Cheeky git

it sucks but you kinda deserved it for not showing him the door within those 20 minutes

I agree. If it were me those 20 minutes would have been spend driving to a lawyer, not chillin' with him. Also OP, you don't deserve that kind of treatment DO NOT stay with him. An affair is unforgivable!

that's jacked up.

Tell him instant microwave food and a lonely existence is "for dinner"

Slap him

diner? how about divorce papers?

I agree with #64 and #97. I've dealt with a few cheating bastards. They all got the same words. GET THE **** OUT OF MY LIFE!!!!! I don't have time for that shit and neither should you. I don't care what you look like all women are beautiful in their own way and there is some guy out there that will treat you right. and for those twenty minutes I hope you were going through his phone and getting the ****** number. Unless she didn't know he was married/taken. Then she's not a *****. Then you still need her number so you can tell her and he will lose you both. **** DINNER. Pack a bag, Call a lawyer. Stay at a really fancy hotel for a couple of nights to think, order room service and charge it on his credit card. If you have kids take them with you. and I wish you all the luck in the world and hope you find a man that deserves you. In the meantime do whatever makes you feel good. Pedicures, shopping, whatever.

and you accepted it and told him didn't you?

dump his ass fast and find yourself a hot Irish dude to bonk.

20 mins? I wuda gave him 20 secs to get his shit n get the **** out..

divorcee papers

i loved the cooked testicles comment ....anyways its divorce time take all his cash