Today, the guy I’ve been in love with for almost a year, who told me he “wasn’t in the right headspace” for a relationship is actually dating some girl. Every time I try to get close to a guy, they make up excuses. I’m starting to lose faith in love and think I’ll never be good enough for anyone. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, the guy I like, who told me he “is trying to heal from his divorce,” just got a girlfriend. He calls her “the one that made me believe in love again.” I spent almost a year being a friend, supporting his every need, and hopelessly holding it down for him. Good to know I’m not good enough and never will be. FML
Today, a guy I had developed feelings for broke things off with me, giving me a version of the “it’s not you, it’s me” line. This was the first person I had liked/wanted to date in almost 8 years. I think I’m destined to be alone. FML
Today, the guy I had to let go because he told me he didn’t “want a relationship or anything serious” started becoming exclusive with someone else. This is the fourth guy this has happened with. What’s wrong with me? Why am I not good enough to date? FML
Today, I once again listened as the girl I've loved for the past three years ranted about how she’s gonna be single forever and give up on dating. She asked, “Isn’t there one guy out there, just ONE GUY who will love me and cherish me?” When I brought up that I, once again, would love to do so, she rejected me; AGAIN. FML
Today, I have been talking to someone for the past 9 months. He always said he could never give me a relationship. But he loves me. He finally told me it’s because he’s been with someone for 3 years and I’m basically the side chick he fell in love with. FML
Today, I heard the guy I love talk to a friend of his. He was telling his friend how he appreciates all my attention, affection, and random gestures such as buying him lunch sometimes, but he’ll never see me in a romantic way because I’m “too fat for his taste.” I was basically used the entire time. FML
Today, the man I love chose yet another woman over me. For months and months on end I’ve been trying to make him see that I would make a great girlfriend and life companion, yet he dismisses me and chooses other people. What do they have that I don’t? What do I have to do to be good enough? FML
Today, the guy I have been in love with for years decided to tell me all about his women problems and how he can't find someone. After telling him I loved him he responds, "do you know if anyone else does?" FML
Today, I bought a guy I’ve liked for months a Christmas present and expressed how much he meant to me. He said, “Lol, thanks.” He then went on a date with another girl. Apparently, being loving and caring towards guys gets you used and rejected. My lover girl era is now over. FML
Today, I realized that every guy I get with or try a relationship with always ghosts me or friendzones me, and chooses to date someone else. It’s been a repetitive pattern for the past three years or so. I think I’m just going to adopt a bunch of pets and forget dating altogether. FML
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Anderling 33
depending on when he told you that. it might have been the truth at the time but changed as time went on. It might also be that you're just looking to the wrong guys for dates? You could try online dating, or ask a friend to set you up
core01 30
^men like this are trash. Women are better off single than shackled to the entitled man child's who think sex devalues women but not men.
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sadrainindeed 5
feeling the same here girl
Anderling 33
depending on when he told you that. it might have been the truth at the time but changed as time went on. It might also be that you're just looking to the wrong guys for dates? You could try online dating, or ask a friend to set you up
drewbreezy 2
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/CrgpWrTLTuS/?igshid=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng== please look into this man and self identify why you can’t keep a man. If a man jumps from a relationship into another then the last girl wasn’t wife material. this could be because you hooked up on first date de-valuing yourself right off the bat. there is something that is not up to his standard. but I can’t speak for all men or women. it could be him. but you have to ask yourself what do you bring to the table? what is your value you add to his life?
core01 30
^men like this are trash. Women are better off single than shackled to the entitled man child's who think sex devalues women but not men.
Wadlaen 24
If you're ever in Norway, look me up, I think we'd be a good match, and I might be able to bring back your faith in love!