Today, my boyfriend refused to have sex with me because I have ass acne. The reason I have ass acne is from working out to lose weight. I was trying to lose weight because he wouldn't have sex with me because I was too fat. I can't win. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, I find out why my long term boyfriend hasn't been interested in sex for the last three months. It’s because I’m "fat." While I could probably lose a few, I'm not obese and I'm the one who's encouraging healthy eating and exercise in our house. FML
Today, my boyfriend asked me why I have "crotch acne". When I attempted to explain that I have razor bumps from shaving, he got mad and said I was lying and insecure about my obvious facial and bodily acne problem. FML
Today, my boyfriend said he was no longer sexually attracted to me. He then followed that with, "But don't worry, it's not because you're fat." FML
Today, after 3 months of my boyfriend complaining his weight is making him not want sex, I suggested we go for a walk to help us both start to lose weight. He looked at me and said, "You're too fat to go walking." I'm beginning to think my weight is the problem here, not his. FML
Today, I was trying to be sexy and change in front of my boyfriend. As I was changing, he started to talk to me about how we should both try and lose weight. FML
Today, I was about to have sex with my girlfriend for the first time. When I took my shirt off, she saw my chest acne. She ran out of my house and hasn't spoken to me in 5 hours. FML
Today, my boyfriend sent me a text that said, "I can't be seen with you anymore. You're too fat." FML
Today, my boyfriend told me the reason he can't keep an erection while we have sex is that I'm not attractive enough. FML
Today, my chunky boyfriend told me that he'd be less attracted to me if I gained weight. I have low self-esteem. FML
Today, my boyfriend of four years told me that I appeared to have gained some weight. After realizing that it made me feel depressed, he tried to make me feel better by making love to me. I decided to go with it. While doing so, he paused and said, "I'm sorry baby, but your weight is too much pressure for my back." FML
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Top comments
zara78 4
Girl, you need to dump that asshat. Find someone who doesn’t force you to change
Crowned Sataness 12
why the hell are you still with him?! there's plenty of good guys out there who either don't care what you look like or prefer bigger women. lose 150 lb instantly by dumping his sorry ass
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Comments (32)
zara78 4
Girl, you need to dump that asshat. Find someone who doesn’t force you to change
DragonflyGal 2
A superwanker move. Dump Him!
Anducar 10
I'll need a button "You deserve better".
RichardPencil 32
You don't get ass acne from working out. And any man you hang out with who won't have sex with you (for whatever reason) is not a boyfriend, but a "pal" or a "buddy."
juuuliaaa_fml 28
The sweat can cause acne. Also if shes on a diet that could cause them too.
RichardPencil 32
No, and no. Go talk to a dermatologist.
theyellowgoose 3
I agree with you, however, you can get acne from working out. it's from fabric tubing repeatedly and sweat. she needs to dump this jerk though.
maemae1021 1
yes..you can. heat bumps and clogged pores from sweat. can happen on any part of your body. some people are just lucky and dont get it.
WhataStrangeTripThisIs 24
Always had to fight body-acne more when I was avid about working out. Just saying, it is a thing. Sorry OP. **** HIM!
Crowned Sataness 12
why the hell are you still with him?! there's plenty of good guys out there who either don't care what you look like or prefer bigger women. lose 150 lb instantly by dumping his sorry ass
princess_stabitty 20
OP, invest in some toys and dump the idiot.
coius 23
Good news! Once you lose the weight, you’ll look so good you’ll realize you’re too good for him, leave him and find someone who finds you attractive no matter what. Or at least someone who isn’t a total asshole. This (hopefully soon to be ex) “boyfriend” of yours is so superficial, you can gaurantee that he doesn’t deserve you, as if you end up having kids, i’d even bet he’d cheat using the excuse you gained weight during pregnancy. Also, if he thinks what he said, you can tell him he can kiss your acne’d ass as it’s the last time he’ll see it! Then kick his ass out onto his.
ojoRojo 27
Leave. Him.
sarsuela 29
Keep working out, it's good for your health! Also, based on the limited info we have, dump his sorry ass and it will be good on your mental health.
WhataStrangeTripThisIs 24
Not a lot of information, but he sounds like an awful and controlling human being! Not every guy, and in fact quite a lot of them are not like that AT ALL! I have blemishes and a few extra pounds from COVID stress, and my SO greets me with "Hey Beautiful" many times a day. It doesn't have to be this way. My last relationship was a series of threats of him finding a "younger and hotter chick easily" and I went with it for TOO long. Don't let this douche bring you down. There are knights out there just waiting for a girl like you!
Peter Mally 4
time to dump his ass and find someone worthwhile