it or expressed your concerns. If not, going through with that is a mistake. If you’re not happy now what makes you think it’ll get better. Resolve it now or hold off.
Wadlaen 24
Maybe she's saving up, so the honeymoon will be REALLY special (remember that there are people who has never had sex before their honeymoon)😉
Crowned Sataness 12
unless fiance has a very valid reason that will pass, you would be a fool for going through with it. a sexless marriage will not last. this is not what you signed up for and you will not be happy. better to call it off now then end up cheating/divorced.
red6joker 8
That's a bad sign.
Jonkbaby 23
Do you think this is something you can work through? There is no shame in postponing
hope jm 5
just ask. that is going to be a major issue, so you REALLY need to resolve it before you get married. please
Max Gahmer 3
Why do people marry others kike this?
Jon Tessler 14
today it has been close to 2 years since my fiancee and I have had sex. I am on multiple medications for my PTSD and MDD. the side effect of the drugs is it kills my libido. I make sure I do romantic things for my fiancee so she understands that my love for her is as strong as it always has been, even with out the sex. you can be physically intimate without having penetrative sex.
Alexander Carias 2
get off those pills and consider cbd asap