Today, it's been a dozen years since I had sex, as my husband is mentally dealing with molestation as a kid by his uncle. Meanwhile, his mother is on vacation with the molester. Yes, she knows. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, it's been three weeks since our 12 year-old son walked in on us having sex. Ever since then he’s treating his mom like she was the victim of some horrible crime and treats me like I should be in prison. He refuses to stop, even though we’ve both spoken to him about it. FML
Today, I'm in 12th grade and came home from school to find out my mother had someone over to have sex while I was at school. She's not had sex my whole life, so the uncomfortable feeling it gave me is different than anything I've felt before. She's been single by the way. FML
Today, the family member who molested me for several years as a kid, works as a social worker in the same building where I’m treated for the unresolved trauma they caused. FML
Today, it's been twelve years, seven months, and fifteen days since my wife has wanted sex. She was drunk. She no longer drinks. Guess my name is Job now and I have to be patient. FML
Today, I found out that my husband of 12 years has been sleeping with my best friend of even longer for who knows how long. She actually tried to turn it around on me and implied that it was my fault for finding out about it. FML
Today, my mom shrieked in horror and burst into hysterical tears when I casually mentioned I was having sex. I've been married for three years. My wife and I have sex. Deal with it. FML
Today, my husband, during casual family chat, told my CHILDREN all about my childhood sexual abuse as I stared at him in disbelief. He doesn't think he did anything wrong. FML
Today, I found out during my eleventh year anniversary with my husband that he was cheating on me with his recently deceased friend's girlfriend. FML
Today, I found out that even though my parents have been married for 21 years, our "family friend," who routinely accompanies us on family vacations, completes their threesome. Everyone in town has known for years, except for me and my older brother. FML
Today, is my daughter's first birthday. Today also marks 1 year and 9 months since I last had sex with my wife. FML
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Charlie Given 28
I hope your husband is seeing a therapist that specializes in that and possibly also seeing a sex therapist to help him
cuz803 46
I hope that uncle faces justice. I'd love for your husband to give him a well deserved brutal ass whupping. I'm sorry for your husband. He should do therapy.
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Charlie Given 28
I hope your husband is seeing a therapist that specializes in that and possibly also seeing a sex therapist to help him
cuz803 46
I hope that uncle faces justice. I'd love for your husband to give him a well deserved brutal ass whupping. I'm sorry for your husband. He should do therapy.
Brightside86 31
Weirdly each state has its own regulations for statute of limitations for something like that. Hawaii for instance, has to be charged within 2 years... That seems super messed up they're practically telling predators that they don't care about protecting children.
rainbowdonnareed 18
Is hevin therapy? Look for a book called Toxic Parents and cut off the outlaws
Hempseed 27
If your husband hasn't gone NC with his mother and uncle, I'd recommend that he does. She obviously doesn't care that her son was molested and is prepared to 100% support his abuser over her own child. Despicable excuse of a person, not fit to be recognised as a mother. I'd also suggest that you try to be a bit more empathetic towards your husband's struggle. Be patient with him and try to encourage him to seek the help he needs. It could be that he's just not ready for that level of intimacy yet. Understandable. The idea of being touched sexually or touching himself sexually could perhaps be triggering some kind of response reminiscent to PTSD for him. I'd also suggest that he reports his uncle ASAP.