Today, I learned my husband thinks that our 10-year relationship has been a "step above mediocre" since 8 years ago, when we got married, and his family melted down that our wedding didn't happen their way, and thus began their undermining of our relationship. He believes it's "no one's fault." Uh huh. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, I realized that over 20 years ago I married a man who could never mature, after we had a marital argument and he couldn't just have an one side, but rather decided to involve our 11 year-old old son, allowing him to repeat his words toward me, like "bitch", "whore", and "cunt." FML
Today, I tried to talk to my soon-to-be-husband about how he needs to take a more active approach in his own life. It devolved to him screaming at me and putting words in my mouth. This has been going on for six months. FML
Today, I found out my husband of 10 years has a online blog. Excited to read about myself, I began skimming, only to find out that every entry is him explaining how he let his "soulmate" walk away 9 years ago because of his "previous commitment" and how he regrets it every day. FML
Today, I finally realized that my husband doesn't love me, but loves the concept of marriage, as many Christians come to love to appease whoever they must. This is destroying the marriage I envisioned for us and building one of regret, resentment, and even hate. FML
Today, I learned how unhappy my husband is in our marriage. Apparently he also can't find a good woman. We didn't have a heart-to-heart, I read his woes in a blog. FML
Today, my husband of 12 years announced that he wants a divorce and that he hadn't liked me in YEARS. FML
Today, I realized my husband is a completely different person than when we married. It’s only been three and a half years since we eloped. FML
Today, my husband of 30 years told me that he thought we should 'just be friends'. FML
Today, my husband and I came clean to his overbearing parents about our private wedding. It started with them accusing him of making rash decisions, and somehow descended into an argument amongst themselves that ended with his mom deciding to divorce his dad. FML
Today, my husband told me yet again that the last two years have been the worst of his life. Our two year anniversary is next week. FML
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RichardPencil 32
A "step above mediocre" is better than a lot of couples are doing. Not too shabby. Still, somewhat shabby, but not excessive in shabbiness.
Warp1978 15
To be fair my wife described me as a room mate the other day and so I welcome you to lock down relationships. I'm sure we will all our relationships will get a lift once we're allowed out again.
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RichardPencil 32
A "step above mediocre" is better than a lot of couples are doing. Not too shabby. Still, somewhat shabby, but not excessive in shabbiness.
Warp1978 15
To be fair my wife described me as a room mate the other day and so I welcome you to lock down relationships. I'm sure we will all our relationships will get a lift once we're allowed out again.
peterblack67 9
You're blaming his family? uh huh
Yummi_913 18
Anyone who defiantly thinks they have a right to make decisions in SOMEONE ELSE'S wedding is probably also meddling in other areas of the relationship and continuing to undermine the wife. So yes. They reap what the sow. They earned their blame.