Today, the guy I've been dating for 3 months told me he doesn't know how he feels about me because he's not excited when we meet and doesn't miss me when we don't text for a while. He decided to tell me this while we were laying in bed right after having sex for the first time. FML
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A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, it's been 3 months since I've been talking to a guy. He told me that he doesn't want the responsibility of being in a relationship. He likes me and would still like to have sex, but not ready right now for something serious. FML
Today, I received a message telling me the guy I was seeing just wasn’t feeling the “vibe”. This would be fine, if he hadn’t given me the best sex, and the only sex I’ve enjoyed, in years and years. FML
Today, once again, after dating someone for a month thinking things were going well, I woke up to a text message saying, “You’re really pretty and a great person but I’m not feeling a relationship vibe." FML
Today, my long-distance boyfriend of three and a half years told me he was leaving me for a girl he met at his Uni, because, “I’m tired of jerking off all the time and I need intimacy.” He’s only known her for two months. So the three and a half years together meant nothing to him then? FML
Today, my husband told me he doesn't see me in a sexual light. Too bad we've only been married for 3 months. FML
Today, the guy I've been texting told me he loved me and he couldn't wait to make me his wife, and he couldn't wait for us to have kids and grow old together. I've only known him for 3 days. FML
Today, my boyfriend told me he doesn't know what it's like to be turned on. Apparently, I've been doing something wrong for the past two years. FML
Today, the guy I've fallen for and have been dating on and off for 2 years told me that he kept contacting me to re-connect because he missed hanging out with me, but didn't actually have any feelings for me. I already paid for a non-refundable weekend away as his Christmas present for us both. FML
Today, my boyfriend of three years decided it was finally time to have sex. After we did, he told me that he was sleeping with another girl. He wanted to have sex with me to see who was better. FML
Today, I realised that the first guy I've dated in five years has ghosted me. It took a lot for me to agree to go on a couple of dates with him, and I thought they went really well. Apparently not, seeing as it's been over two weeks since he last texted. Self confidence = shattered. FML
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DevilsMetsGiants 30
He really sucks for waiting until AFTER sex to say that. I really hope you don't stay with someone like that. That's just really disrespecting you.
Kirtres 4
Maybe he hoped that things would change after having sex, but realized after that he still felt the same? Not an excuse, but a possible explanation.
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Comments (43)
DevilsMetsGiants 30
He really sucks for waiting until AFTER sex to say that. I really hope you don't stay with someone like that. That's just really disrespecting you.
liinkinparkfan97 34
That's awful OP, but you should seriously dump him. You deserve someone much better than that.
Isamermaid 17
Sounds like he's still... pretty neutral. Personally, I'd break it off. There's no magic, nothing special. You can find someone who feels ALL KINDS of things for you.
myfucxingluck 7
Well after sex things can get emotional and you can let out some more personal stuff, so maybe that's what it is
blissfully_me 16
I don't know why this got so many dislikes... you could have a valid point.
DoomedGemini 38
Because you don't wait until after sex to tell someone you don't really feel anything about them. It is really just getting things out in the open after getting what he wanted. It wasn't a sudden realization, and if you have any doubts you should say something before sex.
brenton490 19
A vibrator can give you better sex and probably miss you more...
lonewolf3400 10
That's a big assumption bud.
species4872 20
Eveready.
Kirtres 4
Maybe he hoped that things would change after having sex, but realized after that he still felt the same? Not an excuse, but a possible explanation.
justamoderator 11
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None of you get it.. I've been in a lot of relationships and what's happening here is that you're not a match. He waited until after sex to tell you because he was hoping that something will develop in him, a connection of sorts that will keep you together, a beginning of love, but it didn't. He didn't meant to use you, and then dump you, he just gave your relationship a fair chance..3 months is more than a fair chance! I usually knew after a month if the person is right for me or not, and after 7 months if that's the real deal or not. If this wasn't your ''first time'' then there's nothing to feel bad about, you both tried and it just didn't work out. Keep your chin up and Mr. Right One will come up one day, just like mine did!
DoomedGemini 38
Op has every right to be upset whether it's their first time or lot. If sex has meaning to them, it would hurt no matter what. And if you don't feel a connection you say something! They deserve to know and decide with all the information if they still want to have sex. If you don't want to tell them cause you know they wouldn't have sex, I have news for you..
FlyinOrion 10
Ah, the classic FML circlejerk. Where one one opinion reigns supreme while all others attempting to cut the other party some slack get downvoted automatically.
FlyinOrion 10
What's the news
RichardPencil 32
He was expecting the sex to be so hot that it would make up for the mediocre emotional connection. Move along, nothing to see here.
lonewolf3400 10
I'm not defending the guy but at least he told you. Maybe he had sex with you to see if that would spark back but idk sorry OP.
NellyFC35 19
Maybe he was hoping for the physical part of the relationship to stimulate other areas but most likely he had bad intentions. He waited until he got what he wanted, enjoyed the chase and now hes over it. Even if he was tryning to see if having sex would help thats still a jacked up mentality. You are a queen and deserve to be cherished not tolerated. ?