Today, it's three days until I get married, and I can’t help but be nervous. Why? I wish I knew. I’m not scared of commitment, I’m happy to spend my life with him, so why the sudden panic? FML
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A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, it's five days until my wedding and I still can't tell my bride apart from her twin sister. They share clothes, have the same haircut, and they even take turns flirting with me to "catch me off guard" because they think it's hilarious to trick me. I'm scared I'll marry the wrong one. FML
Today, my girlfriend started to plan our wedding. We've been going out for 3 days. FML
Today, I felt a fear that my relationship with my boyfriend isn’t going to last. There’s nothing inherently wrong, yet I find myself thinking of breaking up with him. A lot. I love him and feel like I’m already part of his family, and that's something I don’t want to let go. I don’t know what to do. FML
Today, I asked my fiancé if we could get legally married at the courthouse before we had the big wedding ceremony, just to quell my irrational fear of being left at the altar. He agreed, then didn’t show up at the courthouse. Nightmare realized. FML
Today, my boyfriend told me he's been having doubts, but he still wants to stay with me. I asked him why he had been so nervous about us and he replied, "I don't know, just thinking about a future with you makes me feel nauseous". We've been together over 2 years now. FML
Today, my fiancé picked today of all days to have one of his depressive episodes where he can’t even get out of bed. We’re supposed to be getting married in four hours, and his episodes can last over a week. FML
Today, I found out that my fiancé is going to be deployed on our wedding day. FML
Today, my boyfriend of 3 years announced that he is not ready for marriage, and won’t be for 'at least' another 2 years. Of course he waited to tell me this 2 days after he had proposed to me in front of hundreds of people, I said yes, and we announced it to all our family members and friends. FML
Today, it's my wedding day, and I have uncontrollable diarrhea. FML
Today, I'm being forced to keep an eye on my cousin, who is getting married in the morning. He’s tried to marry his fiancé before and chickened out at the altar. For some reason she forgave him and now the bride's mother has made it my job to watch him like a hawk until after the "I Do-s", or else. FML
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Crowned Sataness 12
That's perfectly normal. almost everyone feels that way.
J_Free_Woods 29
Are you nervous about the wedding or being married or both? If it’s the marriage talk to him and maybe a therapist, this is normal. If it is the wedding this is normal. Open communication is essential in any relationship. Explain if you can and say you don’t know if you don’t know. Just be honest. Getting married, it’s a big deal, so it’s natural for your body to get freaked out.
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Comments (7)
RichardPencil 32
You have a pre-nup, right?
Crowned Sataness 12
That's perfectly normal. almost everyone feels that way.
SamanthaThe1st 23
It's a big change in your life. It's normal to get nervous over it.
emmalou 19
intuition is unexplained but should always be relied on
lexxiasaurus 31
jitters about a huge life change is normal. deep breaths and maybe a conversation with your soon to be husband about your jitters as well. I'm sure you'll find you may both be feeling this on different levels. especially when all of this is finally coming together after all the planning. enjoy your day and don't sweat the bullshit!
justwanttobesocial...butalsonot 9
Social pressure of it being such a huge event - "the most important day" type of stuff. If you're happy, try maintaining focus on that and try shifting your perspective to it being a party rather than a ceremony. Best of luck! Also - don't forget to eat and hydrate leading up to it and the day of :)
J_Free_Woods 29
Are you nervous about the wedding or being married or both? If it’s the marriage talk to him and maybe a therapist, this is normal. If it is the wedding this is normal. Open communication is essential in any relationship. Explain if you can and say you don’t know if you don’t know. Just be honest. Getting married, it’s a big deal, so it’s natural for your body to get freaked out.