Today, I asked my father if he was proud that I have never done drugs, never drank alcohol, never had sex, never had psychological problems, never been to the hospital for something serious, never been in a fight and maintain good grades. He told me I was a boring daughter. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I came home from partying all night, having stayed completely sober. My Dad, blind drunk, told me he was proud of me for staying sober. He claims to have been sober longer than I have. FML
Today, my dad had a little too much to drink. When he's that drunk, he likes to pepper me with a lot of random questions. He asked if I've ever tried hard drugs, and if I want to die. I answered no to both of the questions, and he demanded to know why not. FML
Today, I told my Dad I was an alcoholic and had decided to seek help. His reply, "Don't stop drinking, you are the life of the party, funny and beautiful when you drink." FML
Today, I was arguing with my husband how he has never told our son that he’s proud of him. Without missing a beat, he told me that when our son gets around to doing something he can be proud of, then he’ll tell him he’s proud of him. Our son is a university graduate and trainee doctor. FML
Today, my parents said they know I don't do drugs or drink because I have no friends to do drugs or drink with. They are right. FML
Today, I caught my 14-year-old daughter stealing alcohol from me. After berating her for half-an-hour I finally said, "At least you're not doing drugs." She gave me a guilty smile and sheepishly said, "At least I'm not a prostitute?" FML
Today, I talked to my father for the first time in several years. I proudly told him that I have been attending Beauty School. He looked me up and down and said, "Doesn't look like you've learned much." FML
Today, I realized whether it's my father, step-bro/sis and even my own mom don't care what happens to me. I stayed away from drugs, have a marriage that is great and kids I love, but none of them can look at me in any way because I have my father's blood. They have no idea I'm extremely suicidal, because I'm quiet about it. FML
Today, I explained to my dad that I had spent over three hours baking, frosting, and decorating a cake from scratch and how proud I was of it. Without even looking up at me, he replied, "You really need a boyfriend." FML
Today, my dad drunkenly confessed that the reason he never gave me the sex talk was because he figured that I'm too weird-looking and socially awkward to ever get laid. He's right, all too right. FML
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ApollosMyth 22
Well, fishing for compliments never turns out as you hoped, does it?
MatteKudasai 17
Well you can rest easy knowing that the FML community are proud of you. Good work!
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Comments (194)
gluttonforsleep 1
Having psychological problems is not something that you choose like choosing to get involved in a fight or choosing not to study for a test. Same with going to the hospital in many cases. Shame on you for implying that and for fishing for compliments. Let your self-worth come from yourself. YDI.
cinnamondemon 8
Don't fish for compliments. Problem solved.
Beth562 1
Do any of those things really make you a bad person anyways? You seem to be rather fickle minded OP
interesting33 37
Psychological problems are not your fault...
buckdharma 38
No NA, AA, MD.s, look at these? No THC, ADD, STDs just A's and B's?
PiNkMoOn 9
same for me.he's like want me to be a crimenal
worldclassrager 41
But that's a good thing...don't worry about it...ask your mother she'll probably be proud...
LulusLemon 8
I doubt you've never done drugs. something as simple as caffeine in a coffee or an energy drink is considered a drug. I think you mean "I've never done any illegal drugs that are 'bad drugs' because my society defines them as illegal and therefore bad." you're not a good girl you're just a product of your society's expectations as to what defines a 'good girl that makes her parents proud'. And yes, that is boring.
ctchan2381 5
honestly that does seem quite boring... its a good thing u never did those things, but its also those things that are necessary for someone to become an adult and gain life experience. You may make mistakes by doing those things, but its the mistakes that shape who we are.
PhantomX20 1
i think you are awesome, dont let your dad get you down!