Today, my boyfriend of two years took me out to breakfast. So we were eating and he kept on staring at me like he was thinking of something really important. I thought he was going to say "I Love You". So I told him to "say it already". Turns out he was thinking of a way to dump me. FML
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On 11/06/2009 at 3:36pm - love - by Her (woman) - United States (Nevada)
One of the few times I agree that this is an FYL, but next time...don't get your hopes up by "thinking he was gonna say "I love you"".
2 years and he hadn't said it already? Wow. No wonder he dumped you if he wasn't feeling it after 2 years.
#40 - On 11/07/2009 at 12:19am by americayay
OP is first.
You should of dumped him before he could dump you. Just to feel better.
#3 - On 11/06/2009 at 5:19pm by fatherpunk
Of you ever dumped someone before? It's not easy. I'm ofing a problem figuring out how to break up with my girlfriend of 1 year without completely devastating her, myself. If you of a way to do it, let me know what it is. I don't of a clue.
The word is "HAVE"
Learn English.
#51 - On 11/09/2009 at 3:38pm by phatdaddy
Your boyfriend of two years had never said I love you before (which is what it seems from the way you said it)? I think you should have been expecting a break up...either he really doesn't want to be with you or he has commitment issues...
#4 - On 11/06/2009 at 5:21pm by MiddleChild08
that's what I was thinking. If it takes the guy 2 years and he hasn't said it, how could she not expect him to break up. guess he just wasnt feeling it, pity he took so long to decide tho. sorry OP, that sucks.
#27 - On 11/06/2009 at 7:53pm by AngelRaven89
Exactly, I'm all for taking your time but after two years, he obviously wasn't commited. I'm sorry :(
#34 - On 11/06/2009 at 10:54pm by Sun_Kissed18
i don't advocate saying i love you like. a month into your relationship...but if you've been dating for two years and haven't established that you're in love yet...what exactly have you been doing this whole time?
#6 - On 11/06/2009 at 5:22pm by ovrwhlmdbystupid
I'm with you on this one. Two years and no "I love you?" Absurd.
But more to the point: Who paid for breakfast?
Its not really an FYL... Are people not allowed to dump one another or something? Suck it up and move along.
#8 - On 11/06/2009 at 5:26pm by splydoms
That sort of thing happens every day, you're not the only one who has ever gotten dumped. Two years is a long time you had it coming
#12 - On 11/06/2009 at 5:36pm by chingchongbinbin
Two years and he'd never told you he loved you? Sounds like you needed to go to Egypt and get him blown up by Megatron.
#10 - On 11/06/2009 at 5:30pm by gargoyle666
why were you even together so long if he hadn't even told you he loved you yet?
what a waste of time!
It makes me laugh that anyone thinks these are real. I guarantee the majority of the FML's on this site are made up. But that doesn't matter. They make me giggle :)
And if this did happen (pfft,yeah) 2 years and no I love you? Um, yeah.
#16 - On 11/06/2009 at 6:03pm by DanTheBib
You should've dumped him looooong ago, I mean come on he never said "I love you" to you in those two years, that should've gave you some clue that he eventually was going to dump you..!
#17 - On 11/06/2009 at 6:04pm by caligirl805
you all have this completely backwards. the problem was not that he never said i love you after two years, the real problem is that he continually goes around "staring" at people... just saying...
#18 - On 11/06/2009 at 6:28pm by hatemonkey
Should've been like " I was going to dump you anyway..." Extra points is it's in ghetto "I iz waz gonna like dumps youuu anywayz bitch..." hehehehe
#22 - On 11/06/2009 at 6:54pm by scateice
he broke up with you. oh, well. happens all the time. yeah, sure. i'd be upset, too, but a break up as simple as that is not worth f***ing you're life. find some other guy that might actually be better that someone who bugs you by just staring.
I actually feel very sorry for you. I can understand why it would hurt to be dumped by someone after 2 years, and why it would feel very much like a "FML" situation. But I'm sure the pain will subside. My mom always told me, "Things get worse before they get better."
#24 - On 11/06/2009 at 7:12pm by AmazingCatGirl
He probably met a stripper recently and wants to hook up with her, but he couldn't tell you.
What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. And it sounds like your boyfriend's staying in Vegas.
(I assume you live in Vegas because that's where 97% of of the population of Nevada lives.)
#28 - On 11/06/2009 at 8:25pm by FerrariCake
While you shouldn't have been that presumptuous, there were probably plenty of signs that could've clued you into his actual intent. YDI, and yet FYL. FYL, and yet YDI. Meh, there's always a chance of these things in relationships anyway.
#30 - On 11/06/2009 at 9:08pm by blastvortex
Wow... did you really say 'say it already' like it sounds?
#31 - On 11/06/2009 at 9:49pm by BritishHobo
if after two years he still hasnt said i love you, u really should have seen this coming!!!! :S
#36 - On 11/06/2009 at 11:04pm by kravitzz1990
Next time someone dumps you maybe they can send a nice text so you can see if there better way to get let down.
#37 - On 11/06/2009 at 11:35pm by CallMeHush
After two years he never once told you that he loved you? Man sounds pretty horrible. I'd just forget the guy and just move on to someone else.
#41 - On 11/07/2009 at 12:56am by NorfolkDude
is everyone missing the point here? the guy was genuinely honest with her and had the ball to do it in her person and he actually took her to breakfast. the two year no I love you thing us bad though..
wait... 2 years and he hasn't said "I love you"? um. you're kind of an idiot for staying with him that long if that's the case.
#44 - On 11/07/2009 at 2:42am by kindness
I feel for you OP :<
Same happened me earlier in the week, but hey, just read/watch 'he's just not that into you' ! There's probably something in there about waiting too long for a guy to say I love you...
#45 - On 11/07/2009 at 8:14am by FarFromPerfect
200$N IS A CHEAP ASS CELLPHONE! ydi for having a cheap cell phone!
#48 - On 11/08/2009 at 1:17pm by notsoordinary
Two years and he hadn't said I love you? YDI BIG TIME.
#49 - On 11/08/2009 at 5:27pm by hurricanehalie
at least he didn't text u, and isn't afriad to face u, and at least he didn't want to break u.
#50 - On 11/08/2009 at 9:47pm by lullabyy
